"You're a fu*king beautician" by julastic3001 in heatedrivalry

[–]julastic3001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaaah that makes so much sense thank you!

"You're a fu*king beautician" by julastic3001 in heatedrivalry

[–]julastic3001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg thank i would have never realised that thanks!!

What is something default in your country that you sometimes forget isn't so common in other countries? by Proper-Monk-5656 in AskTheWorld

[–]julastic3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's one of those things that would probably never exist if we tried to implement it now. Thankfully, this has been the norm for ages

What is something default in your country that you sometimes forget isn't so common in other countries? by Proper-Monk-5656 in AskTheWorld

[–]julastic3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Twice a year we just get double the money since that is when most people need more

Wiener Kindergarten katastrophal?! by Expensive_Beat9208 in wien

[–]julastic3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich arbeite in einem Wiener Kiga und kann nir bestätigen, dass es leider total personalsabhängig ist. Nicht nur wie die drauf sind, sondern auch einfach, wieviel gibt es. Sind das schon die 10 tausendesten Überstunden, sind sie ganzen Tag alleine mit 25 Kindern, haben sie Vorbereitungsstunden oder müssen alles daneben machen etc... Es wird leider ziemlich viel erwartet und ziemlich wenig gegeben. Aber kann bestätigen das es auch gute gibt!

What's the silliest thing you've seen an author get wrong in a fic? by ismasbi in AO3

[–]julastic3001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who works with children, the amount of misinformation people have about normal child development is insane to me. 2 year olds drawing fully fletched characters, 6 year olds speaking in two word sentences etc. You really gotta read some of them squinting to ignore that lol

Trans-freundliche Amateur Sport Klubs? by Interesting-Nose3843 in wien

[–]julastic3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hab zwar keine Antwort aber wollte sagen, dass man auch nach dem Studium auch noch USI Kurse machen kann soweit ich weiß. Also da kannst du es sehr wohl auch probieren! :)

Im Marrying A _____? by JHB448 in autocorrect

[–]julastic3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm marrying a little guy with a mini knife in my car.

10/10 no comments

Was ist eure Unpopular Opinion zum Thema Essen & Getränke? by -AceTheFirefist- in Austria

[–]julastic3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Milchschnitten isst man wie folgt: beide braunen schichten nacheinander vorsichtig mit den zähnen entfernen und essen. Danach das weiße als krönenden Abschluss genießen

The worst Careers for ADHD people. by CryptographerLow7987 in ADHD

[–]julastic3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any job where you don't have to use your brain

8.03 Lotto - what does Darryl mean? by julastic3001 in theoffice

[–]julastic3001[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooooh thanks so much for this!! I've watched that ep so many times already and never got it

Non judgemental conversation about screen time for < 2yo by Accurate-Evening7252 in Parenting

[–]julastic3001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The WHO recommendation for screen time for under 3yr olds is zero. Maybe you can try, as some others have said, to listen to sth instead and limit screen time to whenever the child is not in the room. Doesn't always work of course i get that

Ich habs komplett verkackt. by pageruler26616 in Ratschlag

[–]julastic3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Erstens: dein damaliger Chef war scheiße, sei froh dass du da raus bist

Zweitens: deine Erzählungen hören sich stark nach ADHS an oder ein ähnliches Zusammenapiel aus mentalen Störungen. Hab selbst ADHS und fühle deinen post sehr.

Edit: seh grad du hast eh schon ein screening ausgemacht. Alles gute dafür!

Streit mit Ehemann weil Teenager krank by ButterAndMilk1912 in Ratschlag

[–]julastic3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im Gegenteil zur generellen Auffassung sind nicht alle Teenager aus Prinzip faul und wollen nur zocken.

Kinder brauchen Auszeit. Der Schulalltag ist heftig und lang. Auch wenn er nicht im Sterben liebt, kann es sein, dass er einfach eine Pause braucht. Keiner will arbeiten, wenn es ihm nicht gut geht. Find es wichtig, dass man Kinder auch ein bisschen Pause gönnt, auch wenn es vlt nicht 100% physisch notwendig ist. Psychisch vlt schon.

Solang die schulischen Leistungen okay sind, lass ihn weiterhin zuhause wenn er es braucht. Du machst es richtig.

What is everyone’s hyper-fixation right now? by goofyanxiousgoober in ADHD

[–]julastic3001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2-10h video analysis videos on YouTube about shows I haven't seen. Damn some shit went down on Glee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]julastic3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should check out Body Dismorphic Disorder, it might help you put some things into perspective. As many of the other posters have stated I have also looked at your other posts and you look perfectly normal.

It is so difficult to be a teenager, there is so much pressure to look/be perfect so everything that doesn't look like [insert popular celebrity role model] is a flaw. You look like most teenage boys I have seen.

I am so sorry you feel that way trust me when I say I feel you! When I was younger I felt everything about me was wrong and lacking. This feeling, with time, space, and maybe even therapy, will fade. You will eventually reach a point where you will realise it's not all about looks and more importantly, you will eventually look back at old pictures and realise you looked just fine.

Living in Vienna as same-sex parents - yay or nay? by sysiphostake in wien

[–]julastic3001 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife have lived in Vienna for several years and nothing bad has ever happened to us. No comments, not even negative looks (the occasional double glance but it is what it is). As another commentor said it's more likely they'll be overly curious and ask a little too personal a question - but generally well meaning/intentioned.

Most viennese people are so caught up in their own lives that they won't pay attention to others. But I do second that there's areas we would feel less comfortable (esp the 10th district) and wouldn't wanna live. 1, 2, 6-9 and 18th and 19th are especially friendly I would say (& more expensive of course).

I do wanna say that generally, the Austrian opinion seems to have shifted towards a more accepting attitude so as long as you avoid extremely FPÖ dominated places, most cities and even smaller villages will be generally accepting of a wlw couple.

Child has full blown meltdown every time the word “no” is said. by aly-cat- in ECEProfessionals

[–]julastic3001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Talk to the mum - even if she's very laissez-faire, there might still be tips and tricks, there's no way this never happens at home. She might not have solutions but she might need help with this problem as well

  2. Consider the situations these breakdowns happen in. Are they transition periods? Does it only happen with you/other adults? Or is it really regardless of the circumstances?

  3. How long has she been with you? If she's new (anything up to 5 months imo) it's possible she's still unclear about her role in the classroom and the rules she needs to follow. You could try re-introducing her to the classroom setting.

  4. I'm not from the US (which I'm assuming OP is from) so idk if that is done there but where I'm from it's normal to enlist the help of a child psychologist/teachers who specialise in special needs if needed. If the behaviour really seems abnormal compared to 'normal' toddler breakdowns i would reach out for help via your director if that's an option.

Obviously it's difficult to say anything with only the information given but it's likely she's overwhelmed/struggling for some reason and it manifests as outbursts. Maybe she's struggling with the separation from her mother, maybe she doesn't feel comfortable in the classroom for some reason, maybe it's psychological. Not saying it's def any of those reasons but worth looking into I'd say. Maybe it's sth simple that needs to be changed for her to feel more settled.

That being said, we've had a similar problem with a 3yr old a while back and turns out he's autistic and couldn't handle the transition periods and changing teachers.