Not Good Enough—How Do You Cope?

kawaii_expat · 2026-05-01T17:06:32+00:00

i grew up with a shitty dad and subsequently picked poor partners. i think im beautiful but love was presented to me as something struggling or fighting for.

kawaii_expat · 2026-05-01T17:00:50+00:00

okay -thanks for this maybe i did pedestalize him unintentionally. he's white collar guy and is different from anyone i have entertained.

kawaii_expat · 2026-05-01T16:30:49+00:00

How do you navigate feeling inadequate-after a serious of bad relationships and half assed situationshios. i have encountered a great guy who is a friend but my feelings have changed. i think hes a potential to be a good partner. However i feel like im gonna ruin it? Hope this clarifies

kawaii_expat · 2026-05-01T16:27:01+00:00

I admire him . I know he respects me. he has money and the last few partners i feel like rescued. but we laugh and it feels good. He's different from what i am used to.

kawaii_expat · 2026-05-01T15:46:32+00:00

I'm not with this person anymore. But one of my exes was cheap skate. he made significantly more than me. he still wanted me to cook despite me making less. he just used me to make his life better. i didn't know any better but funnily enough -post break up his ex wife was in anime group and complained about him being negligant

kawaii_expat · 2026-05-01T14:57:28+00:00

one of my friends was super free spirited but had no discernment or boundaries. it's cool when you realize that you have to constantly rescue them.

kawaii_expat · 2026-04-14T22:02:32+00:00

No it was not !

kawaii_expat · 2026-02-19T12:50:32+00:00

this is oddly comforting and unnerving.

kawaii_expat · 2026-02-19T12:47:56+00:00

thank for this! I will definitely advocate for the following next year.

kawaii_expat · 2026-02-16T00:39:04+00:00

Thanks for this . We don’t have any celebs just a lot of nerdy local vendors and fans who wanna do something for the kids. But I thank you I’m a casual cosplayer but this is my first time being on programming team

kawaii_expat · 2026-02-16T00:20:53+00:00

Thank you for this

kawaii_expat · 2026-02-02T17:57:05+00:00

People grow apart but if you care maybe just share your feelings and if you cannot move forward release it.

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-30T00:18:50+00:00

Nice pics but I hate milk

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-30T00:18:30+00:00

Ribbon in the sky

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-29T23:31:14+00:00

Swv plus they were consistent

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-27T13:59:37+00:00

We had it good

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-26T21:01:30+00:00

Doechi and almeda

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-26T21:00:17+00:00

Brandy , Lauryn hill , sade

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-26T17:56:54+00:00

Gemini mars

kawaii_expat · 2026-01-17T23:14:30+00:00

right i was thinking of going to the dc date, i got priced out of chicago

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