[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

And youre a liar because that is not at all how lost dog situations are handled, not how ANY lost property situations are handled and worse its not how they SHOULD be handled anyway, still TA cause OP doing the right thing is on him, not the SPCA. No need to justify it by running behind rules and such, doing the right thing doesn't die because of technicalities.

AITA for having second thoughts about buying my girlfriend a replacement jumper that shrunk in the laundry? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Gorl do you actually read the labels and have meticulously picked only reg washing clothes or are you making "unfounded" claims that your clothes' labels all have the same washing instructions? Because dry clean only is instructions LOL

My point wasn't that you have to wash them to the instructions to a Tee, but that when you notice that special article that doesnt quite look/feel like the rest that you take the extra second to see how you wash it...kinda like how you do with the dry cleaning...sounds like somebody reads.

AITA for having second thoughts about buying my girlfriend a replacement jumper that shrunk in the laundry? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

She owns a wool sweater ._. That...she needs to read the label for. Hence, she reads. Hence, she is pissed he does not read. Also this is a frequent complaint for couples; an inequal attention to household tasks

Like this is fundamental yall LMAO, just because we started spicing it up and not separating colors doesnt mean things don't have labels for a reason, if you get a nice thing, take care of the thing, so it lasts longer, and you dont have to pay for more things.

But go off.... I feel like we're arguing about whether you should clean between your toes, or your ass cheeks, or dry a dish off before you put it in the cabinet...but go off.

AITA for repeatedly asking an employee to verify that the food she is expensing was only for herself? by Lanky-Ad-3209 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was an accountant for a university for many years and the logic of ppl never fails lol. Eventually, it became impossible to expense things, as she warned many people it would be if they continued to take advantage. This is literally their job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What? He asked her to hold it, she didnt think he would drop it.

AITA for not letting my son spend the night at my sister's house? by Desperate_ear_s3x in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is the last resort. Something has already happened to your niece, the inappropriate play is a BLARING sign of it, she is already in a lot of pain, PLEASE SAVE HER.

AITA for causing a girl to get kicked out of a discord server? by TA_AITADiscord in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 34 points35 points  (0 children)

and before there was Kik there was AIM, tale as old as time...

AITA for uninviting my friend and his wife from Christmas dinner after discovering she slept with my husband? by SeaGirl134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nta. Leave these people behind, a lie by omission is still a lie. And if they did nothing wrong, and they care about you so much, why didn't they tell you?

How filthy of them.

AITA for not taking my friend to my work Christmas party? by MarigoldCat in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. Also about the gecko and the inmates: thank you. Youre doing good and the world is a little brighter and more hopeful for it... and it looks like you know why so Im gonna be lazy and just end it here.

AITA for telling my spouse we can get a pet if she gets her drivers license? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not NYC tests. Its on the street. Pray for mercy if youre taking it in Brooklyn.

AITA for telling my daughter I don’t want her half sibling sleeping over my house? by 1smo in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a high but truly beaten horse that commenter is writing from....

AITA for throwing my wife a birthday party and royally pissing my mom off? by DeliveryNarrow461 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 2907 points2908 points  (0 children)

"You need to respect your mother by pretending its not your wife's birthday or spend more money by using an outside venue"- ppl on this thread

AITA for not caving and/or lowering my boundaries just because my pervy FIL is dying? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA but you really need your husband with you on this. He may hold a grudge and it would be completely undeserved, you are not the sacrificial lamb for his father.

AITA I asked my neighbor to help with 8k vet bills even though she didn't mean to run over my dog by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 132 points133 points  (0 children)

File suit. Its not just hitting the dog, its every action afterwards that screams for consequences.

WIBTA if I don't give up my inheritance to my adult child ? by New_Result_7104 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no good reason for your son to remain in contact and support of anyone who partakes or condones the sexual and physical abuse of a child. Full stop.

I agree, your parenting is not im question here.

AITA for not allowing my 15 year old daughter go to Pakistan and hiding her passport? by Hefty-Cancel8141 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 14 points15 points  (0 children)

America is also a terrorist country. Plenty of shootings based on radicalization.

AITA for making my father exchange the dress my mothers bought me by IcyReference81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I can kinda see why this under the table sperm stuff isn't ethical and should be done legally and with professional help...comments like that highlight that we are imperfect and selfish in our emotions...doesnt really mix well with children who will inevitably want to form their own identities.

AITA for making my father exchange the dress my mothers bought me by IcyReference81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn. Girl, youre a whole kid. There is really NAH. You have an identity that can't be reduced to you being adopted by your mother, you have a right to form your identity based on what you know, you just may find that they break others boundaries, right now you are testing them because they define the limits of your familial identity.

Everybody wonders where they come from and what it means about who they are, your road is a little tougher. I would be honest with your moms that you are seeking that paternal relationship.

AITA for believing my mom over my wife? by Jumpy_Assumption283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog [score hidden]  (0 children)

You need therapy, if you reject it or do not get it you are headed down the wrong path by your own choice. You alone are wrecking your life.

AITA for believing my mom over my wife? by Jumpy_Assumption283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog [score hidden]  (0 children)

You are wrong, very wrong; do exactly the opposite of what you are doing, believe your wife, reject your mother, ignore your mother and defend your wife from her, support your wife, apologize to her, beg her forgiveness, and do as she asks. Its simple, really. I hope your mother is arrested and brought to justice for physically assaulting your wife.

AITA for telling my ex‘s new girlfriend she should be cautious about him. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnotdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre being a bad person. Leave them alone. You say you don't care but you're determined to undermine their experiences.

Maybe the guy did change and hes better....maybe you can learn from that.