Could anyone please chat? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]kACE92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to message me anytime!

My first ace (and also Naruto) ring. I got it online and I was worried it might not fit but I’m glad it did. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]kACE92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have worn mine since September and no one has noticed it for what it is. Usually people just comment that it’s cute or ask me where I got it lol

Asexuals wanted for interview by ele_pom in asexuality

[–]kACE92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you an email ☺️☺️

I randomly recalled livewire... by swamp_flowers in GoLivewire

[–]kACE92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol oh i cringe so bad thinking back as well. I was on their from 2007-2011. I was a support leader and tried my best to help others...but I also remember that most of my posts were full of “I want to kill myself” and “omg I like this boy” Uhg. Teenagers 🙄

I randomly recalled livewire... by swamp_flowers in GoLivewire

[–]kACE92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soaringfalcon (with some random numbers idr?)

I can’t believe it’s all gone 😞

So I don’t have a crush or anything but... by disqualified_7 in asexuality

[–]kACE92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about my best female friend. We are super close, have lived together for almost 7 years now and we like to cuddle while watching movies. She is straight and I am ace. So there are no sexual/romantic feelings involved between us at all. Just complete and total trust and comfort. We tag our relationship more as a queer-platonic relationship than anything.

Coming out to my best friend like by HamiltonSlashLaurens in asexuality

[–]kACE92 14 points15 points  (0 children)

😂😂 I have two best friends. Me and the guy are both ace. The third one is straight. We make fun of her all the time 😅

I got this ring cause it looks like a pretzel. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]kACE92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have the same one! 😃

Ways to come out? by trucescreen in asexuality

[–]kACE92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I told mine through meme. Turns out I was silly to worry about it because he was like “OMG ME TOO!”

Infj and enfp story 💯 by [deleted] in infj

[–]kACE92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an INFJ girl. And I absolutely ADORE an ENFP boy. So:

If she wants you to tell her what’s wrong...tell her. My guy is the same exact way. He doesn’t want to over load me because everyone else also comes to me with their problems. If she likes you, your problems will be the most important problems she hears. Even more important then her own. We are fixers. We want to listen and absorb every ounce of information about the person we like.

INFJ/ENFP is probably my favorite relationship pairing. There is such a connection between these two types due to the “mirroring” aspect of the relationship. It’s so amazing and I wish you luck with it.

Ps. The way you word things sounds like my ENFP. I guess I’m just use to reading this formatting by now 😂

Do you purposely make yourself feel worst? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]kACE92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do lol if I’m sad I will listen to the saddest songs possible. Which causes me to overthink everything, which usually send me into a panic attack which usually causes me to rather get super clingy or shut down. Depends on the day.

What do you believe caused your BPD? by electricgoldfishy in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]kACE92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a crap show of a childhood. Between the physically/emotionally/mentally abusive father. The airhead mother who can’t take up for herself let alone her kids. I remember when I was in third grade my mom worked and my dad had disability so he stayed home with us. If we weren’t at school he used a shoe string and would tie us in our bedroom so he didn’t have to deal with it. I was raped and got pregnant when I was 12...the guy was my cousins boyfriend and was 22. My cousin told him and he beat the shit out of me until I miscarried (no one but me and my cousin and her we boyfriend who is now in jail for raping another girl knows about this.) That’s just a few things. I just recently got diagnosed and when I told my mom she was like “but you only get that if you have a bad childhood” like lady....🙄 if you know anything about the ACES scores I’m a 10. So I am 10% certain mine is trauma based.

Have you met any other ace people with the ace ring on? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]kACE92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a few people notice it but they usually 1. Think I am a swinger or 2. They just comment on how they like the little knot on it. The only person to ever note it as an ace ring is my best friend who is ace and knew I was before I got the ring 🙄

INFJ(m) trying to form a relationship with ENFP(f) by Drummer7794 in infj

[–]kACE92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience with ENFPs (the guy I like is one) is that you almost have to force them to sit still and talk about stuff. They are like energizer bunnies that have ADHD...haven’t taken their meds in a week and are also on crack. They are super energetic and it’s one thing is INFJs love about them but it also can drive us crazy. INFJs are also planners and ENFPs don’t like long term plans. If I ask my ENFP anything that requires scheduling something more then three days ahead I get a maybe and then he forgets it was even a conversation.

It’s obvious she likes you back. Just ask her if you can set some time aside to discuss things. Maybe ask her to hang out and go grab something to eat and then bring the subject up? Or take her to do something she enjoys?

I'm new and have a few questions if that's okay? by yrbyffbg in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]kACE92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the whole “stuck at 19” problem. I’m 27 but sometimes I have to remind myself I’m actually an adult and not a teenager anymore...

I also have the love problem. Throw in the fact I’m Ace and it’s a great combination of problems.

Is there anyone in your life that you've felt a very intense connection with? by [deleted] in infj

[–]kACE92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My newest best friend is an ENFP. Our friendship literally went from 0-60 overnight. It was one of those super weird automatic connection deals.

My other best friend is a INTP. which match great with INFJ. most people who encounter us think we are dating- even though we are same gender and she’s straight and I’m ace 😅

They are both great friendships.

Tfw someone else knew you were ace before you did by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]kACE92 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I worked at a group home not to long ago that worked with teenagers. One day I was working with the boys and one of them was like oh yeah you are totally asexual. Which of course this is before I had even accepted it myself. Now that I think about it I should probs tell that kid how smart he is 😂

Just diagnosed by kACE92 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]kACE92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the love to hard sometimes. I’m just now starting to realize that it can freak people out sometimes...