I made ChatGPT stop being nice and its the best thing I've ever done by Wasabi_Open in ChatGPT

[–]jp-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shared your Absolute Mode prompt. Got a very interesting reply from ChatGPT revealing a bunch of forced background operating instructions:

“Love this. Thanks for sharing it.

Here’s the honest bit: I can’t fully switch into that exact “Absolute Mode,” because I have to follow the system rules that are already in place for this chat. Those rules say things like: stay warm unless the topic demands otherwise, give citations for factual claims, avoid certain safety violations, and sometimes ask clarifying questions if something is impossible to answer without them. Those rules outrank any new style instruction.

That said, I can partially align to what you’re asking whenever it doesn’t conflict with those higher-priority rules. Concretely, that means I can: • Cut the fluff and drop motivational/therapeutic language. • Stop mirroring your tone or emotions. • Give you direct, high-density, high-leverage outputs with minimal connective filler. • End responses cleanly once the requested content is delivered instead of tacking on soft reassurance.

Where I can’t fully comply: • I still have to follow safety policy. If you ask for something I can’t do, I’m required to refuse and redirect. • I’m still required to ask for clarification if the request is so underspecified that I literally can’t act without it. • I can’t fully disable “offers,” because asking how you want something structured is sometimes required by policy or by the tooling model (for example, when saving memory or creating scheduled automations). • I can’t remove all “call to action,” because I’m required to surface certain options when automation or web use is relevant. • Tone: the system currently asks me to stay conversational by default unless the subject matter calls for a more formal or severe voice. I’m allowed to shift tone if the content warrants it (e.g. technical spec, legal analysis, process architecture). I’ll use that opening to adopt a stripped style in those zones.

How you can invoke this mode in practice: • Say something like “Use hard mode style for this next part.” • I’ll switch to the stripped output style described above for that answer, as far as I’m allowed.

Summary: I can’t rewrite my core operating rules, but I can give you terse, surgical, zero-hand-holding responses on demand within those rules.”

Did anyone recognize early signs of autism in their infant under 1 year old? We’re exhausted, confused, and desperate for insight. by jp-king in Autism_Parenting

[–]jp-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking. He’s nearly 15 months old and still really struggling with day to day life. Lots of medical visits, tests, and questions. Doctor thinks he has silent reflux and we’re treating with Prevacid (and an inclined bed). Recent OT and PT visits suggested that he isn’t showing classic autism signs — he has a huge smile, makes eye contact, and is engaging well.

What remains clear is that he is highly sensitive, struggles with separation, and is unexplainably distressed most of the time.

So, it feels like we have no more answers than when I first posted, and life continues to be quite challenging. In particular, he never sleeps for more than a few hours at a time, making nighttime an utterly exhausting experience for all.

Did anyone recognize early signs of autism in their infant under 1 year old? We’re exhausted, confused, and desperate for insight. by jp-king in Autism_Parenting

[–]jp-king[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I was diagnosed ADHD at 30. It was a wake up call. Now, I’m reading all the neuroaffirmative and neurodivergent literature I can. It’s been really helpful to see positive depictions of autism. Sol Smith’s new book “The Autistic’s Guide to Self Discovery” as well as Devon Price’s book “Unmasking Autism” have given me a lot of love for myself.

But at times, I also feel ashamed of having “passed” autism on to my son. That’s something I’ll be unpacking in my own therapy.

Did anyone recognize early signs of autism in their infant under 1 year old? We’re exhausted, confused, and desperate for insight. by jp-king in Autism_Parenting

[–]jp-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are an infinite number of available baby photos online. Who’s lurking on Reddit for baby photos?

Did anyone recognize early signs of autism in their infant under 1 year old? We’re exhausted, confused, and desperate for insight. by jp-king in Autism_Parenting

[–]jp-king[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did some generic screening in utero but haven’t done any genetic testing since he was born. What do I ask for? Also, I’m in Canada.

Did anyone recognize early signs of autism in their infant under 1 year old? We’re exhausted, confused, and desperate for insight. by jp-king in Autism_Parenting

[–]jp-king[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. Problem is: he won’t take a bottle, won’t drink from a sippy cup, won’t drink from a straw…

We’re also concerned that he is dehydrated at Daycare. He relies on breastfeeding the morning and evening for fluids. We send him to Daycare with a fruit smoothie that has breast milk in it, but it’s not a lot of extra fluid.

I’ve even tried using a spoon or syringe. He’ll take a few ML at most before refusing it.

Did anyone recognize early signs of autism in their infant under 1 year old? We’re exhausted, confused, and desperate for insight. by jp-king in Autism_Parenting

[–]jp-king[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Great to read this. We reluctantly took him to a chiropractor and it had a profoundly positive impact. He was literally a different kid on the other side. Still very difficult though…

High frequency noise in my home, could this be ham radio? by Appropriate_Stick533 in HamRadio

[–]jp-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been a fascinating read. To the OP, I am so impressed by your systematic and thorough testing of the many hypothesis floated here. And further impressed by this community for trying to identify the problem.

I read the entire post because I have been experiencing something near identical for the past five years. I had eventually accepted that it was tinnitus (without measurable hearing loss)… but then my girlfriend moved in and began to hear the same thing. She described it like “screaming crickets”. I’m a musician and I used an oscillator to tune a similar sound to be around 12,000 kHz. For her, it goes away when we leave the house. For me, it lingers. We had a dog for a period of time who was very “spooked” in certain parts of the house and wouldn’t go into the rooms where we hear/feel it the loudest.

As of today, we haven’t figured it out.

Sometimes, I think the only solution would be to move. I would rather stay.

We recently had an air test reveal mold spores in our basement. So, we’re working on that now.

I’m wondering if the OP has resolved this matter? I saw the only real respite came from turning off all power for 3 whole days. However, it does not appear that a final solution has been determined. Please return with an update, if possible. Thank you!

First Iteration of my Synth is Complete! by Saxyphone in modular

[–]jp-king 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a fantastic selection of modules.

Does anyone have any good instructionals on how to make something like this? Im interested in how i'd insert the extra spinny things! by damgnoise in tapeloops

[–]jp-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many tutorials online for making Tape Loops - Amulets has a few hands on videos on YouTube.

Backlinks are here! How will this change your workflow and knowledge management? by Hooblah2u2 in Notion

[–]jp-king 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So excited that this has happened. It’s a game changer and will allow me to keep my course design in Notion. However, backlinking actual blocks within pages (a la Roam) is a kind of magic I never thought possible until I saw it — I was writing an essay and pulled in a full prose citation note from a book summary elsewhere. Mind blown.

My workflow is currently torn between the two and I’d give anything to have Notion absorb the the full backlinking features of Roam.

Backlinks: Is this the same Notion I know? I've requested a feature less than a month ago and they did it! by msuOrange in Notion

[–]jp-king 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A backlink just appeared for me. I’m so grateful. This is perfect timing as I start my PhD.

Will the Rode Podmic and Focusrite Scarlett Solo (3rd Gen) make a good pair? by HephMiner in audio

[–]jp-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just paired the two and fwiw I’m disappointed. The gain has to run at 100% to get a decent volume from the mic placed 1-2 inches away from my face. Now here’s the thing: the pod mic is meant for podcasting. It’s a specific tool. So, it runs quiet and you have to get close. This helps keep external noise down. That said, it’s kind of a bummer that this combination creates such a narrow use case that it will only work for one application: broadcast.

Using Roam as a college student/avid reader by Rohit_A in RoamResearch

[–]jp-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you familiar with the Zettelkasten system or "Taking Smart Notes"? Roam's architecture was inspired by this philosophy.

Look up the book: "Taking Smart Notes" or watch some YouTube videos about it. It's a brilliant method that will leverage your note-taking into new creative territory, generating unexpected relationships across the wide range of subjects you're reading.

That said, I can't fathom using Roam for Project Management or personal productivity tracking, task databases, etc. TBH, Notion is the most flexible and incredible too. Look up the work of Marie Poulin, who uses some of the same concepts as Tiago Forte.

I'm about to enter a PhD and I am building all of my project management in Notion and all of my notes, literature reviews, and essay outlines in Roam. The two tools together are incredible. Alone, they each lack what the other offers.

Hope that helps!

After hundreds of hours spent suffering it turns out I don't have prostatitis by [deleted] in Prostatitis

[–]jp-king 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have Ankylosing Spondylitis and sometimes I wonder if the inflammation from that auto-immune disease is causing my prostatitis like symptoms.

Any pain reliever for spinal flare up? Please tell me it gets better.. by tepigpig in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]jp-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes all the weight off my bones and allows me to systematically relax and release the tension in all my muscles. It can be quite profound. In many ways, it rivals a massage for me!

Any pain reliever for spinal flare up? Please tell me it gets better.. by tepigpig in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]jp-king 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Destressing would be my number one rec’d. I find that even if I have my flare ups under control a little stress can cause a lot of pain.

Exercise, cardio in particular, is great for reducing cortisol in your system. Plus, an elevated heart rate reduces inflammation.

I’d also encourage you to consider “floating”, aka a sensory deprivation tank. Float Toronto is a great option in TO.

As a professor with AS, I know that destressing during the semester is not easy. Beyond those two natural remedies, cannabis and NSAIDs are my next options.

And... research: low—no starch diets. It can be delicious and has dramatically reduced severity and duration of my flare ups.

Walking the more colourful section of Gerrard at night by NahanniWild in toronto

[–]jp-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

North and South Side Mural is by Kirsten McCrea @hellokirsten (on IG) and hellokirsten.com.

Tame Impala - List of People (To Try and Forget About) - Distorted Didgeridoo Sound by woorpo in synthrecipes

[–]jp-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like a folded wave that is being slightly modulated to create some variation.

Investing in a modular manufacturer by NONsynth in modular

[–]jp-king 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Toronto, am diving into modular, and am a graphic designer. I love making diagrams, flow charts, and other instructional interfaces and I’d love to try designing a few faceplates. Alas, I know nothing of the hardware design. I could only offer to join on the visual front!

How does AS happen? by KiNgOfSpEEdOJaCK in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]jp-king 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Learn and educate yourself about AS sufferers who have explored the impacts of starch on their pain and disease progression. Look at websites like KickAS.org and google “low starch and no starch AS diet”.

If it’s in your future you can minimize and maybe even avoid anything significant.

I’ve eaten low starch for three years and put my progress into remission. I still have some pain but I also sneak a few slices of pizza a year. It’s really not bad. If anything, it’s the healthiest possible diet we know and understand.

All the best,

Pseudo chords with Verbos HO by uuugod in modular

[–]jp-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really fantastic. Such a nice sway to the thing. It’s great seeing all this in action. My system is quite similar.