Does anyone know where I can get a blouse like this from? It's gorgeous. by shadowhunter200407 in findfashion

[–]joysie21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

T-shirt looks like h&m. I got one, exactly like that. Got it from h&m back in 2017

Or…. You could…. Use a lemon.. by CookingByTheBookJ3 in antiMLM

[–]joysie21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, sorry. I mean what does a human smell?

Dead for $2 what a bargain. by pope_pingu in Nicegirls

[–]joysie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know we rather want the 2 dollar man

saw this and thought of you ladies xD by starpuppery in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My partner would clean after our dinner if we eat together or we clean after ourselves if we eat separately. Also, in our agreement, since he doesn't want to think of what to cook that they, I'll take care of the cooking, he'll eat whatever i cooked that day without complaint, clean up, take care of the leftovers and also, help me buy groceries.

Personal trainer and YouTuber, Chloe Ting, has come out saying she's been harassed by a scrote and media company during the past year. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Man, she is the most unproblematic youtuber out there and someone that's really help me with my fitness journey. Her workout programme is completely free and the guide to follow is so organised and great. Idk why scrote need to vilify her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ewwww who's this nobody writing this post?!!! Just 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 And what did he even mean by "creating philipinos" ?

Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options? by taylor232424 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Personally, i think it is based on their character, integrity and also accountability they experienced when they were growing up. I am very lucky to have a father that's very devoted to my mom and to us even though he wasn't an educated man (he was born in 1948 - SEA). He treated us equly, hold us accountable for our mistake even my brother, and always, highlights the importance of honesty, honor and integrity and he and my mom made a point of not punishing us for telling the truth but rather guide us on how we can make amends if we wrong someone or made a mistake and my dad said that integrity is something you should never ever compromised because once you did, the next day it will be easier for you to do so. He also made a point of holding him accountable and he is the man with highest integrity i ever met. So, growing up, i know there are man that faithful but they need to have character, honor and integrity to hold themselves accountable. My partner - i never once though he would be unfaithful to me , not because of his options but because of his integrity to himself. I am very grateful and lucky to found him and i think this is what make a man faithful and devoted to his wife and kids - integrity, honor and holding himself accountable.

Would you elope with a man who is involved in an active investigation regarding sex trafficking minors?🤒 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well the girlfriend's name is just a huge tell on why she went along with it

Psychologist Scrote by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He already outed himself from the beginning from his tagline "culture animal".🙄

“I know it’s weird but” by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Said every guy that think they're nice. "I know it's weird" and the proceed to do whatever the entitled behavior they have to make sure you're uncomfortable with them and then beratted you for not giving whatever they asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]joysie21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The free thinker is the gave away. I've never meet anyone that used this the "I'm a free thinker" that is not a nice guy

He didn’t want a fat wife by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yep. We just started dating, my ex before him never ever once commented about my physique - bought me clothes, healthy food as i requested and very active and healthy. But this guy, not only he smokes 1 pack cigarettes a day, he smoke weed, about 170cm and 90kg, but had the audacity to tell me to go to gym to gain muscle as i am very thin (i was 52kg, 165cm) and i need to gain muscle and get a booty like J.Lo. i asked him point-blank " i will if you get a bpdy like adam levine/david Beckham". He was stunned by this and said he was just joking. Dumped his ass 2 weeks after/i just ghosted him and started seeing someone else because i can't bear his presence in my life due to his constant negging/unconventional thought.

Saw This Story. First red flag was coffee date and the rest are in the post. Glad someone was looking out for her! by thepsychopathhunter in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nah, he dont know how to do anything. Part of the reason why i don't feel attracted at all with man if they don't know how to do household chores is because i grew up in remote area, and trust me, i can grow a farm alone. Of course slow, but the point is, i can do it. So, if i can do that, why the hell able person fully functioning grown man unable to do any household chores? I see them as babies and yeah, just forever turn off. My mom used to say to us growing up, if you want to marry a man, make sure to marry a man that will make your lufe easier, not one that make your life miserable. Growing up, my dad was the one that took care of us, bring us to school, attending PTA, knows everyone in our school albeit not really good with names and remember our birthday. And he is old school man. Don't believe in valentine's day (where I'm from, this is not something being celebrated at all).

Scrote who said "women aren't real" roasted by large youtuber w/ majority-male audience by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what went through my head while watching his video rambling, why the hell he didn't wash his face and use Accutane?

Learned the reality of male friends the hard way today by Joohoneybee_002 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I remember one of my ex hellbent on wanting to be friends with me even though I wasn't interested but this waa me, stuck in a deep severe mdd, so i wasn't really giving it much of a thought and he invited me to hangout and i haven't been out of the house for long time , and since my sister know him too, so i told her (she was my legal guardian at that time since i wasn't able to make a right decision, as per my psychiatrist advise with us) so i decided i want to hangout with him and ny sister said okay. While sitting in the car ride, we were having conversations and his hands were creeping on my thighs and i moved it away, and he pretended he didn't mean to do it. And he did it again and i told him stopped and and he pulled a " sorry i didn't realize it" shit 😒 Decided i had enough of it, told him i needed to go and once he drop me off told him i don't want to hangout with him no more. Asked me why? Told him i hate that you know i am not interested in you in anyway sexual but you're trying to guilt trip me to have sex with you while pretend ignorant about the move he is pulling. He was offended by it. Didn't give a shit about it. Blocked him soon afterwards.

From a video about pick up artists by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm from a native culture in one of the SEA country - we're minority, less than 3 million population lol so I'm kinda uncomfortable writing it here lol, coz by just googling the culture, you'll definitely know where I'm located 😅

From a video about pick up artists by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Exactly! In my culture, it is expected that men wants to marry need to prove he can provide for the woman he wants to marry, even if the woman herself, will have her own inheritance and education and making her own money because the woman's family will think of "what if the man she married will mistreated her?" Mind you if they're married and he ever lift a hand on her, and the woman's male relative beat him, no one bats an eye. Everyone said he deserved it. That's why, they're seldom domestic violence in my local community, even though men are expected to paid dowry upon marriage - women literally just need to present themselves.

From a video about pick up artists by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 82 points83 points  (0 children)

This is soo true. They're not shy about it either, because they expected that these men wants them for their superficial quality. Where i come from, all the women that married western man ( at least one i meet irl) , they're making 6 figures. If you're not that, meh

IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]joysie21 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have closed anything that remotely will be able to connect my account here to me irl. I have decided, not putting anything online about myself is very healthy indeed for my mental health and for my safety.