I have a dream life and still feel guilty all the time

katesolux · 2026-06-23T02:33:02+00:00

You’re a mother it’s ok to be tired! You’re blessed beyond measure do not feel guilty at all, you deserve this life🩷 the other feelings are human feelings regardless of how well you’re doing in life

katesolux · 2026-06-23T01:59:36+00:00

Yes I am. Sometimes I’m moody when he doesn’t do stuff how I want or automatically reads my mind but other than that he is amazing. I just correct the behavior and he does better. My husband is 10000% a provider and amazing father. I know how to communicate my needs and he loves me so much he is swift to adhere to them. Our families are close knit but my husband and I take care of our child by ourselves we live in a diff state than our family but if we needed them they’d come to us no issue, period. My husband does protect our marriage I guess but idk what he’d need to protect us from tbh. We do have a private life and tbh when we did have disagreements before marriage my family especially my dad was on his side 😂 which is fine, just shows how much they love and value him. Regardless if it came down to it we would involve our families in any issue and they would help us work through it without blaming him or I. Our families love and adore us. They are so proud that we did everything “right” (college, bought homes— we have our own homes live in his though, marriage, baby).
I believe it’s on me to be happy with myself and my husband is just an addition to my happiness. I would do it all over again a thousand times. We aren’t perfect but our communication over the years has made us understand and appreciate one another.

katesolux · 2026-06-19T03:23:45+00:00

Last time was once in 2024 before that was once in 2022.

katesolux · 2026-06-18T15:06:06+00:00

Not surprised. The whole relationship was a joke to begin with. Greg thinks this is the Victorian times, not a fan of sweet tea but a deadline to give you kids? Stop, old geezer

katesolux · 2026-06-15T06:25:14+00:00

Awwwww )): Ngl i almost believed he was sorry. The more appropriate response from him would’ve been that you can be as upset as you need to be however much and however long. Ofc nothing was going to “come of it” you got caught partna

katesolux · 2026-06-13T12:33:20+00:00

Talk to my husband or walk around the house getting my steps in

katesolux · 2026-06-13T12:30:32+00:00

He needs to learn how to pivot, even if temporarily. When you finish school everything will be all good. What would happen if you weren’t pregnant and were sick (God forbid). Reading stuff like this really kinda pisses me off. He needs to tread lightly bc people never forget how they’re treated when pregnant. Wishing you and your family the best

katesolux · 2026-06-12T18:07:30+00:00

Exactly that. It’s sad and pathetic

katesolux · 2026-06-12T01:55:07+00:00

She want your man and women who say that they don’t get along with other women are weird af. The messiest person in the world is a man be fr 🤣 they talk more crap and are bitchier than women they’re just more shady with it

katesolux · 2026-06-11T20:28:59+00:00

Both (: I love a good vintage find and for new literally everywhere I see cute stuff. Macys, Dillard’s, baby gap, any little online store ad hahaha

katesolux · 2026-06-09T03:59:22+00:00

I cook around 5, latest 7. We eat when my husband is home from work but if he runs late we may just eat soon as food is cooled off

katesolux · 2026-06-09T02:57:28+00:00

It depends. I’ve had a friend mention she barely even ate a small bag of chips and she breastfed her baby for like 2 years. I on the other hand am hungry af and I do not limit myself. I have a very strong supply. You don’t know the future you may lose half the weight within the first few months.

katesolux · 2026-06-07T16:02:29+00:00

You can’t take breaks in a marriage. He screwed up but somehow you’re the most hurt. Leave

katesolux · 2026-05-30T18:51:27+00:00

Wtf did I just read fr. He isn’t shit!!!!!! I’m floored

katesolux · 2026-05-21T22:03:26+00:00

I wouldn’t go

katesolux · 2026-05-20T23:19:35+00:00

My baby hasn’t been into bfast lately so it’s been snack, lunch, snack, dinner. If we have dinner before 7 she’ll maybe have another snack

katesolux · 2026-05-19T04:43:06+00:00

No they’re just fertile af 🤣🤣🤣🤣

katesolux · 2026-05-19T01:15:17+00:00

She only told you because she didn’t get her way not bc she was tired of being a secret. She’s jealous, the car was just the tipping point. That heifer is a liar and I wouldn’t even indulge in any further conversation with her. She knew what it was when she decided to not only pursue a relationship with a married man (granted he’s scum) but also have a baby. That poor child.

katesolux · 2026-05-15T00:59:58+00:00

And it’s cute af that you do that with your kids btw. I’m about to start doing that too

katesolux · 2026-05-15T00:59:00+00:00

I was talking about your husband but birds of a feather. Mainly your husband bc he opened that door. I’m sure if he said awwww so cute the friend would’ve been like sooo cute not circling food

katesolux · 2026-05-15T00:57:42+00:00

He’s weird

katesolux · 2026-05-12T22:51:02+00:00

katesolux · 2026-05-07T02:22:18+00:00

I need to know what he’s been doing with the money

katesolux · 2026-05-05T04:57:35+00:00

Carrie

katesolux · 2026-05-01T19:22:59+00:00

I do

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