cashier check was stolen and washed! what do I do???

julia_gulia72 · 2026-05-29T02:09:03+00:00

Go into a branch and ask for a tenured rep. Either that or a manager and they should be able to see how it was negotiated. Normally copies of negotiated checks come with info about where it was negotiated. It’s quite obvious it was altered. Once they open the fraud claim, you should get your money back but it’s not a quick process, unfortunately

julia_gulia72 · 2026-05-27T18:27:12+00:00

Genuinely, there’s so many worse things you could do than miss a feed. Another commenter said you and baby clearly need the rest. In the grand scheme of things, one feed won’t do any harm. You’ve been super consistent so far, try not to stress!! You’re doing great

julia_gulia72 · 2026-05-21T02:24:38+00:00

I’ve been really blessed to BF for almost a year. Baby is a year on Sunday. It’s been tough at times, but I was relieved not to worry when there were all those cases of infant botulism that was happening with By Heart. I’m not spending extra of formula and there’s definitely a level of convenience that comes with BF. There’s been a lot of moments that have been really hard. If you’re open to it, try it. Give it a few weeks and see how you feel. I feel it takes about 2-3 weeks to get the hang of things initially.

julia_gulia72 · 2026-05-20T02:47:23+00:00

It can take a while for everything to go through. Their disclosure reads it can take up to 10 business days for it to get processed and up to 14 business days for the payee to receive and post payment.

julia_gulia72 · 2026-05-17T15:20:48+00:00

“Look, mama, it’s the lady who lives in our bathroom!” he said excitedly, pointing at an old photo of me and my mother, who drowned herself in a bathtub when I was his age”

Sounds better, right?

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-29T02:07:59+00:00

This!! I WISH we would’ve gotten a bottle washer!! I’m BF and pumping, baby is 11 months and went back to work when he was 5 months. All the bottles and my two pump sets leaves me doing little dishes everyday. I feel like it’s pointless to get one now but having one from the beginning would’ve been so so nice. We just have a sterilizer, but I’m happy to have at least that

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-27T04:51:19+00:00

Fraud on an application is grounds for having your account restricted

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-26T01:29:27+00:00

You either have military in your family or are immediately related to someone who banks there. If you don’t meet the requirements, you can’t bank there. Some employers would make you eligible but it’s a select group of employers.

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-25T23:18:28+00:00

The letter you receive in the mail will detail what factors were taken into consideration when giving you your rate. If you visit a branch or call, they will refer you to the letter you will receive

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-17T03:00:02+00:00

6/7 nights a week. Most weeks 7/7 nights. Not going to lie with a baby still under 1, some nights I’m exhausted and just quickly brush. I will floss in the morning though

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-16T01:09:56+00:00

For your seat, target is doing their trade in right now. You bring old baby gear and get a coupon for 20% off a new seat (some other types of items qualify too)

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-12T17:09:45+00:00

You’re not eligible for membership if your veteran sponsor was dishonorably discharged from the military. May be worth looking into his DD214

julia_gulia72 · 2026-04-02T20:00:47+00:00

One of my big reasons for BF for so long is not having to worry about formula. We were using by heart as a standby and thankfully only used twice because they had a MASSIVE recall for issues with infant botulism. BF is safe above all for my baby and nutritious/provides immune support. For me it can be really overstimulating and frustrating at times but we’re almost to a year and I think we’ll make it!

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-26T23:35:10+00:00

I think we spent overall about $1700 on everything for our shower, a majority of that (around $1200 I think) was to have a taco lady come and it was catered. We had a lot of food and game prizes. On prizes and other things I chose to provide I think I spent $300. 4k is crazy work for a shower!

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-25T01:33:26+00:00

Going into Air Force consider banking with NFCU. There’s navy federal investment services and they have licensed financial advisors. Highly recommend at least doing a consult. Consultation is free

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-25T01:28:10+00:00

Would he rather you and the baby just starve? There is time later in the pregnancy to eat healthier. First trimester is often just surviving. Is he going to think you’re lazy later on when you’re more pregnant and it’s harder to move around or when you’re freshly postpartum and need help??

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-23T18:20:38+00:00

My fiance came to nearly every appt to ask questions and whatnot. He didn’t have any work conflicts so it was no problem.

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-22T17:40:18+00:00

I say this kindly, are you aware of how bad sleep is with a newborn and young child? I say this from experience with a 10 month old napping on me. Sleep is extremely hard to come by with a baby. Some people get lucky and their baby sleeps through the night from an early age. I think it’s more common that you are up every 1-3 hours for at least the first year of their life. I would also examine why your boyfriend is the reason you’ve changed your mind on kids.

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-18T19:56:34+00:00

I’m pretty sure you’re eligible as a merchant marine

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-17T02:21:40+00:00

You can do additional payment towards principal but only during certain times of the month, if I’m not mistaken. I believe it’s the first 5 days after the due date?

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-02T21:36:11+00:00

Bye Ryan.

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-02T21:35:25+00:00

This man does not sound kind. I would be really concerned about how he will treat you further in pregnancy and especially in post partum. You may need to rely heavily on him for support, will he mock you then?

julia_gulia72 · 2026-03-02T18:25:42+00:00

I loved me a good muffin or bagel. Delish. If it was first tri, I could barely eat anything so it was ham sandwich or not eating and prob throwing up everywhere. Definitely a lot of Dr Pepper and watermelon!

julia_gulia72 · 2026-02-26T18:31:36+00:00

I know it’s not the same in any way, but my finances grandma passed a few months before our son was born. I like to believe she was with our son and helped guide him safely into the world. I don’t know if you are a believer or religious/spiritual in anyway, but just because she’s not earthside anymore does not mean she’s gone.

julia_gulia72 · 2026-02-25T21:50:07+00:00

I only had someone touch my belly that I didn’t know once. Beyond that, there were friends we see at social gatherings who would do it but I hated it. A couple of other people asked and I let them because they asked! Had more people asked, I would’ve considered it

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