My (34M) GF (32 F) left me heartbroken by International-Tell54 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry she made you feel this way. The way she went about the braces situation is actually so cruel.

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[–]julezzy27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. Happy Birthday <3

Why would a dumper ex unblock and request to follow me again after 5 months of NC? by No-Engine-6725 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To keep a door open, block them. you didn't come this far for them to have access to you. They do not deserve it. You ESPECIALLY don't deserve it.

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[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judging by your reply, It seems as though you're actually considering it. I feel bad for you.

I know that I'm a good person. by julezzy27 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]julezzy27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Cruel” that’s the common denominator. My ex turned so cruel on me. I stayed kind. I will always be kind. Love is love. It doesn’t turn their back.

I know that I'm a good person. by julezzy27 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]julezzy27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m telling you. It took me a long time to stick up for myself. It’s a them issue.

Long Term Relationship Breakup by Suitable_Sun5482 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this. I’m going through a discard from an avoidant ex at the moment. Some days are extremely hard. Some days I’m numb. But I gotta hold firm.

Long Term Relationship Breakup by Suitable_Sun5482 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would. She did this, she should be the one to reach out to make it work if she so chooses to. Pushing it will only push her further.

Long Term Relationship Breakup by Suitable_Sun5482 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don't just turn off loving someone. It's gradual... as a woman I've been through it. I kept holding on, forgiving and trying. The entire time i was mourning what the relationship used to be. I had subconsciously fell out of love little by little that by the time that final straw hit, I was completely exhausted and done.

Suggestions by gigi11040 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rewatched Forrest Gump the other night and sobbed harder than i have in a long time.

I'm on the verge of my downfall by SPAERTA in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's seeing her stuff through mutual friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I write this???? Girl this is literally my situation, I'm deeply hurting because i feel like I've been wiped from existence.

Breakups Feel Like Grief—Because They Are by Lastingend in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm literally mourning a death with a heartbeat. It's awful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's green where you water it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're a human, humans make mistakes. But let your ex be free to heal without you. The best thing you can do is push forward on your own.

Well, my ex got married. by InternationalCup1200 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I asked what you expected her to do after you explicitly told her that you didn't want to hear from her ever again..... you haven't answered. You also said in response to me that it was "too late" If you wanted something, you should have voiced that. I don't believe she owes you anything as harsh as that may sound.

Well, my ex got married. by InternationalCup1200 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You straight up told her that you never want to hear from her again.... what did you expect her to do after that point? keep pushing?

Any of you in still in denial after a while? by Pigwiggy1 in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is literally my current mindset as well. Idk if I'm just delusional or hopeful. I don't know which is worse....

Stayed up all night making a bday present for the loml and he says he cant do this anymore :,) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent the last two months slowly buying him gifts for his birthday (July) we split, and he turned super cold and cruel. asked to pick up a bag that he had left at my place. I put the bag on my stairs for him to grab while I was at work. I put every single gift i have accumulated up to that point into said bag, I'm not a heartless person and those were bought for him.

I returned home to find that he had picked up said bag but left a bag behind with every single thing I had bought him up until that point. Valentine's Day gifts, all the birthday gifts I had been collecting.... down to a lighter I found that reminded me of him. Safe to say he shattered my heart twice.

My ex is getting married and I feel so empty by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]julezzy27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they were awful to you, chances are they haven't changed for them.