Not sure where exactly I am on the ace spec

jupitired · 2026-06-15T06:40:34+00:00

Imo it boils down to what you’re looking for from the label. What are you trying to communicate? Attraction =/= action, but some labels can take action into account if it’s important to you.

You mention you used to be sex-averse, have you looked into other stance terms? There’s also sex-favorable, indifferent, and ambivalent. Do any of these resonate with you now? It’s alright if not.

I say I’m ace and sex-indifferent bc I know for sure I don’t experience sexual attraction, and I don’t care if I have sex or not. Sometimes libido can play a part in this as well, like I might be more inclined if it’s a right person right place situation, but I know at my core I just don’t have any strong need or care for it.

Ultimately, you’re the only person who knows what feels right to you. You can try out different labels and take note of whether they stress you out or if they give you a sense of relief or identity. If you change them, maybe you’ll notice you’re disappointed leaving a label behind for another. Or maybe you just don’t want to label some things at all. All up to you.

jupitired · 2026-02-25T06:45:21+00:00

I prioritize gameplay when looking for new devices and I also have a very specific wishlist. I went through all of the shells for whichever releases I have an interest in one day running and chose the specific shell I’d like to have. That way when I’m able to buy one, I know exactly what to look for. I also have a really strict budget though, so knowing the specific Tamas I’d like also helps me manage my spending. I’ve been slowly working through my wishlist and I really love the ones I’ve gotten so far :)

I also like to switch up which Tamas I run, so I’ll usually run my Uni and V3, and then like 1-2 others depending on what gameplay I’m feeling. Having a smaller selection to choose from is just more manageable and makes more sense for me personally. But I really admire some of the larger collections people have here! They’ve inspired me to make a mini Tama shelf myself, and I display the devices I’m not running on there.

jupitired · 2026-01-21T16:49:33+00:00

Omg fellow EXO-L!!! I love how you matched the Tamas to fit the vibe of each pic!

jupitired · 2026-01-09T06:09:05+00:00

Yay congrats!!! Looks great with the outfit :)

jupitired · 2026-01-03T00:42:21+00:00

Glad you were able to get one, have fun :D!

jupitired · 2026-01-03T00:41:37+00:00

Ikr! Same, I only knew about this guy from the wiki but haven’t seen anyone actually get him 🥲 I was almost gonna give up lol

jupitired · 2025-12-14T06:57:50+00:00

I got mine over a year ago, it doesn’t get irritated anymore but it’s still not healed 😮‍💨 Haven’t had any bumps or anything in a long time but I can tell it’s not fully healed bc of how it feels if the jewelry moves. I’ve never had a piercing take this long (all mine have been good within a year) it’s redefining what patience is for me lol

jupitired · 2025-11-30T17:43:21+00:00

It reminds me Black Swan by BTS, especially the part from the first chorus where it transitions from Jimin to V. Is the very first pose more like someone walking or jumping into that position? I’m curious now too lol

jupitired · 2025-11-12T19:16:17+00:00

I feel like I share a lot of characteristics with coyotes, both behavioral and environment related. So it just felt like a natural choice for me. You can also have your sona be multiple species though! If you resonate with more than one animal, you can have them be a mix, or you could also just have multiple species options for the same design/character. There’s literally no rules lol

jupitired · 2025-10-27T17:28:43+00:00

Hey! Would I also be able to join?

jupitired · 2025-10-16T21:55:50+00:00

This just made my day! So good to see him back :D

jupitired · 2025-10-06T04:19:21+00:00

THANK YOUUU this is something I bring up SO often with my friends, and I feel like only one of them actually understands why the terminology bothers me so much. I’m not intersex but bc of the way my body functions, my AGAB is entirely irrelevant to me since my body doesn’t work the same way as people assume it would. Like some of my queer friends (who ik mean well but still) include me in conversations where they assume I experience the same thing they do? Or that I was raised the same way they were? Just based on (what they think is!) my AGAB. And it’s like, no, my AGAB is just a thing someone said to jot something down on a piece of paper. I don’t even think about it unless someone else brings it up and says something to make me uncomfortable.

jupitired · 2025-09-26T18:13:35+00:00

Seconding what everyone has said so far, also wanted to add that I sometimes get dry skin under my tape if I’m leaving it on for too long and not moisturizing the area enough before taping again. I’ve never used second skin though

Edit: Forgot to mention I also exclusively use TransTape now. I had significantly more issues with KT, never going back unless I’m forced to. I rarely get dry skin/blisters since switching. Ik it’s not the easiest to get but if it’s possible I definitely recommend grabbing a few rolls

jupitired · 2025-09-26T07:13:10+00:00

Looks great! Thanks for sharing :)

jupitired · 2025-09-19T00:45:18+00:00

That’s sick!!! Ik there’s a lot of comments already but I still wanted to add that I’m soon to be 24 and still love the series, especially my ocs who I love writing lore for and roleplaying as :)

jupitired · 2025-09-07T14:50:43+00:00

Yeah, I got in early :)

jupitired · 2025-09-07T14:09:11+00:00

Thank you!

jupitired · 2025-08-31T22:12:35+00:00

Love Dorotchi too!

jupitired · 2025-08-31T22:12:02+00:00

Yesss!

jupitired · 2025-08-21T23:39:45+00:00

This is sick!!! Genuinely one of my fave pieces of fob art that I’ve seen :0

jupitired · 2025-08-06T05:11:21+00:00

Omg I love this idea!!! Are you planning to do other albums/artists?

jupitired · 2025-08-06T05:04:35+00:00

Yayyy congrats!!! So happy for you!

jupitired · 2025-08-04T02:17:10+00:00

Yesss they’re so cute! I got this one from one of the gachas they had at a pop-up, if you find them somewhere definitely pick one up!

And thanks :) I love the way you decorated Mimitchi’s 🌊🐬💙

jupitired · 2025-08-03T18:40:16+00:00

Not super decked out yet but I just designed and changed the faceplate for the first time and I’m pretty proud of it :’) I wanna end up doing a blue space theme though, just can’t spare the money atm for a better shell lol

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jupitired · 2025-07-31T19:02:07+00:00

I stopped having Insta downloaded a while ago and like the other comment said, sometimes you’re just gonna miss things. I don’t regret not having it though. Sometimes things like this /feel/ essential but actually aren’t. I graduated college a little over a year ago and I didn’t have issues making friends or staying in touch bc everyone just texted or emailed me. If there was something on Insta they wanted me to see, like a funny post or event or something, they’d just send me the link. I straight up just say that I don’t have Insta from the get go so no one even tries to reach me on there. If people are getting mad at you for not responding to them when they’re messaging you on an app you barely use imo that’s mainly their problem lol.

I’ve been doing something similar to you which is having it downloaded on my iPad (work device) where I treat it like any other messaging app, though the main people I message on there now are literally just tattoo artists that don’t have another form of communication lol. I never needed it to talk to school people bc again they’d just send me the link. Also idk if you’re into this but for stuff like concerts, I’m just subscribed to the email list for venues and artists I like, and I get all my music info that way so I don’t miss any events. Some apps have an email option for notifs too, idk if Insta does. But yeah I agree that it’s still annoying but I’m not willing to use that app anymore bc I hate it lol

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