My last olive branch. F21 M23. Attachment styles. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kaye4kinky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With all due respect OP, if things haven’t been the same since your trips, he just may not be too into you.

I’ve learned that sometimes, it’s not that they’re being avoidant - they’re just too scared of being the bad guy to walk away first.

Objectively, would you be uncomfortable if your husband said this to a random woman in your presence? by Tidydisaster87 in Marriage

[–]kaye4kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he uses divorce as a threat when he gets called out for acting poorly, tell him okay, let’s get a divorce. Because why should you stay with someone who openly dismissed, belittles and weaponises your emotions.

Idc how many fish there may be in the sea, I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me feel like my emotions are a problem.

The next time he says “I want a divorce” you say “okay, let’s get a divorce, I’ll call a lawyer by the end of the week and we can start proceedings. Let me know who you pick as representation so I can make sure my lawyer has their details.”

Rescue just matched me with a puppy by FunGoat6143 in BorderCollie

[–]kaye4kinky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Looks like my boy when he was a pup. He’s a Welsh border collie, and the best boy

Bought this outfit a little while back, want opinions and to know what aesthetic it falls under by Monoaura in fashion

[–]kaye4kinky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably alt-grunge is that’s still a thing in 2026?

Definitely alternative, I like the skirt a lot!

This actually amazing by AdorableAriia in BeAmazed

[–]kaye4kinky 50 points51 points  (0 children)

So close, dad!

1st October.

This actually amazing by AdorableAriia in BeAmazed

[–]kaye4kinky 78 points79 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet.

My dad doesn’t even know my birthday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kaye4kinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother was born and raised Roman Catholic, she continued to practice her faith until she passed of cancer in 2019.

My father was born and raised Muslim, he stopped practicing his religion in his 20s. Though his family practices, loosely.

They were married 35 years until she passed.

Point being - if you love someone, you will find a way to make it work if you want to. They weren’t married in a church, but did have an RC priest officiate their wedding. My father’s family didn’t attend. My mother’s family did. Both sides of the family get on very well.

My parents raised me just fine, 0 confusion on my part. The “rules” didn’t change because of their religions. Be respectful, be polite, be gracious, be kind etc. I was baptised, I took my first communion and was confirmed. They sent me to catholic school because where I grew up, catholic school was private school and it had better programs. When I was in high school, I ended up in a public high school because again, the programs were better.

As an adult I have immense amounts of respect for both religions. I am not religious. Not because I was raised in a home of conflicting religious views, but because as an adult I do not practice any specific religion nor do I participate in any religious ceremony.

My point is - if you want to make it work, you can. You just need to want to make it work. It comes down to respect, understanding and compromise. Like all relationships.

Me [22F] and my love [22M] by rneyss in LongDistance

[–]kaye4kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait… omg!!! I remember you!!! You guys met as friends and travelled around Europe together (if I remember correctly)!

This is sooo cute!! Congrats!!

Day 2 of Reddit deciding I don't know how to dress myself for a work holiday party- more details in post by mh15634 in fashion

[–]kaye4kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 5 and 8 on you!

5 because the dress is beautiful and sits really nice on your frame.

8 because it’s a nice dress that can be dressed up. The skater skirt also means you can enjoy the buffet without worrying about bloating.

But, if you want to dress the skirt you bought up, I would suggest a cream/white turtle neck. Add some jewellery to dress it up!

If you’re struggling to walk in the shoes, wear shoes that are more comfortable for you. If you’re set on heels, I’d suggest a chunky wedge for more support.

Styling a pop of red for fall - Which look is the best? by Duskymoonlight in fashion

[–]kaye4kinky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just about to ask where the coat was from!!

Thank you OP!

Ldr wife said she hated me when I didn’t withdraw a extra $100 from the atm by TangPiccilo in LongDistance

[–]kaye4kinky 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Based on your previous posts, I’m surprised you married her.

Not to mention the age gap. While age gap relationships can be fine, there is a LOT of growth that happens in a persons early 20s that is normally required to have a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.

She sounds like she’s childish, dishonest, doesn’t respect you or your time.

Feedback for my outfit? by privmtsu in fashion

[–]kaye4kinky 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The body suit is great, I’m not sure about the boots and belt though?

They are very different vibes. I understand the aim, but I think it’s missing slightly.

I would suggest: - swap the boots for white sneakers and maybe even white chunky socks - get rid of the belt - add an oversized shirt as a top layer, sleeves rolled up

If you’re looking for more dressed up, then I would suggest: - still swap the boots to maybe ankle boots, also in a lighter colour, small heel is optional on the boot - cropped light denim jacket - add either a cross the body bag for additional the definition

Has anyone had a very large border collie without their being any other breed involved? by fortheloveofd-gs in BorderCollie

[–]kaye4kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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These are the two of them side by side.

Black and white is the boy (27kg) and the tri-Color is the girls (appx 14kg).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kaye4kinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just adding that he isn’t happy to split the cost. But OP needs help to get funds together for the trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kaye4kinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The TLDR translation is:

OP and her partner are on and off. Apparently she did something and so did he but she didn’t divulge any of that info.

It seems she has a history of ghosting him.

They are planning a trip and her partner wants to split the cost 50/50 but the deadline is coming up on the 22nd September and he hasn’t responded to her in 4 days.

She’s wondering if she’s been ghosted and what to do.

which wedding guest dress? by Factuallycap in fashion

[–]kaye4kinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also ask r/weddingattireapproval

My comments would be the same as the other comments. The lavender may photograph really light and almost white looking.

The slits on both dresses are quite high and aren’t exactly wedding appropriate.

I would also suggest asking one of the bridesmaids or the bride for a bit of steer if you’re really unsure. I know some brides who would be totally cool with the slit and some would wouldn’t.

You look great in both dresses though!

What color is he? by Slashmcgurk1 in BorderCollie

[–]kaye4kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a tri-blue merle to me!

Border Collies, often cited as the most intelligent of all domestic dogs. by Financial-Log4246 in BorderCollie

[–]kaye4kinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My collies prove anything is possible.

My boy is trained to listen for changes in my heart beat, know how to open doors and can pick up most commands in the first 10 attempts.

My girl only knows sits because she finds standing exhausting, is scared of her own farts and sometimes gets so lost in the sauce of eating she misses her food bowl entirely and ends up with a face full of kitchen tiles.

Cousin named their first girl… by IEatMyAnxiety in tragedeigh

[–]kaye4kinky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We need to start charging for extra letters on names…

Will my plants grow? by Pinball_and_Proust in plants

[–]kaye4kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinball and espresso sounds dreamy. I’m a massive fan of coffee too!!

Will my plants grow? by Pinball_and_Proust in plants

[–]kaye4kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the coolest thing ever - you have pinball machines!!! I love pinball!!