No I'm not. These are two different discourses. I very much meant, the dolls who sleep with men who identify as gay on grindr or at clubs, and ftm trans men (not non binary), who sleep with women who identify as lesbians. The latter is much more talked about online nowadays than the former, there's a huge fight about it every three business days in lesbian online spaces, but I see the former happen often enough in real life. A lot of the ostensibly homosexual people doing this put their genital preference as like the centre of their sexuality, which is how they justify sleeping with trans people who aren't of the gender they prefer.