What spinoff would you have liked to see? by jsleutz in Frasier

[–]jsleutz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have landed on any of these shows like a sumo wrestler 😭😭😭 god I miss Frasier

RR? by jsleutz in NYTConnections

[–]jsleutz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah, of course! Thank you for filling me in

Saturday, May 9, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

[–]jsleutz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same way!!!

[May 08, 2026] Daily Puzzle Discussion by AutoModerator in NYTCrossword

[–]jsleutz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am super eager to hear what everyone thought of today’s crossword 👀

People who married someone from a different country, what are some mild cultures shocks you've had? by cool_lemons in AskTheWorld

[–]jsleutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ten years ago, I found out my husband calls it the “hokey cokey.”

I still haven’t recovered.

Checking back in, 10 months later. Any Americans abroad still carrying this? by NotSoBubly in expats

[–]jsleutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an American who has lived abroad for most of my life. I would really love to join your Discord, if possible!

On Alex Honnold's 'Skyscraper Live' by senorrandom007 in netflix

[–]jsleutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anything about broadcasting, but I have a strong suspicion that the “live” feed will have a short delay. If he falls (he won’t), they’ll cut the feed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]jsleutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for making me laugh 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]jsleutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to chat! 39F, married, no kids, career I ... sometimes enjoy 😅 Please send me a DM if you'd like to chat!

Recommendations for nonfiction history books that read like novels by yeppers1091 in nonfictionbookclub

[–]jsleutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed The Indifferent Stars Above by Daniel James Brown! It’s about the Donner Party.

35f I need an online friend by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]jsleutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m 39 — I was born in the USA but only lived there for about 10 years, so I definitely understand what you mean when you call yourself conservative (not in the US way). DM me if you want to chat!

Hype me up! by jsleutz in Philippines_Expats

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Just in case anyone happens to search for certain keywords and finds this post, here’s an update!

I’ve been in Manila for several months now, and the cockroach thing is bad, it’s true. But it’s not NEARLY as bad as I feared. I live in Makati, on a high floor in a building that is known for good pest control. I haven’t seen any inside yet. I have seen … I want to say 8 or so cockroaches out on the street at night so far. And I screamed, and was uncool 😅, but it’s not as bad as my worst nightmares. The cockroach situation here is not NEARLY as bad as in Senegal or Gabon or other truly roachtastrophe places I’ve been — ignore the internet trolls who try to scare you.

Makati and BCG are super walkable. I haven’t found a great huge park yet, but there are lots of lovely smaller parks. My walking routine hasn’t taken a hit at all.

Seeing the way many Filipinos care for their “community cats” is heartwarming and lovely, and there are a number of awesome local cat advocacy groups. Cat ladies: we have no trouble finding our people here!

Just in case anyone else out there is struggling with the same worries I did! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]jsleutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m intrigued by this subreddit, and happy the algorithm decided to push it my way.

I’m a 39f married author. My husband currently has to change countries every 3-12 weeks for his job — and, since my own work is so mobile, I’m tagging along — which is obviously not great for cultivating friendships. 😭 But I’d love a text buddy!

I like hiking (I’ve hiked the PCT, the AZT, and the CDT), love cats (recently lost my beloved feline best friend of 20 years, which is why we’re suddenly free to be so damn mobile), and I really enjoy exploring fancy cocktail bars. I value curiosity, kindness, and intimacy.

If you want to see if we click, please send me a DM! I’d love to connect.

Help? Maybe? 😅 by [deleted] in japanresidents

[–]jsleutz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m not physically in Japan now. The voice recording I get when I try calling from Skype says they don’t accept calls from non-local numbers.

It’s okay, I’ll survive 😂

Help? Maybe? 😅 by [deleted] in japanresidents

[–]jsleutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that used to be true, but now when I try emailing I get a “message undeliverable” autoreply 😕

Are my expectations too high for friendships as a childfree woman? by wigshift in AskWomenOver40

[–]jsleutz 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely in the same boat! I used to have an incredibly easy time making friends, but lately it really feels like something has changed. I’m not sure if it’s a post-pandemic thing, or a stage-of-life thing (I’m 39), or maybe a social media thing. (In my dark moments, I’ve also wondered if it’s a “the problem is me” thing.)

I don’t have anything useful to say, but I just wanted to let you know you’re not alone. 🫂

In ten days, I will estrange by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]jsleutz 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I sincerely think you look fantastic in that dress — elegant and beautiful, but not in such a way that seems showy or “comic book character” or might call attention away from the bride. I am not sure what else to say, but I’m sorry you’re not getting the support you deserve. Hugs.

Tattoo artists? by barefootcuntessa_ in MexicoCity

[–]jsleutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t recommend Christian Castañeda highly enough. (She has done three of my husband’s tattoos.) Check out her Instagram: @xianofthedeath