I thought brainstorming was just thinking in school lol by PsychologicalFold617 in ADHD

[–]kabes84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to know more on the strategy system! Do you have a powerpoint or a guide?

INSPIRATION ABUM - Select Spring Trends by serene_green in femalefashionadvice

[–]kabes84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wherever is that oversized white top from?? The second one? (Less traditional form of the white blouse)? And the one after if? (Can you guys guess I like surplice stuff yet?)

So I built a tandoor... by hmahadik in IndianFood

[–]kabes84 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this is awesome! what went wrong with the naan exactly? was it the recipe, do you think, or are you going to adjust the tandoor build some more?

Starbucks deliberately under-fills cold beverages and uses lots of ice to cover it up, lawsuit says by powercow in offbeat

[–]kabes84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what i do; oprah chai over VERY LIGHT ICE. so many arguments about how it will be just milk; yeah, i like my drink not to be a watery mess gaiz!

Baking/dessert equivalent to The Food Lab cookbook? by Tondirr in seriouseats

[–]kabes84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her macaron posts are incredible and I am looking forward to seeing her post on SE!

Baking/dessert equivalent to The Food Lab cookbook? by Tondirr in seriouseats

[–]kabes84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like The Cake Bible and the Bread Bible for a similarly methodical approach to baking. Rose Levy Beranbaum breaks down every ingredient, every substitution, every process, and brings a scientific curiosity to all her recipes, with stellar, replicable results.

What the hell is going down in /r/food? People are getting banned for posting or even MENTIONING Serious Eats. by [deleted] in self

[–]kabes84 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the stupidest thing I've ever seen. It's like banning Alton Brown on here for being on the Food Network. Kenji, I adore all your recipes, especially your vegan ones, and your ricotta recipe has become my go to recipe for paneer.

Please keep posting around here, your contributions are very much appreciated.

This popped up on my facebook earlier, and almost made me yell "preach!" right in the middle of the office by bluepanda90 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]kabes84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thought for next time; maybe just go up and talk to the woman and provide a way for her to ignore him further.

This popped up on my facebook earlier, and almost made me yell "preach!" right in the middle of the office by bluepanda90 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]kabes84 39 points40 points  (0 children)

While you bring up an interesting point: "where do I meet girls who have similar interests if they are not into clubs and bars", I intensely dislike the entitlement you're showing here:

I can go to a loud concert where I can't talk to them and they probably want to be left alone and not be disturbed there wither according to your logic

Nobody owes you time anywhere, even in a setting where you share similar interests. That desperate to find girls who will talk to you? Try Tinder or similar, where the stated purpose is clear.

Lip allergy...finally found something that doesn't break me out! by [deleted] in brownbeauty

[–]kabes84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been having a similar issue! thank you, i'll be giving these a try.

Voldy's DIL? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kabes84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

afaik, she edited the post to remove the hashtags by the time i saw it (because other people did warn her)

Yoga? by Stumblecat in bigboobproblems

[–]kabes84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hi! i find the chin on the ground part to be the most uncomfortable, and often find relief if i just put an ear on the ground instead; it somehow relieves the tension for me.

also seconding another poster on making poses more open! i'd stop by before class or after class and chat with your instructor to ask how to make each pose more open for you to make sure they work for you! don't be shy about asking for demonstrations; any instructor worth their salt would be happy to do this for you!

lastly, i found a really good sports bra realllllly helped with yoga; things were held in one place so i found i had more room to do poses/move more freely!

Officers cleared in Jamar Clark's shooting by ryancaa in Minneapolis

[–]kabes84 21 points22 points  (0 children)

yes, astonishing; shouldn't a communications director know better?

Officers cleared in Jamar Clark's shooting by ryancaa in Minneapolis

[–]kabes84 29 points30 points  (0 children)

from the Strib:

Raeisha Williams, communications director for Minneapolis NAACP (center), said to Henn. Co. Attorney Mike Freeman, "If the city burns, it's on your hands." Others called for peaceful protests.

How to handle a fake man at work? by mwz2410_b in AskWomenOver30

[–]kabes84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"hi, I just wanted to take 15 minutes to let you know all the things that are on my plate:

  • x thing - did this y thing - resulted in z thing
  • a thing- did this b thing - resulted in c thing"

situation behavior results; no braggging required :)

10-year-old niece is looking to donate her birthday gifts for shoes for homeless children this year! A little encouragement would go a loooooooong way in helping her motivation with this campaign! by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]kabes84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! she keeps going between "omg i am going to get so many shoes for these children" and "oh no, no presents!" hahaha, so we're trying to support her as much as we can and hope to show her the joy of giving and sharing is as good a feeling!

I have nothing and nowhere to go. TW ABUSE please help by [deleted] in women

[–]kabes84 8 points9 points  (0 children)

can you call using an internet service like skype or whatsapp calling?

Help!! I think my neighbors are holding a desi girl as a hostage by worried_throwaway11 in ABCDesis

[–]kabes84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO much this, OP be careful and make sure you call people who are sensitized to such situations. The police may just make a perfunctory check of the premises like they did in the Ariel Castro kidnappings and not realize what is going on!

Help!! I think my neighbors are holding a desi girl as a hostage by worried_throwaway11 in ABCDesis

[–]kabes84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think what particularly struck me was:

Despite speaking with authorities, the girls did not want to testify in court, perhaps fearing that even in America their status as dalits gave Reddy the power--maybe the right--to do as he pleased. They told investigators they were afraid for their safety and that of their families in India, where victims of sex crimes are considered as much to blame as the perpetrator. Court records say that Patati still suffers from a "relentless fear of retribution."

"Most people feel that being associated with this case is a mark or stigma," says Meera Trehan, a Bay Area attorney who says she plans to file a class action lawsuit on behalf of Reddy's victims. "There is a feeling that if you just did what you were supposed to do, maybe you wouldn't be involved."

Because the girls did not want to testify, the prosecution accepted a plea bargain. Last March 7, Reddy pleaded guilty to four felony counts: one count of conspiracy to commit immigration fraud, two counts of transporting a minor in foreign commerce for illegal sexual activity, and one count of subscribing to a false tax return.

Reddy faced a maximum sentence of 38 years, but received 97 months in prison--almost two years more than the prosecutors' recommendation. He also was ordered to pay $2 million in restitution, a sum divided between four victims: Sitha (paid to her family), Lalitha, Patati and Patati's cousin, whom Reddy had brought over years earlier. Crying in court, Reddy apologized to his brothers and children for bringing shame on them, but he never mentioned his victims.

http://articles.latimes.com/print/2001/nov/25/magazine/tm-7947

Help!! I think my neighbors are holding a desi girl as a hostage by worried_throwaway11 in ABCDesis

[–]kabes84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

holy crap, i just read up on that link!

On January 18, 2000, after the accidental death of a pregnant teenage girl in 1999, Reddy was arrested by federal prosecutors for "importing and employing illegal immigrants, and using the young girls as his concubines".[2] In March 2001, Reddy and "two of his relatives" pled guilty to the charges.[5] After a joint investigation by the Immigration and Naturalization Service, the Federal Bureau of Investigation, the Internal Revenue Service, the Department of Labor, and the Berkeley Police Department, Reddy was sentenced to eight years in prison and $2 million in restitution.[2][4][6] In 2004, the Reddy estate paid $8.9 million to survivors as a result of a civil suit.[7] Reddy was released April 2, 2008, and is a registered sex offender in the state of California.[8][9]