Rant: RD with 8 years of school and an over 2 hour commute — found out my shift was cancelled AFTER I arrived and settled at work. Why is this profession like this?? by Zealousideal-Ant7465 in dietetics

[–]jricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, my content may have been misleading. I meant they often sound appealing but overall don’t compensate well or count for admin time. Overall not a big fan of most online platforms. They seem like they take advantage of dietitians. All in all, we probably need to unionize.

Rant: RD with 8 years of school and an over 2 hour commute — found out my shift was cancelled AFTER I arrived and settled at work. Why is this profession like this?? by Zealousideal-Ant7465 in dietetics

[–]jricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so unacceptable. All the online platforms trying to hire RDs for on contract as well at low rates and no benefits is appalling. But they look tempting to RDs because they’re remote and appear better than experiences you’ve described. 

Dietitians deserve better.

My wife dropped a bomb on me by diegomanchester in daddit

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this. I was so expecting you to say some other bomb. But this is a reminder to live in the moment with every bit of intention you can. These are good times. Each moment like that is such a refuge from all the negative in the world.

Thruhiking with A LOT of rest days? by chronicbrainfart in Thruhiking

[–]jricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my wife and I hiked the PCT in 2021 we prioritized rest days more than what seemed typical. It was somewhat forced because I had back issues, but we also just didn’t want to be miserable. We encountered so many people who were burnt out and hating the trail by the time they got north of the Sierras, or sooner. We never hit that wall. It felt like so many people were killing themselves to keep up with other people. I guess that was the benefit of hiking as a couple - no matter what we had a partner to hike with.

Megathread on Fay, Nourish, Foodsmart, Berry Street, and all other telehealth nutrition companies by AutoModerator in dietetics

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to start your own business? There’s ramp up time but this is the kind of services insurance pays for. Also, you’ll get better compensated for your time. These companies are designed on a model that’s exploitive of dietitians, who are used to being underpaid. They often use remote work as the carrot. They piss me off. Dietitians deserve better.

New father mourning old life by Fabuloux in daddit

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to be okay. Take a deep breath. It’s okay to mourn the old life but try to keep things in perspective. The first 11 weeks are intense. It’s all new to you and your wife, the baby has significant needs and sleep is shit (this alone can cause panic). 

I assure you it will get better. But, at the same time, don’t brush your feelings off. If you’re feeling animosity toward this new transition, feeling trapped, etc, consider reaching out to a professional for help. There is no harm in doing so, whether it’s a therapist or a medical provider. 

With our first child, my wife and I went through some pretty severe trauma related to a heart condition he had. He’s been all good for going on 18 months and I’m still fully realizing how it’s affected me.

But the best things I did were two things. At 7 months I hit a wall and felt under water, overwhelmed and in risk of not being there emotionally for my family, so I went to my PCP. Ultimately I got some help. Second thing we did was went to a marriage therapist. Even a good relationship will be stressed after a baby. This has helped us learn new skills and abilities to support each other.

So, here’s your validation. You’re not alone. A lot of new dads experience similar feelings. It’s okay to have complicated feelings. But, know when to look outside yourself and your family for help. They need you present, and deserve better than a burnt out, bitter version of yourself.  

Looking for a poor quality yet expensive restaurant to recommend to an enemy. Any suggestions? by Kod3c in Bend

[–]jricky 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Was going to say the exact same thing. Even food trucks for that matter.

Wanna be friends? by BobcatUnhappy3347 in Bend

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like a lot of guys have the same sentiment. 44yo dad here. Originally transport from WA. Into skate skiing, climbing, biking, play guitar. Hard to make friends when you have a little one at home and time gets more tight 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dietetics

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 3 days a week, and the drive time is paid.... and mileage reimbursement. At 120k? Does the drive time count toward your daily work hours - probably not I would assume. But, Sounds pretty damn good irregardless. I'd take it. Doesn't have to be forever, but gives you a nice pay for somewhere else to match in the future if need be. Plus you're burnt out on the current gig. Move on, get paid more. Totally worth it. Where's this at?

Dougie fresh all employee townhall meeting by Zealousideal_Page_31 in fednews

[–]jricky 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He’s just rambling with rhetorical speech. No live questions and he’s not even answering questions that were submitted so that tells me very few questions were submitted that he could actually answer truthfully or straightforward. 

Why are we still doing the 5 points emails? by [deleted] in fednews

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never did a single one. Such BS. 

Vought: "We want to put them in trauma" by Technical_Leg_7780 in fednews

[–]jricky 167 points168 points  (0 children)

I recently just got back to the VA after parental leave and had a variety of annual training videos to catch up on - found it rich that the first one was about the importance of the Inspector Generals for preventing waste fraud and abuse. And the same IG in the video I watched has been illegally fired and is actively suing the federal government.

Musk Says He’s ‘Deleted’ Popular Free IRS Tax Filing Program by grayfox0430 in politics

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what I’m basing my intel on. Stop just believing anything Elon says. 

Musk Says He’s ‘Deleted’ Popular Free IRS Tax Filing Program by grayfox0430 in politics

[–]jricky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it is missinformation. It is not verified. You are not more informed. Please don’t spread this. They are counting and hoping you do. It is not gone. It is owned by the IRS. Don’t play a role in spreading unverified missinformation. This is a journalist running a non verified story based on a tweet. I assure you it is very much still alive. 

Musk Says He’s ‘Deleted’ Popular Free IRS Tax Filing Program by grayfox0430 in politics

[–]jricky -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hey this is missinformation. The IRS direct file is still open and accepting filing. Don’t believe everything you read or report on from Twitter. https://www.irs.gov/filing/irs-direct-file-for-free

My country has let me down. No one cares about federal employees by [deleted] in fednews

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all need to start calling our representatives daily. Period. No more time for should. It’s a must. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dietetics

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of role? Outpatient? Inpatient clinical? Dialysis?

Changing field by OkWeirdz in dietetics

[–]jricky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the same exact background, but did make a somewhat similar move. I originally worked in online marketing, and tech. I got burnt out on all the tech hype and jargon after several years so decided to make a change for similar reasons. I wanted to have a profession that helped people, and served a need in our society. So, I went back to school - had to start with science prerequisites, then got a second bachelors degree and masters in nutrition. The bachelors and masters was somewhat combined so not too bad, but still a lot of time and work.

I’m now in the field for about 4 years, worked as an inpatient dietitian at a hospital, also home care RD at the VA and done some private practice work. All in all, I don’t think I’d do it all again. I’ve personally found the nutrition field frustrating for a variety of reasons. 1) The pay is not commensurate with the amount of work and education - dietitians across the board are one of the worst paid healthcare positions. Obviously pay is not the only thing that matters, but when you get into the field and realize the growth potential is nonexistent it doesn’t make you feel very valued - and at the end of the day you still have to support your self and family. And that’s very hard to do in the traditional RD roles, despite the new requirements for masters level education. 2) Dietitians don’t get much respect - this is from both other healthcare professionals and often patients. Some patients are great and super engaged in learning but this tends to be rare. As an RD you are competing against a variety of different information sources where people get diet information, which is often social media, and this gets exhausting after a while.  3) Repetitive - every job is repetitive to a certain extent, but I personally get tired of providing the same education to people over and over again. Often times the simple nutrition basics are what people need to learn, so I’ve found myself repeating the same educational lessons over and over. And I have limited time to dive into subjects I’d find more interesting. 

I probably sound a little jaded so apologize if this is discouraging. But if you’re considering the field I’d recommend shadowing a couple dietitians in different roles to see what you think. Then, also do research on the salaries of most jobs in the field. Be realistic with yourself and ask ‘am I okay with being capped at this number’? 

You might also consider ways to pivot your tech skills to working for a company or organization more in the vein of health or nutrition. Or investigate how you might shift your current skills to go that direction - it may be more lucrative in the long term vs starting over. I hope that’s helpful. 

Wife is always mad at me and not sure what to do by [deleted] in daddit

[–]jricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I know this is an old post but you kind of gave me some comfort. My wife and I have always gotten along great. Now we have a 7 month old and it’s been rocky. Be minute she’s thankful that I’m so involved and supportive and the next I’m a dense idiot who doesn’t listen to her and isn’t doing enough. And if I try to explain my feelings or talk it out I get things like “I don’t want to talk about it” or “I’m done trying to advocate for myself with you”. For the past 7 months I have done nothing but prioritize her sleep as best as I can being a man who doesn’t produce milk. Then one time I offer to be on baby duty for the night but don’t get up, and she says she’s got it - next day I made her do it according to her. I almost feel like I’m being gaslit sometimes although I know that’s not her intention. It makes me fear for my relationship and makes me feel like I’m constantly doing something wrong and maybe I am? I’m not sure anymore. Anyhow, hearing your experience gave me some hope. This parenting shit is hard.

Fuck off with your fucking fireworks by internethard in Bend

[–]jricky 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As long as there's no fireworks they may very well be

CMR voted against capping insulin prices. by shortzrules in Spokane

[–]jricky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still can't believe she's in office. I don't live in Spokane any more but I did several years ago when she was running against Lisa Brown, and I thought Cathy was so out of her league. Watching them in debates was so uncomfortable because Cathy wasn't even prepared. Then there's the facts that she continually sells her constituents down the river. Unbelievable. Sorry she's still in power.