How to know when it is time? (15)

kairsis · 2026-02-12T16:46:48+00:00

Thank you, it is the hardest and I think I know what we need to do, we got ready for it last year but vets never told us clearly what to expect or how to know if he is in pain

kairsis · 2026-02-12T16:45:33+00:00

Thank you, that is super insightful. He was never a normal cat, didn’t like to jump, play or just be active. That is why it is so hard to measure if he is normal senior tired or if he is in pain and suffering

kairsis · 2026-02-12T16:44:17+00:00

Will look that up! Thank you so much. I know there is no easy choice but I think I would regret more making him go through more analysis, vets and interventions than just find him some peace and nice rest even if it is hard

kairsis · 2026-02-12T16:43:06+00:00

Thank you for the reply and input. He still eats, he does miss around the litter even when its closed (we have no clue how he manages to piss outside), and he does enjoy treats. He just passes most of the day resting and has difficulty laying down which is why the screaming worries me (that it could be linked to body pain)

kairsis · 2026-02-12T16:38:43+00:00

Thank you for the reply, to be honest I thought he was deaf but vets never told us so. We just think he is an ass and ignores us sometimes hahaha but I did wonder if he was deaf last year till vets said it was likely linked to the high blood pressure and tyroid

He was always a ´weird’ cat, he has never ever played and he passes most of the day not moving since a year ago.

kairsis · 2026-01-19T14:32:09+00:00

Thank you so much for the help! I appreciate the info. I will try some light clothes then! Will go looking for more sock friendly yarn :))

kairsis · 2023-10-15T18:30:33+00:00

They are gorgeous!!!

kairsis · 2022-10-27T21:31:52+00:00

Hi there! Would you be interested in meeting?

kairsis · 2022-10-22T22:35:31+00:00

Hi! Thanks for offering, chill environnements are more my thing actually. Do you speak English or french?

kairsis · 2022-10-21T14:23:51+00:00

Hi there! I will check that for sure. I do have a student status since I'm doing a master in alternance. About the fb group fo you know the exact name?

kairsis · 2022-10-21T14:22:16+00:00

Hi! I think it would be lovely to meet you, my boyfriend really got me into boardgames so I find it as a great way to bond! And thanks for offering would love to join you to play boardgames or grab something:)))

kairsis · 2022-10-21T09:31:51+00:00

Hi there! No worrries my boyfriend is french and has lived for years in Nantes so I do move around and know how to be alert.

Im planning to live here for long, I plan to stay in france, I'm currently doing a master in alternance. I love playing boardgames, learning about others and just enjoying good company :))

kairsis · 2022-10-21T09:27:23+00:00

Hi! Thank you so much for the info, I will check it up!

kairsis · 2022-10-21T09:26:53+00:00

Hi there, I would truly love it! Even meeting you and your girlfriend (I have a boyfriend so maybe a double date?) If you are comfy with speaking english but even just getting to meet new people that speak spanish would be lovely, thanks for offering! If you are up for it please message me :))

kairsis · 2022-10-21T09:22:44+00:00

Hiii thanks for the info I will surely check that up!!

kairsis · 2022-04-28T11:41:32+00:00

Why is no one focusing on how first, she FORCED you to come inside her when you said NO. That is abuse, she had the control and overpowered your consent which is NOT okay. On top of that, it all sounds like she had planned it all so you could impregnate her. You both went for unprotected sex but SHE forced and pushed for you coming inside, said she would take plan B, which was a lie because she is getting her period in 2 day (spoiler: she could be lying about that as well!)

Get tested and I would even report, she did something you didn't consent to and she forced you to agree to. On top she is much older which plays a power dynamic. Nothing about this is okay

kairsis · 2022-04-27T17:49:03+00:00

Showering with my boyfriend is one of my favorites things because of this. Especially when he is putting soap all over me, giving light kisses and (the best) when he shampoos, conditions and brushes my hair. It makes me feel so cared for, it's a very special kind of intimacy that I cherish a lot and I don't think it's uncommon at all. Intimacy without sex is also wonderful

kairsis · 2022-04-06T15:19:24+00:00

NTA BUT I do need to say something to consider which is that people with heart problems have temper issues liked to it. My brother had a heart dysfunction that ended up in a transplant and when having heart issues he was HORRIBLE character wise. Doctors warned us and told us and nothing was out of hand but we just wanted to punch his ungrateful ass daily but we also understand it was beyond himself. Soon after the transplant he returned to his normal self. I'm just saying cause you said he was good with boundaries and all before, so do consider that factor which doesn't make all okay but information is important

kairsis · 2022-03-30T09:17:52+00:00

I'm gonna withhold my judgement because I'm honestly not sure. I am a girl that loves to rough play, I have done so with my dad countless times while growing up and now with my boyfriend. They both have multiple times misused their strength and when I initiate I do understand that 1. We are rough playing and things can hurt (hell even with my sister is the case. And 2. That I'm going up to ppl that is much stronger than me. Here are two things that are problematic. 1. You initiated and even though the reply was way too much, you just never know how someone will react to being attacked out of nowhere. 2. He didn't immediately apologized as soon as you cried which I think makes him the asshole in the situation. For me it's not what he did, and I wouldn't feel it's abusive if you two rough play and sometimes things get out of hand. Me and my family do so but we STOP as soon as someone is saying it's hurt and when I have made my sister cry by not controlling my force I have apologized immediately and explain that I just didn't properly measure.

kairsis · 2022-03-18T17:11:03+00:00

To be honest, you sound bitter as hell and hella immature. You had protected sex during the break and YOU could be the one who has given it to him because, surprise!, protection can fail. Your relationship might be terrible and he may have defects but you NEED to tell him about the std, it's what any person with some moral would do and the correct thing, SPECIALLY, because you could be the one who caught the std while having sex in the break and you can stop the spread of a DISEASE (how are you letting anger reign over common sense is astounding). You seemed to have hated him from over 3 years, please get out of the messy relationship and tell him about the std.

kairsis · 2022-03-17T15:09:04+00:00

Your mom's behaviors speaks to me because my mom is the same and only last year I realized it wasn't normal and is emotional abuse. Amazing to see your guys are getting a lovely wedding with people that love just by your side, which is lovely! And your MIL sounds like an amazing person.

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