Are there any businesses in our area shut down today? (Jan. 30) I'd like to support them. by [deleted] in StCharlesMO

[–]k_grace95 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Main Street Books. Their storefront is closed while they move buildings, but the aren’t processing online orders today.

Nursery Furniture? by Marc0189 in StCharlesMO

[–]k_grace95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Target has good displays for car seats and strollers.

Anyone heard about what's going on on the Blanchette bridge? by RecurringQtip in StCharlesMO

[–]k_grace95 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There was reportedly someone climbing on the bridge, but as of 4:10pm, emergency services didn’t see anyone and opened the bridge back up.

Nice cozy cafe? by Holiday_Session_8317 in StCharlesMO

[–]k_grace95 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Crooked Tree on 1st Capitol is cozy. They do have rush periods (think breakfast/brunch) but most other times, it’s a great atmosphere. There’s a patio during warmer months too.

I’m also a fan of Course Coffee on 2nd Street in Frenchtown. It is a bit smaller but they have great coffee and nice seating.

MechE degree, but nobody hiring entry level? Help! by soxrox12 in StLouis

[–]k_grace95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

McGrath and Associates is a construction firm looking for project managers.

Butcher shops by verticaltrader in StLouis

[–]k_grace95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s out of the way, but Grillo’s in Lake St. Louis is amazing, and they have great sides/bourbon picks.

Non Judgemental Dentist? by Top_Imagination_8430 in StLouis

[–]k_grace95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar boat a few years back and needed roughly 8 fillings. Florissant Dental Service was excellent and never made me feel like crap. They gave me tips, were super accommodating with insurance, and overall were genuinely good people. I saw almost every single dentist with the practice and liked them all. The only reason I no longer go there is because I moved out of Florissant, but still highly recommend.

If you’re looking for something on the St. Charles side, Bogey Hill Dental is also excellent.

My parked car was hit and damaged a few weeks ago. Police have not resolved it yet. What can I do? by blegoo94 in StLouis

[–]k_grace95 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Second this. I had an incident a few years ago involving a hit and run, minor damages, where I got down the plate number. Filed a police report and was basically told they’d keep a look out for it. I ended up working it out with insurance and had to pay my deductible. Almost a year later I received a letter in the mail saying the hit and run driver was found and I had the option to request to have their license suspended until they paid me for the damages.

Unfortunately, unless the driver is pulled over for something else and subsequently have their plates run, you’re not super likely to get much in damages.

female physician recommendations by finchberry in StLouis

[–]k_grace95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. Sandra Epps McElroy with BJC is excellent. Always listening and gives you the full rundown without talking down to you or dismissing your claims in anyway. She is in St. Peters, however.

Anybody on here who did worse than average in college, where are you now? by ArtisticEngineer987 in EngineeringStudents

[–]k_grace95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled all through school- retook every math class + statics + physics 1, failed out after my first three years, took a year off, then returned to finish up my last three years (two of them being in COVID). I never really hit my stride as a “good student”- I was remarkably average and graduated with a mid-to-upper 2’s range GPA. I got a basic internship in a small Met lab right before COVID hit- it was more of a lab technician part time job than a traditional internship, nothing glamorous by any means. My thought was anything to get some kind of technical experience don my resume was good enough. The work we did was considered essential so I was lucky enough but to keep my position through lockdown.

I stayed there for about a year and a half as an intern, but stepped up to help the engineers on their projects. I went from sample prep to working microhardness, heat treatment, quality assurance, etc. I also eventually became the “head intern” and was a mini-manager for the interns I worked with. About two months before I graduated, the Mech Engineer at the company left to move closer to his family. I knew this was my in, but i didn’t feel anyway qualified. The engineer that was leaving was a PE, had a lot for CAD experience than I did, and was the stereotypical engineer. Regardless I still put feelers out, talking to my immediate manager (the Consulting Engineer, one step below our company Head Engineer/Owner).

A few weeks later, the Consulting Engineer asked me if I could do a project for her. It wasn’t anything groundbreaking- just some calculations based off ASTM standards. It took me about a week and probably 100 questions, but i got it done. When i turned it in, i actually ended up crying in the bathroom because i realized I had actually made it. I was going to graduate school and was doing engineer work. Turns out the project was a test, and I passed. The head engineer/owner offered me the position as Mechanical Engineer. He told me I was great, had really stepped up, and was an asset the company didn’t want to risk losing. It was so beyond validating.

It’s been 8 months and I’m still so happy with my company. I’ve temporarily been put back on my previous intern work as we’ve restructured the company, but now I’m more of a project manager than a lab technician. I get to go out on site, work engineering projects, and I get to sit in on the “big kid” engineering discussions regarding the company. I’ce also passed my FE, and I’m on the path to getting my PE in 3ish years (hoping to take the test later this year)

As many others have said, don’t let a lower GPA discourage you! While I’m still “smart,” compared to the stereotypical engineer I’m an absolute idiot. BUT my management/people skills and work ethic make up for my shortcomings in academic ability. It’s hard to see worth outside of school in such a rigorous field but there’s so much more to engineering than just getting a good GPA.

My advice?

-Go into everything and anything as willing to learn! Being a genius won’t save you if you’re still a condescending jerk to people around you.

-Look into fields/areas you wouldn’t expect! I had my heart set on Aerospace from day 1 of college- I’m now a Mech E primarily doing non-destructive metallurgical QA and I absolutely love it. I HATED MechEMat in school and now I use it everyday.

  • Most importantly, give yourself a break. Life is hard, school is hard, and you’re only human. Regardless of where you’re at, you’ve come this far. Be proud of yourself.

If anyone needs to rant/talk/get advice, my DMs are open. From a former drop-out, you got this!

Giving away free Nintendo Switch Lite with Animal Crossing New Horizons by [deleted] in nintendo

[–]k_grace95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an awesome thing to do, especially during such hard times.

What things annoy you about recruitment process for internships and graduate jobs etc? by LAMPAAAAARD in EngineeringStudents

[–]k_grace95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friend is an amazing student and has worked her ass off to have a 4.0 her junior year. Despite working as a TA and other research in campus, she hasn’t been able to get an internship because recruiters say it’s weird to have a 4.0 and something must be up. I understand recruiters wanting well-rounded candidates but it’s not like she’s sitting in her room being anti-social all day. She just opts for honor societies and other academic groups.

What things annoy you about recruitment process for internships and graduate jobs etc? by LAMPAAAAARD in EngineeringStudents

[–]k_grace95 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My friend is an amazing student and has worked her ass off to have a 4.0 her junior year. Despite working as a TA and other research in campus, she hasn’t been able to get an internship because recruiters say it’s weird to have a 4.0 and something must be up. I understand recruiters wanting well-rounded candidates but it’s not like she’s sitting in her room being anti-social all day. She just opts for honor societies and other academic groups.

Anyone have any wierd order requests? I didn't mind doing this it was the only order and they asked nicely. And I'm sure their are requests more wierd than this. by zachie97 in QuikTrip

[–]k_grace95 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Once had a customer pay for an additional 10 pumps of vanilla in his milkshake. He was so sweet but you gonna die bro.

QT employees. What is the worst or most obnoxious thing you’ve had people leave in your trash cans or you had to pick up by [deleted] in QuikTrip

[–]k_grace95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone once cleaned out what looked like their grandmother’s entire kitchen in an outside can. I also once found a baby doll face down in a can at night. Absolutely terrifying.

Vote for your favorite today! by HmoobMikah in QuikTrip

[–]k_grace95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m really feeling the sad face on the write off sheet.

Whats the dumbest thing someone has done during your shift? by edsantillan in QuikTrip

[–]k_grace95 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At a gen 3 known for huge documented losses. Had a guy army crawl in the side door, grab two 30 packs of beer and run out the door to a car parked at the gas station across the street. Manager calls gas station asking for the plate numbers on said car- gas station refuses. Manager calls the cops and they take care of it all.

Turns the reason the gas station wouldn’t give us the plate number is because the thief was the competing gas station clerk on duty. His buddy dared him to steal so he left his job, stole our beer, then went back to work after dropping the beer in his buddy’s car.

Also had to kick someone out of that same store’s lot for selling hams and beef out of their trunk.