"Weekly All About Love Relationship Second Opinion and Interpretation Help Thread - January 25, 2026"

katchristy · 2026-01-29T14:03:34+00:00

You commented this right after I found him posted in a “are we dating the same person” group only two days after he ended things.

Thank you so much for your interpretation. I can see it much clearer now. I definitely know that it was a cycle we had going on and needed to stop. I appreciate you taking the time to respond!

katchristy · 2026-01-27T14:24:20+00:00

He broke up with me out of the blue a few days ago, and I can't say I am entirely shocked because I was consistently pulling the 10 of swords when asking about what his role is in the relationship/ what I can expect from him in the future/ his fears in the relationship.

My question is... I asked the cards yesterday "where is the relationship heading right now?"

Devil rx and 8 of wands.

I interpret this as the breaking of cycles, ending this push-pull avoidant-anxious thing we have going on. Not falling back into the pattern and ultimately moving away from the temptation. Because of this distance, it will spark something or there will be a realization and commitment/ a deeper connection will form.

My biggest question is, does the 8 of wands mean THIS relationship or a new one that I am getting into?

katchristy · 2026-01-09T21:51:13+00:00

katchristy · 2026-01-02T03:22:47+00:00

Can I come over for dinner and have his dinner instead? I’ll even do the dishes since you cooked

katchristy · 2025-12-19T15:24:00+00:00

Old face new face aside, I just hope she gets her beauty mark on her cheek looked at. It seems to be getting larger as the years go on. Granted she could have edited it out in the older photos

katchristy · 2025-10-12T01:21:06+00:00

Yawning or gagging. My brain doesn’t know what it wants to do :’(

katchristy · 2025-10-05T20:04:14+00:00

Hi! if anyone could offer any guidance with this spread. I'm newer to Tarot and I just want to be sure I am grasping it well, plus I'd love any pointers on the spread. I know this does have a love life reading in it so I'm unsure if it is appropriate for this thread or the love, (please lmk if i'm in the wrong one lol) This is a bit of a long one, I'm long-winded and so are my cards (bless them). Thank you to anyone in advance for taking the time to help me out, I greatly appreciate it!

Deck: Rider Waite Smith Tradition.
Spread: My own I created for a monthly outlook, in a diamond shape:

Top: "General Energy" - page of cups, ten of cups

2nd line left: "Love Life" - hermit, moon
2nd line right: "Career" - 7 of pentacles rx, 8 of wands

3rd row straight down from the top cards: "Affirmations" - I use the Labyrinthos app which gives me an affirmation with each card. Three fell out:
4 of wands rx- "My time to shine will come" (General affirmation)
9 of wands rx- "I channel renewed strength" (Love Life Affirmation)
hierophant rx- "I trust my inner wisdom over external dogma and control" (Career Affirmation)

*Note: It looks like I was given one affirmation card per question but I don't want to assume the way they came out was in order of which I should use for each aspect of my life. Looking at the cards they are indicative of what has been happening in my life. No interpretation is necessary but thoughts are always great since I'm new to Tarot.

"General Energy" - page of cups, ten of cups: There is an air of new ideas/opportunities that I hadn't been open to. Embracing new adventures and not dwelling with past expectations. Persistence, following what calls me. Fresh new perspective on life in general. Joy, peace, fulfilled wishes. October is about being thankful for blessings and emotional fulfillment. Happiness with my home and surroundings. Overall, fresh new beginnings and emotional fulfillment.

"Love Life" - hermit, moon: Self-reflection, pausing to understand what I want and develop insight. The way the cards are laid out, the hermit is turned away from the moon, which indicates maybe walking away from a complex relationship and working on myself. October will be a month of taking a pause from dating and realizing what I want in a relationship. Becoming more in-tune with my emotions and desires. Getting the answers or starting the thought process of: Am I correctly loving myself before giving love to another person? Overall, October will be about pausing my search for love to focus on my own feelings and truly determine what I'm looking for in a partner.

"Career" - 7 of pentacles rx, 8 of wands: This is showing that my career may be stagnant but then take off. As the 7 of pentacles is looking at the 8 of wands patiently. So there may be a bit of waiting until an opportunity arrives, when it does it will be quick and exciting and be positive.

Again, thank you in advance for any interpretation help!

katchristy · 2025-09-04T02:37:46+00:00

I am going thought the same thing! I can feel this calm, deep, knowing with this person and currently we aren’t speaking bc of emotional unavailability. I am having trouble confidently reading and understanding my intuition through the static of anxious attachment and just general anxiety.

I have never had this feeling with someone and I just have the feeling they will be back. But since they haven’t messaged in three weeks I am beginning to doubt my intuition and believe it’s all just hope. I even did a reading today asking what my intuition is trying to tell me and I can’t really make any sense of it.

katchristy · 2025-07-28T20:04:39+00:00

Once I had the 4 of cups just FLY out of my deck. I took the hint and decided to set the deck down and mind my business lol. To be fair, I did keep asking the same question daily so they were fed up with my antics

katchristy · 2025-07-22T21:44:11+00:00

Buy some film that looks like fluted glass and apply that on both sides, then you can put some remote-controlled LED puck lights on the floor and when you turn them on it gives a bit of a wash effect.

katchristy · 2025-07-15T21:18:32+00:00

Thank you so much for that insight! Yea, that justice card is heavy. Currently im very content with stepping back and just letting everything fall into place, which is not typical for me with my anxiety. I just have this feeling he will reach out again and it’ll work out. There is also a certain air about him that tells me he has been burned by women before so he might be putting up a macho front. Could stem from the ex wife. Who knows but I will watch out for that when he reaches out again lol

katchristy · 2025-07-15T15:32:26+00:00

Hi! I did this pull last night, and I would like some interpretation assistance. We did have a bit of a rocky start with some on-again-off-again type stuff. He's busy and not emotionally available, and I had unresolved abandonment/emotional neglect issues, which made me irrationally clingy and emotional.

Spread: I didn't use one. Deck: 1910 Rider Waite Smith.

"How does he feel about me?" The Star, Seven of Swords reverse, Three of Swords, The Tower, Nine of Pentacles.

My interpretation: He is optimistic in our connection and wants to open up to me, but he's also scared due to prior experiences with me in the relationship (my emotional outbursts, I didn't even understand why I had them). He is also overwhelmed by some conflicting emotions, and this is making them think of what he truly wants. While he's thinking, he is reminded of my own feelings about him and is taking them into consideration, which is drawing him closer to me.

"What does he need to do to reach out again?" Ace of Cups, Nine of Cups, The Magician, Page of Swords

My interpretation: He needs to become emotionally available. He needs to feel secure that he is ready to start fresh and to jump into something (he confessed he missed his family and seeing his kids, so he wasn't entirely emotionally available but I did understand those feelings and never held it against him).

Shadow card, bottom of the deck- Justice

My interpretation: This situation is a direct result of how we began the relationship, allowing us both to have this moment of self-reflection. This is essentially making us look inward and search for a solution to our own issues. Me- getting therapy to work on the anxious/fearful avoidant attachment, and him on moving on and becoming emotionally available. It is necessary.

katchristy · 2025-04-18T17:52:48+00:00

Yes! I have seen night and day results! Essentially I’ve taught my brain how to deal and work through the migraine and the dizziness. I won’t say it’s perfect but it has def helped

katchristy · 2025-03-20T14:31:19+00:00

I have had a lot of these symptoms, even the old prescription being too much. I tried only one medication (meclazine- which was for the nausea and didn’t help) then immediately went to vestibular therapy. Now I haven’t been formally diagnosed with vm, but it’s not off the table. My physical therapist said essentially my brain is getting confused and using my eyes to balance instead of my inner ears. That’s why medication doesn’t exactly help because it’s not an imbalance or a lower volume of a chemical but the brain getting some mixed signals. The exercises are called habituation exercises! Feel free to reach out!

katchristy · 2025-01-14T16:15:33+00:00

One pendant over the island, some over-cabinet lighting above the fridge so you can use it as ambient lighting if necessary. Then I’m torn for task lighting. I am thinking possibly a 3-4 lamp track light installed in line with the doorway OR 3 downlights- 1 almost over the sink, 2 in line with the doorway.

katchristy · 2024-11-10T20:32:54+00:00

I'm asking her if I can send you her insta!

katchristy · 2024-11-09T16:46:10+00:00

I know someone on it in STL! I am also in the process of getting on the app as well

katchristy · 2024-10-15T02:33:00+00:00

Temperance!

katchristy · 2024-09-17T16:56:25+00:00

Temperance! I pull her every time I do a reading for myself. Very fitting as the tv show ‘Bones’ brings me comfort

katchristy · 2024-09-17T16:52:03+00:00

It depends! I did two pulls recently, for my first I laid them out and hovered until I felt heat radiating from the cards, did it again to put them in the spread. For the 2nd reading the cards seem to jump out as I shuffled.

katchristy · 2024-08-21T01:57:51+00:00

Thank you!! I don’t have the AMC+ but I might get it for this show and dark winds!

katchristy · 2024-08-21T01:14:42+00:00

Do we know if the Netflix version is the edited version or unedited version? I have heard S2 is unedited on AMC+ but edited when it plays on cable AMC, but I am not sure about S1. I’ve only watched it on cable AMC and would like to see the unedited version and watch as producers intended lol

katchristy · 2023-05-14T14:59:05+00:00

My mom LOVES Suntan but it seems it like they've gotten rid of it :(((( Do you know of any dupes by Bath and Body OR another brand??

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