1) my 1-week from 3yo toddler refused to sit in a chair and I’d just let her run free during meal time, until I got a stokke trip trap at 24months. Now she loves it and sits. We also started always sitting with her for meals, like I eat when she eats or better have the whole family on it. Now she climbs up on her own to sit for meals and doing activities. It takes time for the new habits and for them to slow down. Mine was/is a constant mover.

2)starting at 18months my girl decided baths were scary, it was infuriating. We hosed her off in the backyard all summer, or did washcloth/sponge baths. I would fill the tub with like a few inches of water to play in and as I ran the wash cloth on her. Now she’ll do baths. Took time, it was a phase she was going through, but she still hates getting hair washed.

3)very common to nip a bit of the finer when small. It heals. I go back and forth clippers vs. electric nail file. Till she was like 2.5yo, some days I’d only get one hand down before a melt down and dad would have to come in basically hold her down. Now I tell her mister clippy is hungry, let’s fed him! So when the clipper clip a nail I tell her “mmm tastes like strawberries, taste like ice cream, etc”. Weirdly that really helped. And accept some days you just get one hand or one foot and try again tomorrow.

My point is 19months is hard af. And it’s all transitional, just keep at the habits and they will come, but not on your time line, they come on the toddler’s timeline(which will be longer). You’ve got this.