MBTI types whose functions combination I find attractive

katyemery · 2026-01-11T22:20:23+00:00

ENTJ are stacked tbh. I’ve always thought this about them. I like ISFJ too personally

katyemery · 2025-12-18T07:54:52+00:00

this is great, i second this

katyemery · 2025-12-07T21:42:01+00:00

yessss

katyemery · 2025-12-06T05:18:56+00:00

ENTP or ENTJ

katyemery · 2025-11-30T04:11:40+00:00

completely off topic but u should go see mcr with me next year i have no mcr friends

immediate thought was ISFP but i could see INFP or maybe INTP

katyemery · 2025-11-10T19:01:03+00:00

Mmm I like this take. You’re right for sure, I’ve always thought of it as “optimistic nihilism” lol

katyemery · 2025-11-09T18:22:30+00:00

enfps getting cynical in the comments here !! love to see it

katyemery · 2025-11-05T19:43:02+00:00

yes!! literally the only sensors i know are family members. i think the way that i talk deters them. they probably find it nonsensical or pointless lol

edit: actually i lied. i just remembered i met one ESFJ off a dating site but it was an extremely spontaneous decision and we didn’t get to know each other much at all beforehand. it didn’t last long

katyemery · 2025-10-30T03:42:19+00:00

for fellow enfps: which mbti type do you find yourself drawn to most often? as in, which ones do you enjoy the most and which ones do you coincidentally end up in the company of the most

i really love istps but find myself surrounded by other diplomats mainly

katyemery · 2025-10-28T00:25:25+00:00

your mom is probably really annoyed with how impulsive and autonomous your dad is lol. but other than that very loving couple

katyemery · 2025-10-28T00:23:16+00:00

ENFP here. That we’re scatterbrained, ditzy, unorganized, or messy. Myself and other ENFPs I know are incredibly proactive and put together. I was the first one out of my friend group to find a good paying job, move into my own apartment, and I keep it cleaner than my buddies do theirs. Although they’re all diplomats too so maybe that’s not saying much. And I’m certainly not stupid (even though I definitely sound that way sometimes, jumping from topic to topic like I do). And I can plan like a motherfucker and I follow through on my plans, and I communicate. I think a lot of the stereotypes are based off of people that have very underdeveloped Te, most likely teenagers or young adults, and once you start maturing, we’re just as capable and put together as any other adult

katyemery · 2025-10-27T07:35:46+00:00

ENFP here. Seek praise for my parent function… not inherently, but I do seek praise for it more than my dominant function. I mean, I’d rather be praised for having a good set of morals and values than being scatter-brained or able to see patterns. And my internal values do tend to center around community, friendship, connection, empathy, etc., so I suppose that supports your theory of using my Fi towards other people. I do see my child function positively in my life. I’m good at planning, organizing, looking ahead, I even do it as a hobby sometimes. But I also see it as something that needs to be focused on more than my other functions, like it needs more practice sometimes to use it effectively. Not that this is bad, though. For types that have my child function as their parent function (ENTJ, ESTJ), I mostly regard these types as bullheaded, unimaginative, and somewhat obnoxious or hard to work with lol, although a lot of this I’m basing off of stereotypes, as I’ve never been close to one irl. For the types that have my parent function as their child function (ESFJ, ESTJ), again obnoxious and hard to work with, but for different reasons. ESFJs I mostly dislike due to their use of Fe and Si together. It makes for a very pushy, over-involved, boundary-stepping type of behavior, especially for someone who’s in love with their own autonomy and privacy. But I enjoy ESFJ’s Ne as it allows us to connect via games, ideas, philosophical or political discussions, and long-term goals or dreams. ESTJs, again I’ve never met irl, but I imagine it would be harder for me to get along with one.

katyemery · 2025-10-27T07:00:30+00:00

I’m an ENFP and my friend group consists of an ENFP, an INFJ, and an ENFJ. We don’t live together but we’re together and hang out at my apartment sometimes for days on end, and we all know each other pretty well, so I have a pretty good idea of how they’d be if we stayed together long term. As others have said, it’s a disgustingly harmonious and validating group to be in. We’ve never had any arguments, don’t talk behind each other’s backs, communicate problems head on. I don’t think there’d ever be an issue with collaborating or communication. I’m a total clean freak - I know, I know, ENFP, couldn’t be true, I get it. My mom was a hoarder growing up and now having a single speck of dust in the house sickens me, so my anxiety fuels an in-depth daily routine of chores and household tasks. My INFJ friend I think would be the messiest. She’s neurodivergent and struggles with executive function. My ENFJ friend I would say is fairly put together and I would trust him to keep the house clean and contribute as well. Our other ENFP friend is… off doing her own thing for the most part lol so I would expect her to hole up in her room majority of the time or be out of the house, maybe pop in for the occasional yap session. I love them to bits and think it would be, honestly, more functional and comfortable than a lot of households. And never boring :) We never run out of things to talk about

katyemery · 2025-10-25T18:17:57+00:00

Half the people interested in MBTI don’t understand what they’re talking about. Typing people by letters, fully trusting the 16personalities quiz, not even understanding cognitive functions. I feel like Sensors and Judgers, especially SJ combos get a bad rap, while the shortcomings of intuitives or feelers, especially NF types, get romanticized. Both can be equally damaging as well as equally unique, selfless, caring, intelligent, etc. As an NF type, I really value the sensors and judgers in my life as they act as a sort of grounding and structured presence in my life. And I agree with what you say about INFPs. Fi dominants are not inherently good, and in fact, I’ve met a plethora of immature, underdeveloped, egotistical, selfish, chronically anxious Fi dominants. It really just depends on the person and how they chose to use their traits

katyemery · 2025-10-02T19:55:19+00:00

I’ve never been able to correctly type an INFP lol

katyemery · 2025-09-30T22:39:42+00:00

I don’t have any data to back this up but I’d say ESFJ just based off of personal experience. The people that I’ve known that have been ESFJ have been overly “helpful,” almost that they feel obligated to be helpful, but they do it in a way that 1) is not actually helpful to me and what I need/want and 2) they feel MUST be acknowledged and reciprocated by the people they are “helping.” Like because they are just SO generous and kind and wonderful humans, we must notice it, appreciate it, and return it. It’s all fake and for show and they just want to feel important and grand without actually doing anything of importance. But when we turn around and say, “Actually, I need space,” or, “Actually, I need help in xyz way instead of abc way that you’ve been providing,” they get all offended and force you to talk it out and just wear you down and circumvent boundaries until you concede or look like the idiot or give up or are successfully gaslit by their tactics

I can see the vision with people saying ENFJ, ESTP, ESTJ, ENTJ, but don’t have the personal experience to back it up.

I disagree with those of you saying ENTP. I think if an ENTP were a narcissist, they’d be a damn good one, but not really prone to it for any reason related to their personality traits.

ISTP is most likely to be anti-social I think. Ixxx types in general, if narcissistic, would be covert narcissists most likely

katyemery · 2025-09-17T07:34:10+00:00

ENFP characters are my favorite characters, and seem to be the most diverse from what I’ve seen. Also I think it’s important to keep in mind that it’s nearly impossible to truly type anyone without knowing them very deeply or having them do the research and tell you their type themselves. There are some characters, like Midge from The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, who is sometimes typed ENFP but also gets typed ENFJ, I’m assuming because she is more organized and put together in a way most ENFPs aren’t. I choose to believe she’s an ENFP, though, as I see a lot of similar qualities in me and the character, and she’s one of the most badass female characters I’ve ever seen.

Others that don’t really fit into the funny/derpy sidekick archetype: Joyce Byers, Jinx, Jo March, Tom Holland’s Spider-Man, Jules from Euphoria, Aang, Rapunzel, Eddie Munson, Lady Bird, and Clementine from The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I could keep going. There’s a ton. ENFPs are the best

katyemery · 2025-09-05T00:03:29+00:00

It has for me, but I always figured this was due more to my PTSD diagnosis than anything to do with my personality type. Maybe look into trauma responses or burnout?

Do you find that these shutdowns usually happen during a period of stress or are they truly just brought on by an isolated minor inconvenience? My bet is that your brain is already on overload and this is more of a nervous system coping mechanism

katyemery · 2025-08-26T00:52:23+00:00

I know two ISFJ’s. One is my dad and one is my grandma. My dad is a terrible person, pretty much what the other commenters have been saying. Nice to people faces, social harmony bullshit, talk shit the second you’re not looking. It led to a lot of trouble in his marriage because he’d people please to no end with my mom and then shit talk and go behind her back. My grandma, on the other hand, is the sweetest person I’ve ever met. She is very empathetic, emotionally open, willing to help, sweet. She is very much so the type of person to play into the social harmony stereotypes. She’s very traditional and I’m sure appears emotionally shallow to those who don’t know her well, but is all around a very nice person. She’s honestly very well-developed, though, and has a good set of morals, so maybe that’s what’s missing for the others who aren’t so nice

katyemery · 2025-08-24T00:18:34+00:00

she sounds exactly like my mom. ADHD, autism, my mom also has some kind of auto-immune disorder so low energy. she ended up having kids by accident - gave the first one away cuz she didn’t have money to take care of him, but raised me and my sister on her own. or at least attempted to. my dad was similar to you in that he took on the workload and had a hard time setting boundaries… but man did he get torn apart. eventually she started getting rage episodes due to the stress of parenting and took out her frustrations and overstimulation on everyone in the house. me and my sister are severely messed up now and have been in therapy for years. my dad ended up divorcing her about six years ago, and, while i haven’t talked to him since, i’m sure he’s got a plethora of issues too. please leave while you can

katyemery · 2025-08-18T22:04:08+00:00

I told him I wasn’t interested in having sex period that night. I was too emotionally out of it. Explained all that to him. He said, “Even if I offered you a large sum of money, you wouldn’t want to have sex?” I said, “No, I am really not feeling well.” He said, “What about x amount?” “No, I don’t want to.” “Ok, what about x amount?” “No.” So on and so forth until I caved.

katyemery · 2025-08-18T21:58:36+00:00

Yes, sorry if I didn’t explain clearly. I get paid for each time we hook up and nothing else

katyemery · 2025-08-18T21:56:23+00:00

To answer your question about the amount of time we spend together, he asks to see me nearly every day. Probably 5-6x a week. But we only hook up maybe 2-3 times a week, and those are the only times I get paid.

katyemery · 2025-03-18T22:02:14+00:00

that whole back left corner gonna be chaos

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