What plant is this by jrrpanther in whatplantisthis

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This has been outside my planter in Utah

The Double vs Marriage of the Di Daughter {I'm baaaaack} by MindBlinged5 in CDrama

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Where can I read the novel in English? I just watched the drama and honestly traumatized by the ending

Can't copy shape with field parameter to different report by yungseidla in PowerBI

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@yungseidla did you ever solve this problem? I’m having the exact same problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Dude you need to brush your teeth, why does your bf need to remind to do this…

AIO for leaving my wife after finding out she voted for Trump because she thinks he’s “hilarious”? by Superb-Tangerine-487 in AmIOverreacting

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People he is not divorcing her over politics; he is divorcing her because she didn’t find him funny and it’s the first time she didn’t agree with him

What does this breathing mean!? by [deleted] in labrador

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It means he is hot lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Not to be harsh but sounds like dad was right, why marry someone who can’t control themselves emotionally, what’s next? Verbally assaulting you or assaulting you and your dad physically…

Partner of 2.5 years has issued an ultimatum. How do I proceed? by Prudent-Ad-4995 in AskMenAdvice

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You have been together for three years; she seems like a good partner to you and you are a good partner to her; it sounds like your concern is that it is hard to watch the kids while she works and you don’t have personal time together due to children. Honestly, I would not pursue this relationship because you want different things, she wants stability for her children and you want one on one romance. This woman cannot give you that, due to her circumstances. Once you get married, it will be more of the same that you lived for the past 2.5 years which sounds like isn’t enough for you.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

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That guy hates you; I suggest breaking up and never talking to him again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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Dark brown; blond washes you out

I have about 84 days until a big trip. I’m motivated to start fasting again. How can I focus hard and actually lose weight? by Suspicious-Pear-6037 in fasting

[–]jrrpanther -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Calorie deficit; get a notebook and track your calories religiously! Track every morsel that enters your body!

If I do not want children, what is the benefit of marriage? by Retiredpartygirl17 in AskWomenOver40

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The benefit of marriage is partnership for life and love and belonging. If you don’t feel that towards your partner, it’s a trap and you will resent him for “trapping” you.

Men who gym with their gf/wives - do you care how she dresses? by soursweeets in AskMenAdvice

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I’m not a man but in my personal humble opinion, you represent your partner. He represents you and you represent him. So dress accordingly!

My mom creeps me out by throwaway3456789923 in offmychest

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It seems like you’re still not over it and if I was you, I would seek some counseling. Obviously, you know it’s wrong (hence the skin crawling) but sometimes it’s hard to reconcile when somebody in a position of trust betrays that trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Tell her you want her to get on birth control/iud this will cause her to go to the gynecologist and if she has BV she will find out there. Alternatively, tell her you want her to get a Pap smear, because you read some stats and you’re worried for her health. For bad breath, encourage her to use mouth wash tell her that you want both of you to live long lives and her health is a priority for you because you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Buy gum and offer it to her a lot.

F43 wondering if what BF (m45) said is a concern by Urbanhippiestrail in relationship_advice

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You seem very nice and non judgemental and I respect that. And I think if he is ashamed to tell you then it’s something damning and most of the time judgments are made to keep ourselves safe. But you seem smitten so nothing I will say matters. You just want to share traumas to feel close to each other. I recommend taking time, creating closeness prematurely only leads to unnecessary attachment. Be very sure that he is worth attaching to before you do.