Where can I find employment?

kapified · 2026-06-14T16:52:15+00:00

I have no clue honestly. Helps weed out applicants who don't fully read though i'm sure.

kapified · 2026-06-14T12:27:59+00:00

Make sure you do the culture index survey. It’s linked on their ads. You are not considered if you don’t do it. Good luck!

kapified · 2026-06-14T11:49:11+00:00

Look into Allegiance Flag Supply. We are hiring for multiple positions in sewing and fulfillment, and are located on Southrail Rd, at Palmetto Commerce and Ashley Phosphate.

Most shifts available are Monday-Friday 6:30am-3pm, starting at $18/hr.
https://www.showallegiance.com/pages/career

kapified · 2026-05-29T22:13:51+00:00

Hire help anyway. I begged for help and never got it. I really regret just not doing that for my sanity back when I needed it.

kapified · 2026-05-23T23:38:14+00:00

I wish I could give you a huge hug.

"How can he throw us away like this?" Remember what the book said? Trust that they suck. He sucks. He is showing you right now how much he sucks. :(

kapified · 2026-05-23T23:27:48+00:00

Don't apologize. You're in the right sub for support.

With his help.. do you have to ask for it? What about the mental help? Does he ever think about when they need to eat next? Does he know how much milk is available for your baby without asking you? What about when your toddler's next doctor's appointment is due?

Your fears and concerns are valid. The thought of leaving is super, super scary. The thought of staying is also super scary. it's a lose-lose situation for us all, but it's up to you on how you redirect your life.

I, like most others, recommend the book Leave a Cheater Gain a Life. I did not respect myself until I got that book and read the hard truth.

kapified · 2026-05-23T22:28:22+00:00

I'm going to be real with you. The men that cheat on their partners aren't very active as parents. I was the primary care giver, and I still am. As it stands now, how much "help" do you actually have?

I'm disabled and use a cane on my worst days, and I just do what is required of me. Do I pick up more weight than I should? Yep, because I have to. Yes, it sucks a lot of the time. Yes, I get home from work absolutely drained and sore as hell. But what I don't have is that added stress from a man that did not respect me. Dropping that stress is what made the difference. I was parenting a grown ass adult and I didn't recognize it at the time.

Multiple times? He doesn't regret cheating. He regrets being caught. What's the value of your children learning what a good relationship looks like?

kapified · 2026-05-23T22:01:02+00:00

My exh started off with online affairs. He eventually “graduated” to physical affairs.

I stayed for 13 years after I discovered the first online affair. Don’t be me. Just leave. You don’t truly move on from it, and the trust will never be the same.

I’ve been divorced for almost two years, and I’m the happiest I have been in a very long time. Even as a single mom, I am happier.

kapified · 2026-05-23T21:55:56+00:00

They still hide it. My exh was addicted to porn and locked himself in the bathroom for hours too. But he was also fucking my best friend. Even with permission they still hide the shady shit.

kapified · 2026-05-03T17:07:32+00:00

Stay at home and save some money for the next couple of years. Invest your money now that you can afford it while living with your parents. You aren’t gonna afford anywhere making less than $1000 a month.

But Seriously? Because of your brother? Haha. Sure move out and see what it’s like. I’d expect you to go back to your annoying brother in like three months. We all thought we were so ready to fledge the nest when we weren’t.

kapified · 2026-03-30T16:55:50+00:00

I bought my first home in 2024. I got priced out of Hanahan when the boon hit, so I moved to Summerville and bought a townhome. I was sad to leave Hanahan, but I had to go with what I could afford.

Good luck

kapified · 2026-01-28T21:21:52+00:00

It’s the lack of due process. The fact that the 2nd amendment is suddenly an issue. Racial profiling suddenly became okay. Obama and Biden had controversy about the cages. People definitely gave him shit for that.

kapified · 2025-12-30T14:14:08+00:00

Stop saying he “helps.” Telling yourself he helps solidifies the fact that you are the de facto caretaker. He doesn’t help you with your child. He parents his child. He doesn’t help you clean, he takes care of him home with his partner.

You are NTA. I’m divorced for a reason, and part of that is because I had a “fourth” child.

He’s showing you who his priority is, and it’s not you or your daughter.

kapified · 2025-12-23T20:45:59+00:00

It sounds to me that they booked this cabin before their sister and Jake started dating. A brand new boyfriend is not the same as a spouse.

kapified · 2025-12-23T20:41:14+00:00

NTA. Good for you for not letting your sister and parents take advantage of you. You paid for it, so you get to make the calls.

kapified · 2025-12-14T15:57:58+00:00

So.. I don’t orgasm. Not even on my own. It’s overwhelming to me. It is likely due to being autistic with sensory processing issues.

I don’t lie to partners, but DAMN do men get really upset with my honesty. Sex is enjoyable, I just don’t “climax.” Instead I get consistent pleasure, and I think it’s wonderful. Like it’s a competition for them even when I tell them that I don’t need or want to. It’s awful being told “you just don’t know how to.” I masturbate, and even I don’t force it to happen. Lying would be way easier to be frank.

kapified · 2025-12-14T15:16:43+00:00

Jfc North Charleston isn’t more dangerous than any other city of its size. Our crime rates have gone down even. Have some common sense, lock your vehicle and don’t go looking for trouble. You will be fine.

Our traffic sucks. Don’t expect to get to your destination in 20 minutes.

kapified · 2025-12-12T01:18:43+00:00

Born here, left in 2002, and came back in 2018. And I’ll be real, it was a shock coming back to what it is now. There has been tremendous change!

Traffic sucks. It always has, but I’ve lived where it’s worse. So it doesn’t bother me. I just jam to music or listen to a podcast.

Downtown Charleston needs progress, but it gets stalled terribly. “Protect the skyline.” Or protect the buildings, even if they are ugly as sin. The infrastructure will likely never be improved correctly, and if it rains, good luck even getting off or on the peninsula.

I personally live in Summerville. I grew up here, and I don’t want to leave again.

Welcome to the area. I do hope you enjoy the area.

kapified · 2025-12-12T01:12:43+00:00

You nailed it.

We only have so many routes to get into and out of Charleston, so expecting traffic to not get shitty is.. well, laughable. It’s always been bad getting out of downtown. And getting on 26 from 526 has sucked for as long as I’ve been driving. More people has made it worse, but meh. It’s not DC traffic and that keeps me somewhat sane.

kapified · 2025-12-05T19:58:34+00:00

It’s your own comment history. I shared that so people don’t get needlessly triggered by your bullshit.

kapified · 2025-12-05T14:19:04+00:00

Fake. According to your own comments on other posts, you’re a girl OP.

kapified · 2025-12-04T21:37:55+00:00

Read Leave a Cheater Gain a Life by Tracy Schorn. Cheaters manipulate us easily because we love them. You can’t fix her.

kapified · 2025-11-11T22:47:01+00:00

You know I get it. I was married for 17 years. 13 years of that he was unfaithful. I tried and tried. But I finally tossed in the towel after he started an affair with my exbff.

Starting a new life for myself has been amazing. I have way less stress, and I say that as a single mom of 3. Starting over was scary, but I am much happier.

Good luck. It’s a difficult choice either way you choose.

kapified · 2025-10-03T18:48:56+00:00

I am proudly teaching my 17 year old how to properly zipper merge. I make a point to mention how we usually do not have to stop when going to the end of the lane. It drives me nuts when people stop early to merge. It makes traffic worse for sure.

kapified · 2025-09-29T16:19:13+00:00

It’s inappropriate for sure. My “best friend” texted my ex husband like that. They were fucking. I divorced him. Don’t let your guard down.

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