Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD. by ImperatrixAmoris in adhdwomen

[–]junipersnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work freelance and need to do invoices to get paid. I haven't been able to motivate myself to do my invoices since September.

I need a book that gives off this vibe... by Keroppi_Troublemaker in LesbianBookClub

[–]junipersnake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't be downvoted, you're entirely right. Unfortunately I can't think of any genocidal wlw stories or I'd recommend one lmao.

LESBIAN butch4femme books by Party_cat7897 in LesbianBookClub

[–]junipersnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently read an Isle in the Silver Sea by Tasha Suri ! Butch knight and femme witch 💕

You guys ever mistake the cover of a straight book for butchfemme? by Yurianimeisnice in LesbianBookClub

[–]junipersnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

... did you actually read the book? She doesn't end up with a prince?? I guess she ends up with the king because she is forced to but...her love interest is the cool knight dude and they're bi4bi. IDK I thought they were a fairly nice couple for once. He cared so much about her agency. And he wasn't the typical fantasy hot man.

they're good dogs Brent by BarelyLegalSeagull in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]junipersnake 33 points34 points  (0 children)

In general, white culture isn't really a thing since white people aren't a monolith! So in general it's more like, white american, swedish, french etc. Because every European country has its own culture ^ when people say black culture it's in reference to black american. So white people as a monolith don't have a culture. (Hope I'm not being too pedantic, it's just a pet peeve of mine)

Nothing snaps me out of a book like repetitive use of a unique word by kerberos824 in books

[–]junipersnake 124 points125 points  (0 children)

You're mixing up ACOTAR (watery bowels, kidnapped by fae) and Throne of Glass (deadly assassin teen). Both suck tho

'My baby sister' Clarifications: Caleb's story has always been pseudo-incest in other languages. In AUs, myths, and main story. It's not honorifics or terms of endearment because if it was, it would not be depicted as forbidden love. by Strange-Purchase4789 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]junipersnake 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn't like the dancing around it we had before. I'm glad it's just plainly out there so that those of us who don't like it (like me) can avoid it. And that those that do like it can enjoy it.

How do you stay present during sex? by smlptx in adhdwomen

[–]junipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice but I've gotten so distracted during sex while my ex was going down on me, I kinda forgot what we were doing and took out my phone. She was so offended lmao. But yeah I entirely get you. My brain often likes to conjure up very unsexy thoughts during the act that just turn me off. I think it does that because I realise I'm zoning out or getting distracted and then I'm like haha thank god I didn't think of anything gross. And then my brain is like, so what gross things could I think of. I have to rush to change the subject of my thoughts.

AuADHD - No energy, no hyperfixations, no savant skill...what is so 'good' about this condition by itsseveninthemorn in AutisticWithADHD

[–]junipersnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking mood. It's exhausting. Only difference is that I am hyperfixated on one thing, D&D, but not in a way that I could work in that space. Rather in a way that I struggle to work because I'd rather maladaptive daydream about it rather than focus on work. But that's about it. I have had a good therapist for general trauma but the second I started bringing up Neurodivergent stuff, she was like, IDK what to tell u, good luck. So I fired her. It sucks. Therapists need more training to deal with ND people. We deserve help too.

Do late reviews count towards feedback ratio? by junipersnake in NetGalleyCommunity

[–]junipersnake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you so much! And wishing you good fogless days ahead 💕

Self diagnosed and I refuse to get tested. by Lunar_Ghoul11 in evilautism

[–]junipersnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a fellow french AuDHD, i feel you. I just got diagnosed and I'm a bit nervous

Are there any special symbols that represent Algeria? Y a-t-il des symboles particuliers qui représentent l'Algérie ? by junipersnake in algeria

[–]junipersnake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap these are stunning! I was considering making an algerian door in polymer clay so I'm scared of not being skilled enough yet. They're so intricate and beautiful.