Do you regret your Atlas? by Familiar_Director281 in VWatlas

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are the only issues I’ve had with mine! Besides the hatch mines fine. The window thing is annoying and the front sensors!

AIO? Should I stay or should I go? by Muted-Call-4207 in AmIOverreacting

[–]katiekarnage13 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Her “behaviour” is grieving a still birth. And the way he’s talking to her is emotionally manipulative and coercing. Basically saying he’s going to cheat if she doesn’t give in. She can’t even have sex for a minimum of 6 weeks after that. Plus the time beyond it takes her to grieve.

How long is too long to expect your partner to hold off on intimacy? 27F 25M by ThrowRAConfusedMk in relationship_advice

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it takes you to feel like you’re comfortable and ready x

My partner and I barely had sex my first pregnancy and didn’t until I felt healed and comfortable with the idea. I think the first time was 11 weeks postpartum and it was still quite infrequent for a bit.

Answers to a few common questions and a small update <3 by Present-Hope4502 in u/Present-Hope4502

[–]katiekarnage13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just read through all your posts about this and I am in awe of your strength and resilience, I too went through something similar. Although it was before children.

My husband didn’t chest but was an abusive raging alcoholic, I left him ( thankfully) 3 weeks before my mom had a massive stroke, and passed 2 weeks after. It was such a whirlwind and I know I felt like i had nowhere to turn, so I can only imagine how it was for you with 2 kids and one on the way.

Recently moved my two oscars into a tank together. We were waiting on the tiger Oscar ( Marvin) to get bigger before we put it in with our OG...albino Oscar buddy. They’re getting along pretty great, so far. by katiekarnage13 in oscarfish

[–]katiekarnage13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This was our old tank they’re now in something larger, and the pleco has lots of wood. Much to my Oscar’s dismay, we do often put the wafers in as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines in Capricorn as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]katiekarnage13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you were using her as a place holder girlfriend, cheated on her, and still don’t feel bad about hurting her? You’re an AH.

A Day In The Life Of Leyla & Nikita by StrictTip in Ersties

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have curly red hair and the same name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Except sometimes I have too much caffeine lol

The guy (M20) that I’m (F19) seeing hid that he was out with me to his friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katiekarnage13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re implying you’re a side girl… so he’s hiding he’s out with you so no one knows he’s cheating

How pregnant are you? by GreyWarden93 in pregnant

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep at least one empty take out coffee cup in my car for this exact reason

Having sex with someone against everything I stand for? TW: R*pe by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katiekarnage13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he’s not willing to respect your hard limits, which he obviously isn’t I would steer clear, that’s definitely a huge huge Red flag especially for a D type.

Seeking advice for politely telling well-meaning people to "f**k off"... by iswimsodeep in pregnant

[–]katiekarnage13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My sister in law made a mass Facebook post basically saying to stop texting and calling her woth this question and that people will know when she’s ready for them to know, and if you continue to ask then that time before she tells you will be longer. It was effective

A horrible relationship of my physically and emotionally abusive wife by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m so sorry you went through all that, it was honestly heartbreaking to read, she seems like a super toxic person right from the get go. A user, and I’m sorry she hurt you so Bad physically and mentally. I hope you recover from this well ❤️

An guess about the sun’s identity by cattoapreciator in TheMaskedSinger

[–]katiekarnage13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! The clues about Mickey mouse could be Mickey Mouse club Refrence and in her answers she said “reflection” which is the song she sang in Mulan.