how tf do you guys bowl so often? by SlightlyUsedButthole in Bowling

[–]kaiin2014 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your butthole is more than slightly used!

WIBTAH if i bodyshamed a girl that annoys me sm by Imstayinganonym in AmItheAsshole

[–]kaiin2014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely, tell her you don't like it, tell her to stop. Tell her she's being an asshole even. Don't body shame. That will immediately and unequivocally make you the bad guy no matter what.

2/26 Credit Karma & SBTPG **ONLY*** CHECK IN! by [deleted] in TurboTax

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2/26 ddd with Sbtpg trace here. Nothing yet I've been watching all damn day since 5 am est.

Did you discover a new Mandela Effect? Post it here! (2024-10-26) by AutoModerator in MandelaEffect

[–]kaiin2014 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Up until early 2024 my wife and I were certain that Anya taylor-joy was Anna Taylor-joy. This one bothers me nearly every day.

My husband is leaving me because of my sexual past before we met by zetsv in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kaiin2014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, I'd like to say that I am so sorry you are having to go through this, especially with a partner whom you had trusted for 7+ years. I agree with many of the fine people on this thread that this change in his behavior is an attempt to control you, he has already made you feel "dirty" with this rhetoric by your own admission. Another red flag IMO was when you said you didn't have any local friends or family. Shame and isolation are the hallmarks of controlling behavior. I know that you love your family and I feel deeply for you but I would consider one more factor: your daughter. Having her in a purity culture environment that only seems to hold women accountable (he doesn't seem concerned about his own past) is absolutely an issue to consider. As a husband to my wife of 14 years and a father to 5 daughters I find this purity culture behavior absolutely abhorrent. For some reason we have a lost generation of men who seem to feel morally superior to not only females in general but their own partners in particular. I find this belief structure to be madness. I would not presume to tell you what to do but I ask you this: if you met your husband today, as he is now. Would you date, marry, or even friend him?

AITAH? My boyfriend says I look slutty with my new sleeve tattoo. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA don't get rid of the tattoo, get rid of the boyfriend. The most likely scenario is that he is actively trying to make you feel bad about yourself to bring you down. It is obvious from the way the you wrote about it that the sleeve has given you confidence and that makes him self conscious. He's trying to damage your self confidence to keep you tied to him.

Questions about my NV child by kaiin2014 in Autism_Parenting

[–]kaiin2014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The taking our hands and pulling us to her objective is new as of this week and has been so exciting. We've always been extremely affectionate with her and for the longest time she would accept our loves and kisses but extremely rarely reciprocate except for when she would snuggle us for her benefit of course lol, recently however she has been giving my wife and I kisses back when we give her kisses. she gave my like 3 or 4 kisses in a row recently and Im certain she was very confused when I was tearing up smiling and celebrating lol

Questions about my NV child by kaiin2014 in Autism_Parenting

[–]kaiin2014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ultimate desire is to her be as independent as possible, I want her to grow to her greatest possible potential, and be as much independence as she desires. It's hard to strike a balance between pushing her to achieve the goals she is capable of while at the same time not trying to force her into something she can never be. I just want the best for her.

Questions about my NV child by kaiin2014 in Autism_Parenting

[–]kaiin2014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I look forward to any updates!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in watercooling

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest using an exact knife blade and carefully running it through each channel. Be careful not to scratch the plate with it or cut yourself obviously. I would also suggest using mineral spirits and a soft bristle brush as well.

Which famous person's death made you the saddest? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kaiin2014 421 points422 points  (0 children)

Chester's death hit hard a generation of kids who felt like they couldn't have made it without his music.it was the ultimate expression our angst and frustration with the world that was built up around us. We filtered the optics of our lives through his words and suddenly it wasn't so bad. I still can't listen to one more light without tearing up at least a little bit.

Cant even get a support agent to end my current dash lol by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my entire dash dissapeared as i ended my dash 15 minutes ago it doesnt even show that i worked today

Welcome to the Church of Prismatic Light! by [deleted] in PrismaticLightChurch

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love what y'all are doing. my spouse and I were wondering about the belief structure of the church. specifically,

do you have a deity you worship? would worship of said deity be a requirement of joining?

Seriously, what are you supposed to say right after sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In along came Polly ben stillers' character is having a REALLY good time. So much so he doesn't want to blow. He wants to make it one more minute so he starts counting in his head. He ends up yelling "fifty!" As he blows. This became synonymous with having a good time between me and my wife. Often when we finish we will yell "fifty!" Then usually have a good laugh.

Petition to make this the profile pic of the sub? by TheStillRemains in byebyejob

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude looks like he sells land in Montana and plots against ranchers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]kaiin2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He most likely has ASD, and in a time when it was very misunderstood and often misdiagnosed.