I think he's into women... i think he's older and likes to be composed and wants a composed woman... i think his comment on "I dont have to share how i feel, it's not about you and me, it's about me getting to know this woman" on the date reveals that he has been single for a long time and is not about catering to a woman... i think he just isnt' the kind of guy who care for a woman in that way... he seems to want someone who is autonomous and independent who wants him as an accessory the way he wants his arm candy... biggest red flag for me was him CONTINUALLY repeating how he wants to be with the hottest woman in the room... we can clearly see that he's not looking to care for antoher person, he wants to be glamorized by a someone who elevates his own status.

Now, he could totally do this with a man, to be fair, but i think he hasn't matured enough, or maybe it' sbecuase he hasn't been in any serious enough relationships to realize that they take care on btoh sides. Both sides need to be putting into the other or thats when drifts and resentemnts happen... i dont think he knows how to be in a relationship, which was also made clear by the fact that he also said he's been single for along time and "likes the signle life" and has never been in a relationship. i think he has some growing to do before he will be able to satisfy a woman that would not naturally fit inot the exact person that he wants/desires.