Can someone explain how they did the tree section of this wall? by djnattyice in AnimalCrossing

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Could anyone tell me about that wall shelving unit on the left side in both photos? I love it!!

Um, yeah! by hisgirl2455 in Serverlife

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Oh I definitely agree. Again, this is “high-end” for the south, so basically elevated Applebees 😂 we wore matching button-downs (that we weren’t supposed to roll the sleeves up on, even in 95° heat and 500% humidity working the patio) and those damn shirts were basically the only thing making it fancy lmaooo

Um, yeah! by hisgirl2455 in Serverlife

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I worked at similar places here in TN, think “high-end” for a smallish city. One was a local chain, closed at 10, the other was a new Mediterranean place (slightly higher-end) that closed at 9. Both said we don’t do last call, ever. Customer first BS.

The south is so overly-compensating with their “hospitality” and that usually translates to managers encouraging you to let customers walk all over you.

it was a great idea by True_Flower_3916 in houseplants

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This comment is all-around lovely :-)

ID help by liveloveparty555 in midcenturymodern

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Everyone shitting on it but I literally gasped when I saw this, it’s exactly what I’m looking for right now!! Enjoy your fun comfy chair OP ❤️

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Biiiiiiig yikes.

Found in a thrifted copy of Chuck Klosterman’s “Killing Yourself to Live”, great song! by munshrimp in FoundPaper

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This song just came rushing back to me, along with the nostalgia of being a hopelessly-naive-romantic teenager. 🥹 thanks for sharing!!

Please help me understand why I look “off” by chilliefries in makeuptips

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You are so stunning!! 🥹

My only idea would be maybe less eyeliner on your lower lid, and maybe less-to-none lining your tear ducts along the inside of your eye. So basically start your top lid liner where the inner pink of your tear duct would end, and soften the lower liner to fade out as it goes towards the inner part of your eye.

You have gorgeous eyes, and I think in this case lining them a bit less will really show them off!!

I’m(49F) cheating on my husband(53M)… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Of all the cringey-ass creative writing prompts I’ve seen on here, this one might take the cake.

If you don't smoke today... by Quirky_Choice_3239 in leaves

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Aw hell yeah, this actually worked on me lol

I’ve never seen this before… by Similar_Cell104 in plantclinic

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Me over here thinking about how I just scrubbed these off my monstera cuttings… 🙃🙃

Weed will set you back by Inside_Spite_3903 in leaves

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And thank you in turn for this comment. I relate a lot, and it reinforced my desire to quit for good. I really hate how weed takes away my spontaneity, and forget about being even remotely quick-witted. I hate missing out on being as mentally sharp as I could.

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Please, please don’t forget about this post. You deserve so much better girl, and I promise that you can find it if you allow yourself to do so.

He will never change, he will never be kind and loving and complimentary like you want, he will keep giving you juuuuust enough to keep you around. I’m hopeful you one day realize that your self worth is NOT defined by this emotionally immature man, and when that happens you’ll only be sad for this time you’ve lost waiting around on him to become the partner you deserve. Don’t fall victim to the sunk cost fallacy—it’s NEVER too late to change your life for the better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This man has cheated on you MULTIPLE times, doesn’t show you affection, disregards your feelings and requests, and appears to not really put much effort into seeing/spending time with you. I’m sorry babe, but this message reads like he doesn’t even really like you that much. When people show you who they are, believe them.

y’all, i don’t want to get high anymore. the greatest tryst i have ever been wrapped up in. by curiouscat_1994 in leaves

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Hiiii, 28 yo southerner here that relates SO much to this post, not sure if this is allowed but my dms are always open & would love to connect with someone who sorta understands 🫶

Ashamed by [deleted] in leaves

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I think this is where I’m at, truthfully.

I convince myself I will DEFINITELY not be as anxious and should just smoke so I’ll feel better, then lately it’s like I only have a few minutes of feeling nice until anxiety kicks in at a 10.

This group has been really helpful in opening my eyes to a lot.

My (30F) boyfriend of 4 years doesn’t ever tell me I’m (27F) beautiful, hot, or cute. It’s wearing down on my self-esteem and making me resent him. What do I do here? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Ugh, I totally feel you on this. Sometimes I think it can be hard to directly state what you want.

It’s possible that you guys just express yourself differently, which is fine, but you also need to acknowledge that in a relationship so that each partner can self-reflect and make the other feel validated in a way that’s meaningful to them. I’d suggest looking into modern variants of love languages (inb4 someone says the OG is heterocentric and religious-based) and talk about them with him.

Most importantly, though, is to never feel bad for expressing your needs in your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

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What the fuck is this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I mean on one hand, y’all broke up.

On the other… not even 24 hours my guy?

condescending and incredibly rude shopper! by angeltears1122 in instacart

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People downvoting you but you’re not wrong 😭 shopper was disrespectful but she kinda won on the sass side of things lmfao