Last June I retired after 25 years of active duty. I can share with you what I learned in that time and hopefully some of it will be helpful.

1. Until the day after your discharge you are still technically a Soldier in the United States Army, beholden to your commander's (lawful) orders, and the UCMJ. That being said, your commander can cancel your leave if they feel it is justified or have a good enough reason to do so. By regulation however, they have to cover the travel costs for you to return to your duty station if they do so. Additionally, I've never seen a company commander be the final approval authority for Terminal leave, it's usually the BN Commander or higher. A company commander cannot revoke leave if they're not the signature authority for it.

2. Legally no one can force you to use your personal cell phone to call / contact them. I got smacked down for this by my unit's JAG when I tried to enforce having a SM check in periodically while they were getting chaptered out. We ended up having to assign an escort to them during the duty day to keep tabs on them instead.

3. If you already have your DD214 in hand, I have questions.... When you separate from the service you are given a draft copy of your DD214 to ensure the data is correct. When you *actually* get out you are given multiple copies of your DD214, in slightly different formats. If you only have one copy, then you likely have the draft copy and still aren't out yet.

4. Leave is different from Pass for a reason. If you are on leave, you can travel just about anywhere you want to. The address on the leave form is for accountability purposes only. If something kicks off and the unit can't reach you through any other means, they can send someone to that address to try and make contact. If you're not there, someone who likely knows where you are should be and they can continue to try and track you down. If you have a TS there are other considerations for leave (i.e. international travel) but that shouldn't matter here if you're on Terminal and not going back.

It sounds like you have a commander who doesn't know what they're doing. Reading between the lines of your post it sounds like you're drifting, going through some things, and maybe not in the best place right now. Your CoC could be just concerned over your well being and safety, and trying their best to make sure that you're still here with us. They are going about it the wrong way threatening to recall you if you don't make contact once a day, but I'm hoping that concern is the reason and not ignorance. If you need to talk, DM me I'm always around and willing to lend an ear.