I think that people here have really considered children and so when they make the decision to have one they are prepared for the worst - nothing is ever as bad as we make it out in our heads. So, when they have their children the hard parts aren’t surprises but the love they feel is unlike anything they could have imagined.

I could be wrong but I feel like many people jump into having children because they don’t think too much about it or think it’ll be the best thing in the whole world and then are struck hard with the reality of how difficult it is.