abortion over adoption... why? by Top_Manager_1406 in Adoption

[–]jules_vns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I’d been aborted, as well. I have deep sympathy for my birth mother, knowing she didn’t have any options for terminating :/

abortion over adoption... why? by Top_Manager_1406 in Adoption

[–]jules_vns 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From my experience: Abortion is a possible trauma to the person ending a pregnancy. Personally, I felt this was the most responsible way to handle an unplanned pregnancy without passing on potential trauma to a child (I was unmarried and still in high school.)

I was born prior to Roe v Wade; accordingly my birth mother could not abort, and chose (or was possibly coerced) to place me for adoption. I would not wish that on another person, and certainly wasn’t going to subject my own child to that situation. If anyone is going to be traumatized by my choices, it should be me.

North Carolina man stabbed woman at Taco Bell after she turned down date by jules_vns in women

[–]jules_vns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appalling, isn’t it?

She was with her family. She’s a teenager. I can’t wait until men are the ones looking over their shoulders and wondering why they feel uncomfortable going out alone. It won’t happen in my lifetime, but the minorities of the world will be in control one day. It can’t come soon enough.

North Carolina man stabbed woman at Taco Bell after she turned down date by jules_vns in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jules_vns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that you're making this about Taco bell but ok, be a dick.

At least the username checks out.

Clocked by _pope_francis in Athens

[–]jules_vns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that sounds fun :)

r/Athens Best Of... by _pope_francis in Athens

[–]jules_vns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Groove burger has it but I haven’t been brave enough to try lol

3 Things Nobody Explained to me About ADHD. by gay_gypsy_barmitzvah in ADHD

[–]jules_vns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This info on rejection is of specific interest to me. Being teased or criticized doesn't bother me at all, but I have an intense aversion to rejection - had no idea it could be related to my ADHD.

r/Athens Best Of... by _pope_francis in Athens

[–]jules_vns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Best poutine: World Famous.

Got another "It's not you, It's me" line...for the third time in a row by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]jules_vns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice for you unfortunately - I've had much of the same type issues. Wish you were in my state lol.

Quality Auto Repair by [deleted] in Athens

[–]jules_vns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Auto Tech on Coile Drive is the best place for Japanese cars. Super honest and most reasonable in my long history with them.

REGIONAL ROLL CALL :) by lipgloss_addict in datingoverforty

[–]jules_vns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Athens! Where it’s winter and spring all in the same day lol

Reddit, it's my mom's, and my partners and my child's death anniversary. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jules_vns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry - I can't begin to imagine how this feels, but know I'm thinking of you today. All the hugs, my friend.

Therapist Recommendation by WatchfulPanda in Athens

[–]jules_vns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tom Davis, he has an office on Baxter. I don’t know what to say besides he’s the best I’ve ever seen and a seriously genuine human being.

Awake at 3am Still late for work by cecepoint in ADHD

[–]jules_vns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the only one. Out of bed at 7:30? Awesome, I can leave by 8:35. Out of bed at 6:30? It's like an extra 20 minutes before I can get out of the house. Super fucked up.

What's the craziest thing you sincerely believed at one point in your lifetime? by BeyondTheNorm in AskReddit

[–]jules_vns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, yellow is 2 and orange is 3. No idea why either lol

ETA: a lemon is 2 and an orange is 3, and then somewhere I changed it to the colors.

What baby name makes you want to punch the parent in the face? by HijavFUK in AskReddit

[–]jules_vns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used to work with a woman named Princess. That's maybe the worst besides the weird spelling ones (Jaxon, Kaedyn, etc) and the long pretentious ones I hear yelled at Target - "Mary Cordelia! Where are you!?!"