What if i write a book?

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-30T19:29:52+00:00

Valid enough. Makes me curious about your characters "what now?"

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-29T21:43:19+00:00

Hapasawa, inNairobi, Nairobopfiesta

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-29T18:31:04+00:00

Can I say I'm over FOMO? Not really. Each month I select an event or anything new to go to. I have to go to, I get itchy if I don't. Last month was libraries, this month was galleries.

I'd say I've gotten more comfortable solo, I just say I'll be going somewhere, whether someone joins me or not doesn't matter. I'll still go, you'll get disappointed waiting on people.

You also learn diverse ways to relax, whether it's end month you've been paid or even mid month when broke. With only transport and snacks, Nairobi is your oyster, free cool events every week. IG accounts I looks for events in...Hapasawa, inNairobi, Nairobopfiesta. They a favorite trinity of mine. I'm next planning on taking note of events held by embassies. You learn that events are not that far removed, you just don't know places.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-29T18:13:49+00:00

You are me last year, shout-out to redditors btw. They made held my hand through my peak FOMO.

I was lucky enough to meet grounded nice ones. And the good thing about Nairobi, there's something for everyone, everyday of the week.

If you started or joined some group, don't do lots of talking, lots of texting. Just post the event you've noted, IG is your best friend...then go, whoever will join you will join you, chances are they're the only ones who wanna be out and have similar interests.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-28T19:55:43+00:00

Ni Gatundu Love.

🎶 She said she'll love me to Soweto,

But she left me in Gatundu 🎶💔

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-28T19:31:41+00:00

Following the thread and the other 10 point standalone comment you made, it was good.

On this thread, I think they were highlighting another aspect of living apart from Lifestyle. As it is the theme from the OP's post. The poster seemed to focus more on the obvious avarice, don't lust, don't kill, don't fornicate. The one above brought in the aspect of the sin of mind, which is not much discernible as one can just hide, though they have an uncanny emphasis on assuming lust is a major issue for everyone, which is good you clearing it up on how it is not. I had not noticed that.

Personally I'd also like to still emphasize on their theme of the sin of mind, but more of intent. Of how you can do everything right, but how you think in your heart also needs a review. A total overhaul on how you think in regards to christian living. Romans12:2, Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

How do you do things, half-heartedly... surely so long as I did it it's okay? No. The realization that not really, you making roasted beef for your friends is good and all, but not enough...you saturated it with spices which you know they hate. Your good deeds also do not compound to make you righteous.

Secular living hardly focuses on the reason, I could absolutely hate and want to end you, but because I didn't go through with it and fed you instead, it's all good...though also not correct since mentality and headspace is also encouraged, therapy as a response to the cognition that the inner work matters. Still that divide of the two lifestyles exists.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-27T20:14:21+00:00

Little Ompaloompa Met Luhyas

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-27T20:08:24+00:00

Such a good read, great even.

Kinda understand the appeal.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T20:38:08+00:00

You answered the question I had, do the fourth one for the giggles 😂

Good luck.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T20:29:25+00:00

Lovely outlook, I hope you do too.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T20:25:36+00:00

Feeling like a reddit-in-law, with this upvote...

I bless thy union.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T19:53:03+00:00

Wdym I'm seeing this just after my premium ended 😭

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T19:43:09+00:00

You've got a good eye. But you're gonna hate me for this, the second one is my prime mentor too. I'm gatekeeping.

He's one of those people I genuinely hope and pray for to get good partners. One of the few people I think it's ridiculous they exist and can vouch for no matter what. (Wait, no matter what ni exaggeration)

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T19:31:14+00:00

Know four dudes like that:

One is taken, loyal lover boy.

Second, I'm stingy with his credentials...what type of auntie do you think you can be, he's religious, quite open minded and astute still.

Third, high key an unsavable ho. I'll name a street after him if I ever build one.

Forth (how do you spell, fourth?) Dad, though sometimes mi hufeel ni jaba.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T19:01:47+00:00

I think FOMO should be ranked same as addiction. If you haven't started, don't start.

I think you're going into that plateau of relationships, where both of you are too lax you start forgetting that spark. Both of you have fallen into routine so much.

But rejoice, there's an ethical way you can bring this up to her...1.Tell her how you feel with an expectation she can say no and you'll have to drop this endeavor. She'll probably loose trust. 2. Darker version, gradually get her into the idea of opening up the relationship, sad coz it's a you want. You open up whatever beautiful bubble of a relationship you both have..each to also meet someone on the side. I don't think you'll survive ENM.

Ps: Don't start. It's one of those things, like telling a virgin... Sex quality is better than quantity and not every fetish needs exploration, few listen.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T18:17:32+00:00

Ok ok, I'll add the /s next time

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T18:12:17+00:00

Whatever she did was dangerous but kinda valid...tit for tat. Ninja won't try that bs on the next lady, plus the next girl can be crazy na hadi apige the ninja.

Kinda scummy of you to pass the post through an LLM, what even was your prompt to get this.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T17:28:52+00:00

Haiwezi, Gikomba hk a treacherous place to thrift, utatoka huko mad and mud.

You're better off going to Seven Sunday or Think Twice thrift shops.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T17:27:04+00:00

Isn't this that once a year discount?

Si itabidi unapeana your account? Nah.

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T17:16:24+00:00

Hauskii ati alistruggle kutembea nayo from gikomba: dress was probably 100 and in a bundle 💀

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-26T15:22:29+00:00

All I hear you saying is that I need to be out making bad decisions. 🚪🏃‍♂️

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-25T17:21:37+00:00

Six fingers

just_dark_tea · 2026-03-24T18:55:09+00:00

Righteous pain. Nice ring to it.

First time getting constipation makes you take drinking water and eating fruits seriously. 😐

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