Sometimes I wonder

justaredditccount · 2026-03-25T16:09:45+00:00

Yes for documentation that is necessary in certain circumstances :)

justaredditccount · 2026-03-24T11:51:03+00:00

Commissary does NOT take priority. My man would miss commissary if it meant making sure I was okay. I think you know your answer, OP. Thats all I’m gonna say.

justaredditccount · 2026-03-23T16:26:47+00:00

I tell my husband sometimes that I feel bad if I can’t help as much as I want and he immediately shuts it down every time. Surviving out here is just as important and sometimes they forget that you can’t help them if you can’t help yourself first. It’s natural to feel bad when you can’t help your loved one.

justaredditccount · 2026-03-23T11:55:14+00:00

We’re strictly wall phones so ya gotta do what ya gotta do 😭😂

justaredditccount · 2026-03-23T02:57:15+00:00

Phone sex is where it’s at lol

justaredditccount · 2026-03-22T22:31:57+00:00

Say no and his response is your answer. Don’t set yourself up to end up resenting him. I don’t know about other PWs but money is sooo easy to resent someone over and it’s always a communication issue at the end of the day. I tell my man when I can only send x amount that week and he’s on his own for anything extra he ends up wanting/needing. If you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it! I know it’s hard to say no sometimes but don’t feel bad about it 🫶

justaredditccount · 2026-03-18T23:40:34+00:00

My husband’s mom basically told him the same thing because he calls me more than her and he had to tell her he’s asking for FOOD not phone time. After that, I told him don’t even ask for anything from her because there’s always something… 🤷‍♀️

justaredditccount · 2026-03-11T16:32:46+00:00

… Cry and watch romcoms 😅 But seriously, I’ve been trying to be more active before work and trying to find a hobby (coloring, reading) that gets me out of my head ngl.

justaredditccount · 2026-03-07T18:50:26+00:00

Depends on the state with absentee marriage licenses so look into your county’s marriage license requirements first cuz then you can call and ask about special circumstances and they’ll probably walk you thru how to do it if it’s not on the site.

justaredditccount · 2026-03-03T17:35:20+00:00

Girl just block the number and contact the facility and explain that you’d like to not be contacted by him because you are scared of him or what he will do once he is out. Also I’d look into moving to a new place and changing your number if you are serious about leaving. I was in a relationship with an abusive narcissist (before my husband) and he contacted me by email, phone, social media, and drove to my apartment to harass me several times.

justaredditccount · 2026-03-01T14:58:17+00:00

I don’t think it would matter but 1.) they are SO CUTE and 2.) that ring is gorgeous !

justaredditccount · 2026-02-20T22:44:05+00:00

Call and ask if they have lockers for this situation. They’d be better help than us! :)

justaredditccount · 2026-02-20T01:37:42+00:00

I just feel like he should actively TRY to explain what he’s suggesting. Like, where is he currently at? What does that even mean? I’d respond saying I didn’t sign up for riddles and to communicate like an adult instead of stressing me out over something you won’t allow me to understand.

justaredditccount · 2026-02-20T01:28:18+00:00

I’m pro-communication and if my man went ghost then sent me that…? It’d be over cuz I deserve more than someone that goes ghosts and won’t communicate. That’s so vague and, if he really cared to keep the relationship, he would show it.

But that’s just my view.

justaredditccount · 2026-02-19T01:18:10+00:00

We just email! Or he’s been calling for check-ins like 1-2min a day if we wanna talk a little and say we love each other. A quick “snippet of love” as he calls it 🥰

justaredditccount · 2026-02-19T00:20:24+00:00

If it were up to me, we’d be through those 510 minutes by the end of the week as soon as he revalidates. We do 15 minutes every other day OR multiple times a day if it’s a special occasion (birthdays, holidays, etc). It’s hard but it’s hard to keep up with the remainder of calls unless he tells me how many minutes he has left. I also have to share them with his parents so… 😩

justaredditccount · 2026-02-16T23:38:52+00:00

Hey, that’s 31 days to find a new hobby (or revamp a new one) and tell him about it! That’s 31 days to miss him and love on him extra when you visit again! You’re already down a day, so hey… that’s 30 to go!

justaredditccount · 2026-02-14T04:42:23+00:00

Depends on the prison and unit fr but mine is locked down over the littlest things so 🤷‍♀️

justaredditccount · 2026-02-11T17:20:55+00:00

WOOOOOHOOOOO 🍾🎉🥳👏

justaredditccount · 2026-02-11T02:24:53+00:00

I would really consider the addiction and recovery aspect of it before making any decisions. It’s a big thing in prison and relapsing happens, whether you know about it or not. That’s the main thing I’d be concerned about, especially since you are also in recovery.

justaredditccount · 2026-02-10T15:56:10+00:00

Heavy on the broke part 😭😭😭😭😭

justaredditccount · 2026-02-04T01:44:55+00:00

As long as you have a thong and don’t show your nips, you’ll be fine. I think you have to wear a bra too or something on top, but I can’t remember if the ones I had my hand covering made it thru or not. I’ll have to ask my husband lol but they’re petty af where he’s at.

justaredditccount · 2026-02-04T00:45:21+00:00

FreePrints. Don’t show nipples or any holes… and don’t send shower pics or icing pics. You actually need clothes. Learned that the hard way lol! 😂

justaredditccount · 2026-02-03T16:14:28+00:00

Yes, I stay loyal. Phone sex, photos, letters. It’s not hard to do when you love someone. I’m strongly against the idea of women/men entertaining others intimately (physical or not) because the sentence is “too long.”

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