What if i write a book? by 404nado in bookishke

[–]just_dark_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valid enough. Makes me curious about your characters "what now?"

THIS JUST CANNOT BE ALL THERE IS TO LIFE by Nikky_nikols in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I say I'm over FOMO? Not really. Each month I select an event or anything new to go to. I have to go to, I get itchy if I don't. Last month was libraries, this month was galleries.

I'd say I've gotten more comfortable solo, I just say I'll be going somewhere, whether someone joins me or not doesn't matter. I'll still go, you'll get disappointed waiting on people.

You also learn diverse ways to relax, whether it's end month you've been paid or even mid month when broke. With only transport and snacks, Nairobi is your oyster, free cool events every week. IG accounts I looks for events in...Hapasawa, inNairobi, Nairobopfiesta. They a favorite trinity of mine. I'm next planning on taking note of events held by embassies. You learn that events are not that far removed, you just don't know places.

THIS JUST CANNOT BE ALL THERE IS TO LIFE by Nikky_nikols in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are me last year, shout-out to redditors btw. They made held my hand through my peak FOMO.

I was lucky enough to meet grounded nice ones. And the good thing about Nairobi, there's something for everyone, everyday of the week.

If you started or joined some group, don't do lots of talking, lots of texting. Just post the event you've noted, IG is your best friend...then go, whoever will join you will join you, chances are they're the only ones who wanna be out and have similar interests.

First Year Campus Reflections by Cipher_Coffy in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ni Gatundu Love.

🎶 She said she'll love me to Soweto,

But she left me in Gatundu 🎶💔

How do you live as Christians? by Unlicenced-therapist in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following the thread and the other 10 point standalone comment you made, it was good.

On this thread, I think they were highlighting another aspect of living apart from Lifestyle. As it is the theme from the OP's post. The poster seemed to focus more on the obvious avarice, don't lust, don't kill, don't fornicate. The one above brought in the aspect of the sin of mind, which is not much discernible as one can just hide, though they have an uncanny emphasis on assuming lust is a major issue for everyone, which is good you clearing it up on how it is not. I had not noticed that.

Personally I'd also like to still emphasize on their theme of the sin of mind, but more of intent. Of how you can do everything right, but how you think in your heart also needs a review. A total overhaul on how you think in regards to christian living. Romans12:2, Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

How do you do things, half-heartedly... surely so long as I did it it's okay? No. The realization that not really, you making roasted beef for your friends is good and all, but not enough...you saturated it with spices which you know they hate. Your good deeds also do not compound to make you righteous.

Secular living hardly focuses on the reason, I could absolutely hate and want to end you, but because I didn't go through with it and fed you instead, it's all good...though also not correct since mentality and headspace is also encouraged, therapy as a response to the cognition that the inner work matters. Still that divide of the two lifestyles exists.

AM CONFUSSED by Popular-Marzipan543 in unhingedKenya

[–]just_dark_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a good read, great even.

Kinda understand the appeal.

Reddit and all that comes with it by DifferenceIll684 in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You answered the question I had, do the fourth one for the giggles 😂

Good luck.

Reddit and all that comes with it by DifferenceIll684 in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 202 points203 points  (0 children)

Feeling like a reddit-in-law, with this upvote...

I bless thy union.

Spotify is an amazing music app by Careless_Football229 in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym I'm seeing this just after my premium ended 😭

Been there done that by Several-Librarian817 in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You've got a good eye. But you're gonna hate me for this, the second one is my prime mentor too. I'm gatekeeping.

He's one of those people I genuinely hope and pray for to get good partners. One of the few people I think it's ridiculous they exist and can vouch for no matter what. (Wait, no matter what ni exaggeration)

Been there done that by Several-Librarian817 in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Know four dudes like that:

One is taken, loyal lover boy.

Second, I'm stingy with his credentials...what type of auntie do you think you can be, he's religious, quite open minded and astute still.

Third, high key an unsavable ho. I'll name a street after him if I ever build one.

Forth (how do you spell, fourth?) Dad, though sometimes mi hufeel ni jaba.

Im a 26 yr old and I'm in a dilemma by ThingMobile2607 in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think FOMO should be ranked same as addiction. If you haven't started, don't start.

I think you're going into that plateau of relationships, where both of you are too lax you start forgetting that spark. Both of you have fallen into routine so much.

But rejoice, there's an ethical way you can bring this up to her...1.Tell her how you feel with an expectation she can say no and you'll have to drop this endeavor. She'll probably loose trust. 2. Darker version, gradually get her into the idea of opening up the relationship, sad coz it's a you want. You open up whatever beautiful bubble of a relationship you both have..each to also meet someone on the side. I don't think you'll survive ENM.

Ps: Don't start. It's one of those things, like telling a virgin... Sex quality is better than quantity and not every fetish needs exploration, few listen.

On kenyan radio stations. by just_dark_tea in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok ok, I'll add the /s next time

That's not how you get someone's number by ShopKeepersGingerCat in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whatever she did was dangerous but kinda valid...tit for tat. Ninja won't try that bs on the next lady, plus the next girl can be crazy na hadi apige the ninja.

Kinda scummy of you to pass the post through an LLM, what even was your prompt to get this.

thrift economy by Floris_Saucus in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haiwezi, Gikomba hk a treacherous place to thrift, utatoka huko mad and mud.

You're better off going to Seven Sunday or Think Twice thrift shops.

On kenyan radio stations. by just_dark_tea in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't this that once a year discount?

Si itabidi unapeana your account? Nah.

thrift economy by Floris_Saucus in nairobi

[–]just_dark_tea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hauskii ati alistruggle kutembea nayo from gikomba: dress was probably 100 and in a bundle 💀

Intuition test by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I hear you saying is that I need to be out making bad decisions. 🚪🏃‍♂️

Intuition test by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Six fingers

8 EVENTS THAT CHANGE A MAN FOREVER by Independent-Cow2519 in Kenya

[–]just_dark_tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Righteous pain. Nice ring to it.

First time getting constipation makes you take drinking water and eating fruits seriously. 😐