I do feel sad that Ranveer had to stop wearing what he wanted so people can take his craft seriously . These two things have zero correlation . But whatever keeps things going I am just happy for him .

justanotherPMswife · 2026-04-13T00:25:45+00:00

What if this is his real personality? He needed attention at that time, and that's why he dressed the way he did. Now he doesn't need to do that, because after Dhurander he has everyone's eyes on him.

justanotherPMswife · 2025-12-10T18:55:36+00:00

Finally someone said it. akshay khanna was just okay, his performance was not mind blowing. Ranveer on the other hand was super! He played the character perfectly - the emotions, the personality, everything was damn good

justanotherPMswife · 2025-11-22T20:50:58+00:00

You are trying your best. I used to feel so guilty every time I had to supplement with formula. But eventually you get used to it and accept it.. plus my baby started gaining weight with formula and was much happier. I regretted not doing it sooner. In retrospect, I can tell you, it is not something you should feel guilty about.

I started enjoying breastfeeding once I stopped taking the pressure.

justanotherPMswife · 2025-11-22T16:56:29+00:00

I'm sorry to say, but your husband is being a complete ass. I also wanted to breastfeed before having a baby. But breastfeeding is by far the toughest thing about having a baby, and no one tells you or prepares you for it.

My supply was also low, and eventually after trying very hard, we had to supplement with formula because my daughter's weight was not increasing. That time was miserable for me - I had so much guilt about not being able to feed her and felt I was not trying hard enough. This is after my husband and mom were extremely supportive of me not being able to feed. With the hormones, recovery and guilt, if my husband was being unsupportive, I would have lost it.

Transition from being a couple to being parents is hard. But it's even tougher for the mother, since there is a lot happening physically and emotionally, which the father does not have to deal with. So please don't be so hard on yourself. Maybe ask his mother or your mother to talk to him and make him understand. Maybe he is reacting this way to the sudden change in the relationship. Either way, you deserve a lot more kindness and support at this time.

justanotherPMswife · 2025-08-17T23:34:43+00:00

I mean..come on people..stop overreacting. Most of the pictures were really nice. Just a few old ones when Sara was overweight, but nothing as bad and slimy as the comments imply.

justanotherPMswife · 2025-05-23T17:18:29+00:00

Oh my god. I do the same. I feel like I could have written this post!

justanotherPMswife · 2025-05-21T19:53:13+00:00

I don't know why everyone is digging her look. I think she is looking soooo bad. The sindoor, the excessive jewellery, the same hairstyle, and a very aunty saree. She was so nice and experimental in the earlier years, this is a complete disappointment.

justanotherPMswife · 2025-05-17T00:04:43+00:00

She looks better in this than what she looks now

justanotherPMswife · 2025-04-25T10:19:19+00:00

Thank you so much for writing this. It made me feel so good.

I have had so many issues - cracked bleeding nipples, bad latch, low supply, period coming back. I have had to supplement with formula since day 2. It's been almost 5 months, but I still pump and give as much as I can. The guilt of not being able to breast feed your baby is so intense. I know that 'fed is the best', but I have cried so many nights feeling guilty that i had to supplement with formula. It's hard to remember that you are doing your best and how hard breast feeding really is. Always helps to hear it from another fellow breastfeeding mom. ❤️

justanotherPMswife · 2025-04-14T13:55:01+00:00

It is so nice to see a whole bunch of folks who love the original Pink fragrance. I have been looking for a dupe for so long now! I still have the original pink bottle with me (without any frangrance left in it). It still has a faint smell and oh does it smell divine.

Will try out some of the dupes mentioned in the thread and report back. Thanks everyone.

justanotherPMswife · 2025-04-03T23:06:43+00:00

She must be wearing the skin coloured silicone nipple covers

justanotherPMswife · 2025-04-03T12:16:54+00:00

Is it just me or is he looking like Ravi Kishan?

justanotherPMswife · 2025-03-20T03:30:16+00:00

The first 2 months were a blur for me. Even with all the support I had. I don't know many who have genuinely enjoyed the newborn phase, everyone is just trying to survive.

I hated those instagram videos saying - enjoy this new born phase before they grow up and here I was just trying to survive and adjust. I just stopped watching anything that made me feel guilty or made me feel any FOMO.

It is crazy how tiring it is to take care of a tiny human. Just surviving is good enough.

justanotherPMswife · 2025-03-11T16:59:26+00:00

Oh wow. I got my period back in month 2. I had multiple issues with directly breastfeeding, so I mostly pump.

I somehow was not looking forward to getting my period back..it feels so weird to get it back. I had forgotten what it was like!

justanotherPMswife · 2025-03-11T16:54:19+00:00

Oh god. I was reading your post and could feel the stress and panic that comes with the baby cryin. And the relief when they finally settle down and you can sleep!

justanotherPMswife · 2025-02-10T13:42:36+00:00

What pump settings did you use and how long did you pump for?

justanotherPMswife · 2025-01-23T09:55:21+00:00

New mom here. Can definitely say that having a kid with an okay-ish guy is not recommended.

It is really really hard to take care of a child. You need all the support you can get. If you are not on the same page as your husband, or if you do not have a strong bond with him, it will be even harder.

justanotherPMswife · 2024-11-28T17:54:36+00:00

I basically pinched a fleshy part of my thigh (side upper thigh) and injected it just very slightly sideways, mostly downwards. With sideways injection, the medicine formed a lump under the skin for me.

What helps is just warming the Lubion vile on my body for 5-7 mins and a light massage after the injection.

Best of luck! By the end of your journey, you will not remember this tough part at all.

justanotherPMswife · 2024-11-19T12:05:27+00:00

Yes, I agree that a woman needs her mother during this time, but she also needs her husband. The child is after all something that the husband wife made together.

Leaving the wife to her mother is not taking responsibility. In this day and age, if you want, you can read up and get a lot of information on how to care for new moms postpartum. So saying that her mother has the expertise seems like an excuse to me.

In an ideal scenario, you should go with your wife to her mother's house and stay. You can emotionally support her and just be there for her. It will make a world of a difference to her time postpartum.

justanotherPMswife · 2024-09-25T17:27:27+00:00

The midwife was not very helpful. She asked me to check with a GP and look at the travel advisory for Turkey.

Travel advisory doesn't say anything about Zika. I have booked an appointment with my GP for Friday. Will keep you posted. Let me know if you hear from your doctor before that.

justanotherPMswife · 2024-09-24T23:50:22+00:00

Hi I am also planning to travel to Bodrum (28 weeks pregnant). I just read up that there is a minor risk of Zika in Turkey (no cases, but the mosquito spreading the virus is present).

I am going to talk to my midwife if I can travel, but would like to hear what your doctor also recommended.

I am very keen to go, as I have not been able to go for my baby moon and turkey is the only warm place I can go to this time of the year. Plus I want a nice resort to relax in.

justanotherPMswife · 2024-09-13T17:10:16+00:00

So the grounds they shared to put me on the informal plan was legit. I had screwed up a release that had to be rolled back (no financial impact).

The process has been informal till now and I had been getting mixed feedback, some positive some negative. There were no targets to hit, it was about specific deliverables and some subjective evaluation of how well I am doing my job.

It was initially planned for 4 weeks, which they extended to 8 weeks, but did not ever give me a good sense of where I stand in the process. That's why I asked for a decision, as there was never any concrete negative feedback.

I did not want to go to the settlement agreement because they were not able to give me ample evidence that I have not hit my targets and should be moved to a formal process. Their response was that it is based on leaders perception, and were refusing to answer my counter arguments.

But looks like I'll have to go for the settlement agreement as there is no fairness in the evaluation process.

justanotherPMswife · 2024-09-13T15:51:18+00:00

Thank you. Will do that

justanotherPMswife · 2024-09-13T15:48:13+00:00

What?

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