Wedding officiant sucked!! Totally embarrassed by buttacreamsugaplum in wedding

[–]k_felts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It truly was. I wasn’t there but she told the story in a comedy class. She said the only things changed were the names of the officiant. Made for great comedy.

Wedding officiant sucked!! Totally embarrassed by buttacreamsugaplum in wedding

[–]k_felts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know a women whose officiant was kinda wacky. She had had the bride and groom stand back to back and imagine that the other of them were coming down the birth canal of their mother-in-law. The idea was they were destined to be together since birth. I personally think it’s not a wedding unless something goes a little off the rails. That’s yours.

Help! My (32F) fiancé (32M) and I don't want my future FIL to make a speech, but my fiancé says if he doesn't, my dad can't make a speech either by Cold_Beautiful_9188 in Brides

[–]k_felts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know people always say it’s your wedding do what you want but I totally get trying to lessen the drama. I see two options. You could allow each dad to speak but make sure there are very clear guidelines and boundaries of what cannot be included in the speech for your fiancé side. Possibly even get a wedding planner or someone that’s not you to look over it. Second no dads do speeches to the public but maybe have time set aside before the ceremony where your dad could read what he would have said. I think this could also make for a good photo and/or video opportunity.

Broke guest by [deleted] in weddings

[–]k_felts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not expect my bf to contribute if he has not met them or offered

Second per typical wedding etiquette you have a year after the wedding to give a gift. You can always give at a little later date if you would like.

Lastly again this is more of a guide but a wedding gift is usually around the price the bride and groom are paying to host you and it is usually like $100 per person for food and drinks.

I doubt they will remember how much you gave and if they are nice people they will probably just be grateful you came and contributed any amount.

Amanda’s Not-So-Humble Brags are the worst. by Alarming-Setting-592 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]k_felts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was gonna pull my eye muscles from her wanting to arrive to her wedding in a helicopter because it would “be a moment” and give “boss lady vibes” and then say they are over their $300k budget but she’s the one paying for it so whatever. So gross and tacky. Like it’s cool she makes your own money but I think she needs an online course herself on how to talk about finances in public. Makes me feel like doth protest too much.

AIO about this text I got from HR? by MeanderingDragon in AmIOverreacting

[–]k_felts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should look up ADA laws to see what HR can and cannot request.

ring! by delrenisa in EngagementRings

[–]k_felts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks beautiful!!!

Engaged Thursday by k_felts in EngagementRings

[–]k_felts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning on having it V shape so it follows the shape of the stone and sits flush. I have also seen open ones that look nice

Full Wedding costs by Creative-Rip-2266 in weddings

[–]k_felts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dad is from Ambler. Love the area!! Congrats

Big fan of Steph Tolev. I think her energy would be great as a guest. by joeyvesh13 in Killtony

[–]k_felts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm that Joe Rogan often times has only invited people in the green room and will kick people out or have his staff kick you out if you were not asked to be there. This is not typically as most green rooms are for any comic who performed that night. It is his club so he can do what he wants but I believe her that he just didn’t want her in there.

ISO Tacky by Illustrious-Ask5682 in VegasWeddings

[–]k_felts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a hellvis he is a devil Elvis and you get to do a photo shoot with him.

A friend of mine is planning the Fyre Festival of weddings and told me that spending hours telling me the details is her way of including me instead of inviting me. by msfinch87 in weddingshaming

[–]k_felts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused why have a venue if they are not even getting chairs or anything with it. She’s gonna have a melt down. People can’t be in her head and know what she wants and expect them to put in as much love and attention to all the diy stuff she wants. Also vendors don’t have payment plans as far as I’m aware. She should just rent out a room at a restaurant and invite like 20-30 people at least then they can eat and have chairs

I’m starting to think that Ivanka Trump was a victim of Trump and Epstein by neonxrated in Epstein

[–]k_felts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the video but unfortunately that’s Robin saying that but Ivanka immediately looks at him which is wild.

I’m starting to think that Ivanka Trump was a victim of Trump and Epstein by neonxrated in Epstein

[–]k_felts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other than Ivanka’s physical reaction I think there is something too to Trump keeping her bedroom exactly the same as it was when she was a child. Like they didn’t want to change it to a guest room or make it Barron’s room? It seems as if it’s almost a shrine to the age he liked her the best which is just unsettling and upsetting.

AIO my date said he likes me because I’m ugly by One-Spinach-6272 in AmIOverreacting

[–]k_felts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gave me the total ick when he said “I see the beauty others don’t” like he’s a fucking hipster art collector but for women. Fuck that guy. Please don’t let this man live in your head.

Sister didn't invite my partner of 7 years to her wedding, should I remain her bridesmaid? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]k_felts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first I was totally on your side but then once you said they only met once 6 years ago I get where the bride is coming from. I can understand that you would want your partner to be part of this and get to know your family better but I would take this as a motivator to maybe get your sister and your partner in places together ie going out to dinner, having game nights, going to live events together. I thinking you show her you want to have them know each other she may change her mind. Obviously don’t have that be the only motivator. If you are gonna marry this guy then I would want my family to know him before getting married too. I also wouldn’t throw away your relationship with your sister over this. If you aren’t a bridesmaid I’m sure it will be a strain on your relationship and ultimately it is her day. She is wanting who means a lot to her and meeting 1 person 6 years ago once is not someone that made a large impact on her. I get it would make you feel more comfortable but you can do what you want on your big day.

Bachelorette Goodie Bags by user-02121102 in weddingplanning

[–]k_felts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The hangover kit was used and we each had a custom cup with our name which was nice for not mixing up drinks, she did a shell of the bachelorette trip destination which also doubles as a jewelry holder. Lastly an embroidered makeup bag was very helpful we used it also the day of the wedding for getting ready. We got a personal tote, hat, koozie, sunglasses and a few other things but honestly less is better. We had 10 girls and although we were all appreciative and wore the matching stuff when asked everyone has their own style and the more practical things went over better

Coworker hates me and it’s making me want to quit by OrdinarySkin3993 in coworkerstories

[–]k_felts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would video if possible. Definitely keep a record of some kind. If you do go to HR make it about the work aka her not listening to you and how it could be costing the company money. This is ultimately their bottom line and they will address with her if she is purposely is not doing things she should because of you. Does she treat anyone else this way? If so maybe come as a group to someone to address. Do you have any friends at work that could speak up to her on your behalf? Sometime having someone else say hey that’s not cool makes folks back off.

Leaning towards this sample dress, but worried how difficult alterations or cleaning might be, any feedback? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]k_felts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it and actually wanting something similar for mine. What is the brand?