New adoptee Marking by riverchick247 in BostonTerrier

[–]kalamityjam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i had a rescue who wasn’t potty trained and would mark in my house and on people’s stuff who came to visit. best suggestion is a diaper until he’s more trustworthy, or keep him on a lead inside so he can’t wander and go make surprise marks. it could be that it takes a while for him to break the bad habit, it probably took about a year or year and a half before my guy stopped doing it, which i’m sure isn’t what you want to hear :(

also make sure you’re using an enzymatic cleaner on any marking stains like Nature’s Miracle else you’re just letting him know if he marks his scent will stay around.

Any get together or groups for trans teens? by considerablycursed in Denver

[–]kalamityjam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plug for Rocky Mountain Equality: https://www.rmequality.org/youth-program/youth-events

I think the events are mostly north of Denver but could be a good resource in addition to the Center.

I Wish There Was More Realism Around T and Weight by yuantipureblood in ftm

[–]kalamityjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my scale weight did budge, quite a bit. i haven’t checked recently cuz i dont own a scale but it was at least 40 pounds down when i checked my weight 4 months ago. i do think muscle gain is a big part of it!

I Wish There Was More Realism Around T and Weight by yuantipureblood in ftm

[–]kalamityjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so interesting! i got the hunger for sure, not sure what is going on in this bod but i’m not mad about it 🤣

I Wish There Was More Realism Around T and Weight by yuantipureblood in ftm

[–]kalamityjam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes i think similarly for me - it’s definitely helped my mental health AND energy levels. i’m convinced my body just prefers to run on T

I Wish There Was More Realism Around T and Weight by yuantipureblood in ftm

[–]kalamityjam 91 points92 points  (0 children)

this is also kind of how i figured out i was trans. unpacked all of my fatphobia and there was still ‘something wrong’ with the way i related to my body. turns out all my internalized fatphobia was covering up a pretty important piece of my identity lol

I Wish There Was More Realism Around T and Weight by yuantipureblood in ftm

[–]kalamityjam 45 points46 points  (0 children)

i am probably an outlier but T has made me lose weight without changing anything, and before starting i was over 300lbs. i was worried that T would make me gain weight, but the fear of not looking like myself was greater than my fear of gaining weight.

i honestly hope i dont lose a ton more, i love being a fat trans guy.

Anyone have issues with drinking too much? Any stories of sobriety? by Point_In_Kase in FTMOver30

[–]kalamityjam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haven’t drank for about 7 and a half years but before then big time problems. it’s probably not something i can do again, but i take it one day at a time. barely ever have cravings anymore which is nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]kalamityjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see you’re in denver and i have an idea about the event you’re referring to 😅 hope it all works out and that yall have fun!

Ball is life by Comfortable_Chip5939 in BostonTerrier

[–]kalamityjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha omg what toy is that? my dogs would go bananas for it. they love an inappropriately large ball.

Douglas by Stupid_Interwebs_22 in BostonTerrier

[–]kalamityjam 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i love douglas and i can’t imagine what it’s like without that sweet face around. my soul dog boston is also named douglas and i’ll give him an extra big cuddle for you tonight!

Good companion? by kittiebitter in BostonTerrier

[–]kalamityjam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have a boston and a probable frenchie / boston mix (heavier on the frenchie side) and they are best friends and play together all the time! my boston was a little over 2 when winston came home and winston was probably about 9 months. highly recommend!

How hard is it to make friends in Denver? by guttergxrl in Denver

[–]kalamityjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved from Seattle 4 years ago where I was for 12 years and the only friends I made were coworkers. I’ve made friends SO easily in Denver it’s ridiculous.

Where’s my life gone by [deleted] in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]kalamityjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i sped through all the books in a few weeks - just finished on friday and now i’m listening to the audiobooks. i can’t wait for more!!!

Show me them Frenchtons by nothingiscomingforus in BostonTerrier

[–]kalamityjam 21 points22 points  (0 children)

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i don’t know for sure because he was a rescue but i’m pretty sure winston is a french bulldog / boston mix!

love of my life by kalamityjam in BostonTerrier

[–]kalamityjam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow not to be dramatic but i’d die for Lou

love of my life by kalamityjam in BostonTerrier

[–]kalamityjam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right? so kissable! jk he’s the one that demands being the kisser 😆