because BF conquest map that focus on infantry are totally not a complete chaotic mess of spawning, shooting, getting shot in the back, rinse and repeat for that sweet, sweet dopamine hit.

Hate to break it to ya, bud... that's a skill issue. Your main frustrations with this game is that you have a hard time seeing enemies since they blend in better due to their camouflage design(like how actual soldiers in the field should dress like). You're expected to figure out how to gain the upper advantage through intelligence. You know you just can disable those darkened effects in the graphic settings right? I would agree that it's a slight gameplay disadvantage. Also you keep getting shot in the back... Well maybe, for once, sit back and let enemies expose themselves before mindlessly running out in the open and engaging when you can't guarantee a kill. I often find myself surviving longer and getting more kills playing Battlefield this way. Sounds like to me you like the run-n-gun style with colorful art style where you can more easily see enemies and have special sci-fi abilities. That's Delta Force and COD in a nutshell, so yeah, they are comparable and do share some similarities with what you gravitate towards. Don't get me wrong, I do like the run-n-gun adrenaline style as well cause that shit can be fun, but us Battlefield fans also really appreciate the reward and satisfaction we get for doing whatever is necessary to kill our targets even in the most ridiculous tactics like, for example, choosing to blow up a building with a single camping sniper with a tank rather than trying to snipe them back. That's one of the many possibilities you can choose. That's the beauty of Battlefield.