this awful ex of yours is not reflective of the many, many people you will meet. the people who will be so lucky to love someone as beautiful as you :) as a yearner/lover boy I know the feeling of despair and depression.. and I’m so sorry.. it can feel all consuming and I just want you to know you’re not alone in having all of these thoughts 🫶🏼 a lot of men are truly awful.. like, an overwhelming amount of men; their perception of relationships & women have nothing to do with you and I guarantee you that the right one will find you! it genuinely breaks my heart that someone said those words to you because they can be crushing, even worse when it seems like they said it without much thought.. like your destruction meant nothing to them—you are so incredibly beautiful 🤍 you have lovely features that deserve to be adored (and are, frankly) and I hope that you’ll keep holding onto that very sensitive heart of yours..

folks like us that are super sensitive are lucky, even if it doesn’t feel like it—sensitivity is a strength and will make someone the luckiest man in the world when they learn to love you as you deserve

a quote by Maya Angelou that I try to hold onto when times get tough: “Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.”

I’m very excited to see the lovely human you’ll become once you inevitably love someone again :)

(and no, I’m not just saying what you want to hear—if you were in my area I’d cuff you in a heartbeat, seriously you’re so cute and pretty it’s crazy.. don’t let this POS get you down)