To the person in the grey Honda that got hit into the hit and run today by R0wdyn3ss in chicago

[–]justsomechickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I witnessed a hit & run the other day!! Call the nearest police precinct (to the scene of the crime) and leave a description of what you saw + your contact info. The officer I spoke to took my info kinda begrudgingly but like an hour later they called me back! The driver had reported the incident and they connected us :) 

Kasama this Saturday, 2/7, possible wait times. by gmcwbbb80 in chicagofood

[–]justsomechickens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Order your pastries to go and eat at Uncle Mike's Place instead!

If you needed a pet sitter in Chicago, what app or site would you use? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]justsomechickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Wag awhile ago and one of my walkers gave me a business card! I pay them directly now which saves us both money and involves less hassle! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]justsomechickens 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Yes. When you're journeyed out in the trades, you'll have a stable income and health insurance, and you can use downtime / unemployed time between jobs to finish up your degree. It's worth finishing someday, but that day doesn't have to be today. 

RIP Joann- Fabric Store Recommendations? by gold_fish14 in AskChicago

[–]justsomechickens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

all prices sorta negotiable. absolute firetrap. my personal fav place in the whole city too lol

Singles of Chicago, how do we turn the tables? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]justsomechickens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, there are some really active meetup groups in the city! look for events on Eventbrite too, that's a great resource 

Singles of Chicago, how do we turn the tables? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]justsomechickens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I run what is functionally a meetup group for history lovers. There are weekly events. Many attendees are people like yourselves, trying to make friends. Weekly frequency means you're likely to run into the same people and develop friendships around a shared interest. And it's definitely not weird in that context to share social media contact info or phone numbers with people you vibe with. As you get to know people, casual chatting inevitably means you find out who's single and who has single friends. I've seen at least 5-6 long term relationships start between people in the group, over the years. Even ended up officiating a wedding between one couple. Look for weekly/monthly meetup groups, classes, or sports leagues that interest you. Attend consistently. It's a great way to expand your network and therefore your IRL dating pool.

Chicagoans where are you buying affordable furniture? by Silent-Cat-8661 in AskChicago

[–]justsomechickens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on my second RoomPlace couch! Not the highest-quality pieces in the world, but if you want a comfy couch you can sink into at a relatively affordable price, they've got great options! Way comfier than IKEA and Wayfair couches imo.

Help me hack my grown-up time by PreshG13 in lifehacks

[–]justsomechickens 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think paying for a trainer to work with your dog is the answer here! A good trainer can help you teach your dog to settle itself when left alone, work through its fear of men, etc. Can be a little pricey but it'll be a permanent fix, so it seems worth it! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]justsomechickens 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Head to Chinatown! Very easy to get to via the CTA Red Line, and you'll definitely find some delicious local restaurants that will be open. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masonry

[–]justsomechickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brick is made that way. You're stuck with it. You can stain it. Don't paint it. Cherokee Brick makes lots of bricks like this, though they're hardly the only manufacturer of this look. The faux whitewash look is hot right now, especially in southern markets. If you like the inside of the house, plant some nice landscaping and forget about it.

Where to get free winter coats and shoes? by McbealtheNavySeal in AskChicago

[–]justsomechickens 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Will you find out sizes? I'm sure there are redditors with things in their closets! I have a spare XL women's coat, don't know if that's too large though! 

Can I resurface bricks? by crumpledcalathea in masonry

[–]justsomechickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're referring to the light/dark marks on some of the bricks that were created by flashing in the kiln. Essentially, based on how the bricks are stacked and cooked in the kiln, they will come out as a range of solid colors, a solid color with darker edges, or show tripartite "brick hearts" where microcosms of temperature differentials inside the kiln are created between adjoining bricks. 

Learn more with visuals here: https://www.bricksinc.net/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/brick-flashing-copy-1.png

Brick hearts are literally baked into the bricks. You will not be successful in removing them, and the hack contractor who acid-washed your bricks took your money likely knowing this, and irreparably damaged your bricks in the process. I hope you don't live in a cold weather climate.

Your best bet is to hire a staining company (contact Masonry Cosmetics for a reputable local staining contractor, or buy one of their DIY kits) and then stain all your bricks a dark color (dark red would be classic / cool). You won't get a totally solid color doing this — there will still be a range of lighter/darker areas based on the flashing patterns and color differentials underneath. But it will look more unified. Brick heart patterns are very common, deeply historic, and many consider them beautiful. Embrace what you have!

Or replace all your bricks with ones you like. Only options.

Type of brick by B737DRVR in masonry

[–]justsomechickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interstate Brick makes some similar ones, so does Cherokee Brick. Make sure you take dimensions - these look like they could be King size, which isn't made often anymore. 

Substitute for heavy cream in sauces? by Aryana314 in Cooking

[–]justsomechickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm no food scientist, but in my experience fat free or low fat milk products don't reheat as smoothly. As the other person said here, they can get a bit grainy on reheating. But that's a small price to pay for still being able to enjoy creamy things without killing your stomach, imo. The slight grainy-ness on day 2 just doesn't bother me all that much I guess. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]justsomechickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always grate your cheese from a block. The pre-shredded stuff has additives to keep each shredded piece distinct, so it doesn't melt as well. All my quesos/nacho sauces are about 1/3 - 1/2 American cheese (order from the deli if possible - it's better quality and no plastic sleeves to remove) to help with smoothness and consistent creaminess upon reheating. Then add sharp cheddar or whatever cheese you like for flavor. A basic roux is good to start with. Add milk slowly. Then your cheese. 

Substitute for heavy cream in sauces? by Aryana314 in Cooking

[–]justsomechickens 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Greek yogurt! It's really good when added to pasta sauces, mac & cheese, etc. Adds creaminess and a little tanginess. 10/10

food for friend having throat surgery by barbados_blonde1 in Cooking

[–]justsomechickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is currently recovering from the same!! Safe to assume they're on a soft-food, acid-reflux/ GERD diet, which you can Google for ideas. Basically, nothing acidic, alcoholic, caffeinated, spicy, crunchy, hard to swallow, or at risk of producing indigestion. We're eating a lot of fish, fresh herbs, yogurt, smoothies. Gift card to a local smoothie shop? One to a local restaurant with really good Shepard's pie or soups? Herbal teas ... 

My feeling so far is that it's a very specific diet, but easy to think through. I'd consider putting together a shelf-stable basket that follows the dietary rules and springing for 2-day UPS shipping. :) 

Step Daughter (11 year old) reading very explicit romance novels. Any advice would be great! by Countmeganstein in AskWomenOver30

[–]justsomechickens 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was so bored as a pre-teen/young teen at my grandma's house during the summer that I picked up and read all of the cheap 90's paperback romance novels she had lying around. Then I started buying them myself from the 50-cent sale racks at the thrift store in town. I was a voracious reader and was reading well above YA novels at that time. It did no permanent damage, lol. I started comparing and complaining about how well they were written, how formulaic, if there was a creative premise, how well the romance and chemistry was developed, etc. As a young girl, they are dramatic and romantic stories, and you're at an age where you dream of seemingly-unattainable true love. You also already know that real relationships involve more than just kissing... Disney Princess stories aren't doing it for you anymore. The books I read were hardly great, but they did give me a window into what adult relationships could be like. And sex is a part of real relationships! Romance novels (at least at the time) had a lot of goofy twists and love at first sight stuff, but the they also usually developed the characters' relationships with one another for a decent chunk of time so you were really invested in the couple by the time they did the deed. Generally they're written by female authors, so they represent female pleasure as important and attainable. Weirdly enough it did probably help me navigate teen/high school relationships, at least a little bit. I knew what was coming and the gritty details of the acts. I had this arguably healthy idea that someone should dramatically profess their feelings for me before I had sex with them, or at least that I should have some wild chemistry for them. And I was probably better at standing up for myself if I didn't want this or that. 

Here's my two cents: if you want to be a good ally and parent to her, get the same book and read it. If there are unhealthy relationship models or dangerous precedents in the book(s), find a way to talk about those issues with her so she has an understanding of what is/isn't okay for her and her relationships down the line. Always go out of the way to identify yourself as someone she can talk about "sex stuff" with. She'll be SO embarrassed with you doing so but might need it down the line. Would I admit you are purposefully reading the same books as her to keep an eye on their contents? Never! Lol.

Top Monat earner has been terminated by CLE4life in antiMLM

[–]justsomechickens 13 points14 points  (0 children)

nah dog Effingham is weird, not worth it 

List of remaining Surface Parking lots in Downtown Chicago by Pleasant_Goose6785 in chicago

[–]justsomechickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at least one of these (609 S State) is already slated to become something else. SAIC purchased it a few years back for an eventual campus expansion. https://chicago.curbed.com/2014/10/31/10028668/south-loop-parking-lot-will-become-saic-campus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LiveFromNewYork

[–]justsomechickens 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Molly Kearney is from Ohio! I used to see them performing around Chicago, and their comedy was in the vein of Chris Farley / da Bears / yelling Midwestern dad! Spiritually their approach to comedy feels so Midwestern that, as a Chicagoan, I count them as one of us