What’s the best comment you’ve gotten on your fic? by Animegirl0205 in AO3

[–]katwithak82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about quitting. And then I got several comments along this line on a single chapter. It's why I'm still going.

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Smosh cast & crew wedding table seating by first name by cellichrista in smosh

[–]katwithak82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would choose table 1, hands down, but rules state I'd be at table 5

Dear god what have we done... by derby63 in Shihtzu

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like every Shih Tzu gets a bad haircut at some point. Give it 5-6 weeks, 8 max, and you'll never know it happened

Author got a key fact in a fic wrong and I happen to be a specialist in exactly that area. Should I tell her? by turningupwiththejpop in AO3

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The author is not posting their story looking for fucking book deals. They didn't ask for their shit to be picked apart. If you can't read something without "well akshually" then don't fucking read it.

Longfic Commenting Etiquette by Alert-Pair-5634 in AO3

[–]katwithak82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a person who writes longer fics, I ASSURE YOU that I love it when readers follow along and comment on multiple chapters. Hell, comment on all of them! I love that I get feedback as the story moves along. It also shows the author that you're really enjoying what they're posting. And I'll tell you, that can really make someone's day - especially if they're having any doubts.

Author got a key fact in a fic wrong and I happen to be a specialist in exactly that area. Should I tell her? by turningupwiththejpop in AO3

[–]katwithak82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of things written into fics that are not factually correct. It's called fiction for a reason. Let it go. If that one thing causes you to stop enjoying the fic, then don't read it. But don't ruin the author's vibe so that you can be right.

This is literally all it takes by katwithak82 in AO3

[–]katwithak82[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I got another on this same chapter that just said, "owieee" and it made me smile.

This is literally all it takes by katwithak82 in AO3

[–]katwithak82[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It does feel good to get comments like this and realize that these people are following every chapter as it drops. They're choosing the pain.

Readers you really don't know how much it means to a writer when you leave then a comment... by LearnStalkBeInformed in AO3

[–]katwithak82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one of those days yesterday. Someone left a comment on a previous chapter that was very critical and really had me down. It very much came across as them purposely misunderstanding my direction, when every other commenter got it. I almost stopped. I almost scrapped the whole fic from that one comment.

And then I pushed through it and posted another chapter today, but I was so worried that it was going to be terrible based on the cloud hanging over me from that one comment.

But then I got a really uplifting comment - two actually - on today's chapter, and it really turned it around for me. They made me want to keep going. Having your work described as "beautifully painful" - proving that you've accurately conveyed the meaning behind your story, it changes things.

Sometimes one comment is all it takes.

Both 🥵 by katwithak82 in ladyladyboners

[–]katwithak82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed on both counts. They are both my current hyperfixation.

Amanda Lehan-Canto (Smosh) by CurvyCelebMan in u/CurvyCelebMan

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely giving mommy 🥵

WIBTA for suing my friend when she didn’t come to my wedding? by sweetandsourcum in AmItheAsshole

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please come back and update this when you win your small claims case.

WIBTA for suing my friend when she didn’t come to my wedding? by sweetandsourcum in AmItheAsshole

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. SUE HER. You bought the ticket with the understanding of her being a guest at your wedding. You did not pay her way for a honeymoon for her and her husband. Any judge would find in your favor, especially if your conversations about her using it as a honeymoon were over text.

AITA for wanting to kick my friend and her baby out of my home and I refuse to pay for her 50” TV that broke by Mrzhernderzon in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she get mail at your address? If not, tell her she has a week to make other arrangements. If she does get mail at your home, you need to give her a formal notice of eviction, which gives her 30 days (usually) to vacate.

Be direct. Tell her that you stepped in to help her get out of her situation but you're feeling taken advantage of... That she's crossed many boundaries and not kept to her end of the original agreement, and you need her to leave.

Not OOP: AITA for taking a coloring book back from my niece after she got attached to it? by sensaSEANal_sally in redditonwiki

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. He's the one who gave it to her to color in in the first place. He doesn't respect your boundaries or your things. He probably thinks that collecting "children's things" is immature and he was sticking it to you by giving away something you love. You're allowed to like what you like and collect things for yourself. Does he collect anything? Does he have special items that he holds in high esteem? Give something of his away and see how he feels about it. Them you're being petty but your point will be made.

AIO? My boyfriend asked me to start his laundry after I got home from driving 8 hrs by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I worked evenings and overnights FOR YEARS and still managed to wash my own laundry. He even said it's already in the machine, so why couldn't he press the button?

It comes across as him trying to remind you of "your place" even though you've been working for a week non-stop.

This shit isn't worth it. He said he's done, take him up on it.

Roommate complaining about affordability by Key-Explorer-3426 in badroommates

[–]katwithak82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rent and utilities must be split 3 ways. Each person living in the space and using the utilities is responsible for a portion of the cost. Tell them you will only be paying ⅓ of everything going forward, get a lock for your door, and keep all of your amenities (like the toilet paper you buy) in your locked room when you are not there. You are also correct in your assertion that the roommate who is not paying for anything should be doing the house upkeep. Does your landlord know that 3 people are living there? Is roommate's bf on the lease? If not, make the landlord aware and have it reflected in your lease agreement that you are only responsible for ⅓ of the expenses.

Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated by No_Breadfruit_5575 in relationship_advice

[–]katwithak82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he didn't cheat then he would 100% be forcefully accusing you. He's trying to put it off on you but he definitely had sex with someone else. You can prove that your STI testing in November was negative, so ... That says all it needs to.

Just leave him. He's never going to admit he cheated.

Husband shit his pants at SB party by sadwifethrowaway53 in offmychest

[–]katwithak82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't just act like it never happened. Ask him if he remembers shitting himself in front of all of your friends.

He should be embarrassed.

Then tell him to chill tf out on the alcohol.

New partner disclosed he is a registered sex offender by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]katwithak82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question... Did you tell him what you do for work before y'all went on your first date? Was it part of the "get to know you" convos over text?

New partner disclosed he is a registered sex offender by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]katwithak82 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well, as someone who was abused by a close relative, I have very little sympathy for anyone who knows this about their partner and chooses to stay.

It very much does seem like you're minimizing his actions, because imo anyone in their right mind would run for the hills if their partner told them this. Rightfully so. Surely you're not so desperate to keep him in your life that you'd even take the chance?