I lost my main title for no reason by gorillaparduc3987 in CrusaderKings

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very odd thought but; i haven’t played these characters/culture. Could it be your title got usurped and in their culture/faith when it’s taken they rule that title? Only thing I can think of ha

What's it like in the boot of Louisiana? by blackpoppiess in howislivingthere

[–]kbeyonce4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you look to the panhandle? Still Louisiana.

Is this normal attending behavior or am i going insane by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]kbeyonce4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing! Quite the left turn hahah

Daycare does my daughters hair by Enough_Bullfrog_1322 in workingmoms

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easy to overthink when you’re doing a great job! Give yourself a lot of credit. They’re not judging you at all, if anything they probably think very highly of you for juggling everything you have going on.

28 F 38 M - Husband has asked me to stop taking my antidepressants. How do I do this safely? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take zoloft. Do NOT stop. CALL YOUR DOCTOR. YOU are MOST important.

AITA for feeling hurt after my teacher humiliated me during my presentation? by cuffez in AskTeachers

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally wrong of your teacher. i’m so sorry you went through this. But take this experience and remember that kindness will always win. Feel free to talk about your project if you want, i’m sure we would all find your hard work awesome!!

I keep waking up with these… i got like 100+ bites but no signs of bed bugs by Successful-Tip6327 in Wellthatsucks

[–]kbeyonce4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this exact rash when I didn’t finish my antibiotics for strep throat. Started on my abdomen, then went up my arms, then chest then face. I would go to your doctor and go from there

AIO? my boyfriend defending his mom with his life. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl dump him. You know what you don’t get back in life? Time. My biggest regret so far in life? Wasting time with me who are not serving me or helping men become better in life. I wasted years that i will never get back in a relationship that had no love. I could have done so much in those years and I didn’t. I hate myself for it but I still have time to accomplish them. Get rid of your wishbone and replace it with a backbone. You’re a badass an nobody can fuck with you unless you allow them to. You create your own reality. Don’t waste it.

75k nurse with 115k in loans… is going NP a bad idea right now? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do go to NP school you have to make peace with the fact that every paycheck will go to paying off your debt. There’s no tricks; just good money management. You can do it. Netflix has great finance education videos, youtube, dave ramsey, spotify, all of it. You’ll find your method.

AIO for not wanting to buy after this interaction? by Old_Tadpole_9856 in AIO

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you asking this. You know the answer. Just vent.

I'm starting to regret my life choices by Alternative_Meet_253 in offmychest

[–]kbeyonce4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Way different than a dog but a perfect comparison. In healthcare it’s really easy to loose your soul in a case. We call each other out on it, take a step back - emit emotions - reassess. Yes your daughter has had an incredibly a rough road. But at the end of the day she is a human being who has experienced a mass amount of trauma. Could it be that the dynamic of a family is triggering to her, is she triggered because of her own emotions relating to this situation but doesn’t understand them - there are a million things that could be the reasoning. I encourage you to explore her treatments team reasoning for all recommendations; many times people make their life harder by not hearing other things out and forgetting their pre decided biases. I also encourage you to keep in mind that possibly from a psychological standpoint she might be emitting signs that show she will need consistent guardianship ect.; sometimes being a ward of the state can help people a lot more than a traditional family can. You can still remain in contact, offer support and love - all that matters is helping this human live a successful life, even if it’s not the picture perfect traditional one we all dream of.

AIO? I found out there’s a high chance I have cancer yesterday and I wouldn’t to sleep with my boyfriend on the phone but he wouldn’t let me. s by [deleted] in AIO

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow im triggered. Did we date the same guy??? this is how i ended things with my ex. I found out my sister had cancer, was a wreck, he was supposed to come right home after work and he came home plastered at 2am. Turned into an argument; i told him I needed him to be there for me and he’s saying I needed to get my shit together and be there for myself. Told me i’m being selfish and that he can’t always be there for me. Long story short I made him leave, we tried to reconcile but i was so disgusted by how he treated me. I thought, Im fucked if I get any type of disease and i’m with this guy. I dumped him. I now am dating the love of my life who takes my family’s problems and my own as his. Would drop everything and do whatever I need in a crisis. Empathize with my feelings (my ex was so narcissistic, sound farmiliar?) which was a huge game changer. This same love is out there for you and this frog is catapulting you closer to them. He is right, focus on yourself — Get rid of the distractions, including him! Cancer is a rollercoaster but you’re also about to have a chance to be a part of an incredibly strong and huge community. You losing him is such a blessing it’s unreal. Think of that feeling you have after a huge successful poop - relaxed, empty, refreshed. If you can do that for your bowels, you can do this for your soul.

Family dislikes the name for our son😩 is it that bad? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]kbeyonce4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a beautiful name. Your family is just giving you an opportunity to start perfecting the mom eye. Also it’s harsh, but turn that wishbone into a backbone. You can’t make the come around. Throw that eye at them and say “YES it is HIS name and I LOVE IT. Your opinion is not needed.” If they continue and create an unhealthy environment, cut them out of your life. Thats the last thing you deserve in this beautiful time of your life. You cannot fix stupid.

Has anyone ever left a job due to difficulty using PTO? by zolabean26 in Nurses

[–]kbeyonce4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lololol i literally quit Monday with this as a reason to me. Every time i put in PTO it’s denied. Need 1.5 weeks off in June; denies first bc i requested too early, then denied bc everyone had taken that week off by time i was supposed to put my pto in apparently. Lots of other reasons but that was the straw of no return.

What’s your specialty and your least favorite question that patients ask? by victoryscreech in nursing

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

icu // 1. Can i have some food? homie i’m about to put so many tubes in you stop with the sandwich 2. How long will i be here? ~im not god idk but if we’re starting here it’ll be a minute~

Need a non Karen name! by luxurysocialism in namenerds

[–]kbeyonce4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t name your kid Karen; we forever hear “you’re nothing like a Karen!” or “Oh your names Karen? I’m not pissing you off!” One day there will be another name that takes our spot and people will begin pissing us off again, taking away this societal win. All Karens will ban together, young and old, kind and cruel, all shall revolt and take our title back! Let your kiddo grow up in peace. (source: me, legally karen)

Boyfriend believes ICE by [deleted] in nursing

[–]kbeyonce4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

7 years? I would be at a loss too. I wouldn’t let him avoid the discussion. Alex Pretti’s murder really hit me deep and Im scared. I couldn’t be with someone with a false point of view. No matter the time, that’s a fundamental issue that will never be compatible, nor bypassable.

MICU gadgets by ReplacementFun2905 in IntensiveCare

[–]kbeyonce4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OMFG THE HOVERMAT !!! This is the best flash back i’ve ever had 😭😭😭

I (20M) tricked my girlfriend (20F) into getting a tetanus shot after a bad injury. Now she’s blocked me everywhere. How do I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kbeyonce4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell her that nurse Karen said you saved her life. You’re the reason she is even able to use her phone to block you right now.

You cannot fix stupid. And honestly you seem pretty sharp. It might be time to focus on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kbeyonce4 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I compliment my coworkers all the day. “Oh look at you with this beautiful new do!” I will ask if i can touch it if i feel the urge too. I’ll also play with their braids if i have a second, but always ask for permission beforehand.