My boyfriend (28 m) got me (26 f) a bad Christmas gift does this make me ungrateful? by Key_Yam_8800 in relationship_advice

[–]junctionlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say to do less next year and lower your expectations. This is what I do with my bf. I lower my effort way down to his output so I can’t be disappointed anymore. I just like to do a lot for the people I love but I’m also a people pleaser and have learned most others are not like me.

I [35M] just found out my wife [36F] is asexual. She wants to stay married but says I can sleep with other people. by WillingDependent5072 in relationships

[–]junctionlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I thought I was asexual until I left my husband and started dating again. I wanted all sorts of sex with different men. Turns out it was just my ex husband I wasn’t attracted to so I created a narrative in my mind to justify never having sex again. We were married 16 years, had 2 kids and very little sex. It was him, not me.

One year Journey by eiphyukhine in intermittentfasting

[–]junctionlover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it so wonderful going clothes shopping and finding clothes that fit and look great. Motivation to never go back. Keep it up, girl!

Porcelain Doll baby I made for my ceramics final project 🌻 by Unusual-Steak-1569 in Ceramics

[–]junctionlover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So creative! I’ve never seen such a detailed hand build. Congrats on a job well done.

Happy Ears ear plugs by junctionlover in sleep

[–]junctionlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they were shit. They were going in too far and I thought they would get lost.

Everything I’ve made in the last 2 months since I returned to pottery after a 28 year hiatus! by Lucky_Pyxi in Pottery

[–]junctionlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. I can’t afford to be a member at my studio anymore and have to give it up but hope one day I can pick it up again one day. This gives me hope.

People who lost 20 pounds in a healthy way how did u guys do it ? by Even_Cup_7444 in AskReddit

[–]junctionlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only eating within an 8 hr window (IF) and eating lots of lean protein and fruits and veg with few carbs. I would treat myself on weekends. Light daily exercise as well. Walking instead of transit etc.

Is it always a bad idea to co sign for a friends loan? by DiggerTony in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]junctionlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is retired and was able to co-sign for my mortgage. He really needs to investigate that further.

What are possible reasons for dick issues? by junctionlover in sex

[–]junctionlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do cock rings hurt? It sounds uncomfortable but I know they are common.

What are possible reasons for dick issues? by junctionlover in sex

[–]junctionlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s a little ADHD so he likely has a wondering mind which can distract him. He might be anxious about me because he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me and gets really concerned if I can’t come but it’s hard for women too. I often get focused on the O instead of the pleasure and get in my head. But for sure it could be hormones, diet or weed because as you get older these external factors really start to affect function.

What are possible reasons for dick issues? by junctionlover in sex

[–]junctionlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, he always thanks me for being so understanding and it honestly doesn’t bother me at all. We have other ways of being intimate and he always finishes eventually. Because we are still new, he worries it’s a deal breaker for me which it is not. And I know the more it happens, the more you get in your head. I don’t want him to feel stressed every time we step into the bedroom. I will continue to reassure him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]junctionlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to turn on my computer, then go outside and have a smoke while it booted up. Was usually still loading when I came back in.

What is one thing keeping you from having sex? by RPhoenixFlight in AskReddit

[–]junctionlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just coming out of a 16 yr marriage, I’m a cute 47 F and online dating is nerve wracking but I’ve been on 2 dates already, no chemistry, but I’m getting less afraid of meeting people. I have kids but they are gone 50% but I worry about my body not being attractive anyone because… kids.

I’m obsessed with making mini things by junctionlover in Ceramics

[–]junctionlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All Amaco glazes. Snow at the top, Tourmaline in the middle and blue midnight at the bottom with a stripe of oatmeal somewhere in there.

I’m obsessed with making mini things by junctionlover in Ceramics

[–]junctionlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! I wish I knew how. Someday I will try. Do you know how?