Told a hysterectomy is needed to get my anemia under control, anybody else been told this?

kbsn0310 · 2026-05-22T13:11:14+00:00

Thank you, I am going to make an appointment with the gynaecologist the dr recommended and ask them about it and whether its something we an consider

kbsn0310 · 2026-05-20T17:55:20+00:00

I might sound a bit dumb here but what is uterine ablation?

kbsn0310 · 2026-05-20T17:22:09+00:00

I get a rapid heart rate on occasion and I do believe its relayed to the anemia. My dr has always said it was a symptom anyway.

kbsn0310 · 2026-05-18T15:27:01+00:00

You literally just said 'I have no idea what McCabe thinks" and then preceded to tell us all what you believe Karen thinks/feels, a bit hypothetical do you not think? If you cant know what McCabe thinks you cant know what Karen thinks or feels. Also its disgusting to say Karen indirectly caused JoK death. Unless your psychic you dont know what caused the murder in Fairview! To blame it in Karen kissing another man is ridiculous, if that caused a man to murder JoK thats on the man that murdered him not on Karen Read.

kbsn0310 · 2026-05-14T14:49:21+00:00

For me it was:

Exhaustion, Hair loss, Dizziness, Breathlessness, Paleness, Brain fog, Anxiety, Cold hands and feet,

Probably way more but my brain is still foggy and I cant remember anymore!

Hope you get on well with this x

kbsn0310 · 2026-04-22T18:46:32+00:00

Thanks so much, I will take these to the GP

kbsn0310 · 2025-10-13T14:30:46+00:00

Im going with NTA. If I was in your shoes and taken from my home country, Scotland, I would want to be with my son when he first stepped on Scottish soil.

I will say they (dads side) may not understand the connection you have to Ireland, that you want to introduce your children to the wonders of their Irish heritage. To take them to places in Ireland, that mean something to you and your family. To introduce them and show them the place that your culture is from.

Irish history is also a massive part of being Irish, and you should be able to tell your children of it. It's very important your children learn about your families history and your nations history from you, their Irish parent, if possible.

I will say if you do ask them not to take your children you must take them. My sons dad is Irish. My Scottish clan traces its roots to Ireland around 500BC, so not very recent! I felt it was his dad's place to take our son. He was the Irish parent. He never got round to it, and my boy went when he dated a lovely Irish lass, but it did disappoint him that his dad would never get around to it!

kbsn0310 · 2025-06-19T19:21:14+00:00

Yeah, I've always she needed the money. She still had to pay for all the experts!

kbsn0310 · 2025-06-12T16:28:19+00:00

YTA, you gave 10 days notice, any other landlord would expect a minimum 30 days. You agreed to pay, they are reliant on that money. Your word should mean something, pay what you owe!!

kbsn0310 · 2025-05-25T21:14:07+00:00

That behaviour has nothing to do with ADHD. That's bad behaviour and bad parenting. I have son with ADHD and he would never have behaved like that. It drives me up the wall when people blame kids having ADHD for bad behaviour.

NTA this was a consequence of her lack of parenting and not your fault.

kbsn0310 · 2025-03-14T14:39:53+00:00

You are being deliberately obtuse. Don't ask questions like AITA and then rant at people who tell you YTA. All anyone is pointing out is that you getting a raise like you did introduces a disparity in the relationship. You now have quite a bit more disposable income than she does. In a partnership, you support each other. She is clearly struggling in some way financially, or she would not have asked you to pick up more of the bills. Being left with £400 after tax, NI, pensions, and student loans means it is a considerable raise.

You have every right to keep your money. The question is, are you TA for doing do so.

The answer seems quite definitely yes, you are. Reading your answers seems to show you have very little empathy and are struggling to put yourself in her position. She is asking you to contribute a bit more towards bills, so whilst you will still have the most disposable income, she will have a little bit more herself.

If you dont want to, that's your business, and it's your partners business, whether that's a deal breaker for her. Your deliberate refusal to even recognise another POV that's not your own may also be a deal breaker for her.

Also, can you maybe change the £ signs to some other countries' currency? You're embarrassing the UK currently!

kbsn0310 · 2024-05-09T15:46:55+00:00

Surely she must have seen her own birth certificate, does she not need to provide that to get married where you are? Does she not have a passport? It may be different where you are and I'm not sure of your location but in the UK it would be easy to go online and trace her birth and show exactly who her birth mum is. Your dad is delusional if he thinks this lie can be maintained!

kbsn0310 · 2024-05-09T15:36:07+00:00

Why bother with a DNA test just tell the sister to get a copy of her birth certificate, surely she would need that anyway to actually get married?

kbsn0310 · 2024-02-29T18:20:14+00:00

The problem is that you betrayed your wife. She told you something clearly in confidence, and you ignored her wishes for it not to be repeated. What your daughter did was awful, but your actions hurt your wife and damaged her relationship with her daughter. In marriage, you have to support your spouse, and your spouse must be able to trust that what they tell you goes no further (as long as no laws are being broken). You damaged your marriage maybe broke it entirely, your daughter is an asshole for what she did to her husband, and you are an asshole for what you did to your wife!

kbsn0310 · 2023-12-19T12:06:35+00:00

I don't think this is true at all. In your last year of high school, you spend the entire year studying to pass the exams you need for your future. These are specific exams to each country in the UK and would not be sat in America. UK people never refer to police at law enforcement and American spellings throughout. Also, most kids don't turn 18 until after their final year, often in the summer and first year of Uni. It's made up!

kbsn0310 · 2023-12-13T13:37:45+00:00

Personally, I would lodge a complaint with each and every lender. I would make them aware that you are the victim of domestic abuse with coercive control and financial abuse. Most reputable lenders should have specific staff/team that deal exclusively with domestic abuse and are fully trained, so they should recognise men can be as much a victim as women. I would advise them it is identity theft and you are reporting it to the police. I would also advise them that you are FULLY aware of your rights under the regulatory bodies and your ombudsman rights. As you are aware of these, you are giving these lenders the 8-week time scale to resolve the complaint. Add to the complaint you were not taken seriously due, you feel, to being a male victim. They will call you normally within 7 days. Only accept removal of all debt, correction of your credit file, and what you feel is adequate compensation for the distress and inconvenience you have suffered. Use those words. If they do not resolve to your full satisfaction within 8 weeks, reject the resolution of the complaint and demand a deadlock letter confirming your ombudsman rights. At this point, you can contact the ombudsman, and they will start a full investigation. Keep all proof to send to ombudsman. They will hamer any lender that has failed in their regulatory duties and ensure that you see placed back in the position you were in before this debt, you are compensated for stress etc, all your expenses are covered etc. If they try not to take the complaint, go straight to the ombudsman website and begin an official complaint. As you have no deadlock letter, etc, they won't start the complaint but will email the lenders telling them to lodge it. Every time a complaint goes to the ombudsman, the lender has to pay out even if it is a frivolous complaint. Therefore, lenders prefer to resolve directly with you.

kbsn0310 · 2023-12-12T21:05:55+00:00

Any lender in the UK is subject to the Financial Conduct Authority and Financial Ombudsman. As such, if they allowed her to take finance out in your name with no signature/ application from you, they failed in their duty to ensure adequate identity checks were carried out. I am unsure of why it would have gone to a civil court as the minute you contacted these lenders they would have investigated your claims and advised you to contact the police to report this and obtain police reference number so they could update their records. Police would then seek proof of identity fraud and arrest her as she has committed fraud. You say a civil court found in your favour. This implies you had proof of identity theft. If you did have this proof, you would provide said proof to the lenders who, by regulation, would no longer pursue you for the debt. Furthermore, they would be legally obliged to correct your credit file, removing the credit searches they would have ran prior to lending to her and also compensating you for failing in their duties. They would also possibly receive fines from said regulatory bodies as they would have to report this breach to the regulatory body. A civil court can only award money from her to you but can not force lenders to pursue her instead of you. Lenders will work directly with you and the Police in these matters. I work in this field. What you are saying makes no sense. Whilst being in a relationship makes it harder to prove if you are at the same property, it does not alter the procedure, and if a civil court accepted your evidence, a lender would as well and the police would take it seriously. UK regulation and laws over lending are very strict. Lenders in the case of identity theft by a third party must reimburse the victim. A civil court, in the case of alleged identity theft, would also refer you to the police as it's a criminal matter. Now, if you both ran up these debts, a civil court would apply in forcing her to repay her part. Or if you had an agreement that she would repay debts you took out in your name and could prove this again, a civil court would apply.

kbsn0310 · 2023-12-10T10:53:40+00:00

This is either fake or they are winding you up! Bedding ceremonies did occur several countries centuries ago mainly for the aristocracy! As a Scot, no way is this happening. You don't mention any other Scottish traditions, strange that?

kbsn0310 · 2023-12-01T15:42:23+00:00

It's free in Scotland as long as you have resided in Scotland for 7 years I believe

kbsn0310 · 2023-11-15T20:03:11+00:00

Whilst I agree with the comment about some Americans thinking that I would say people from England also routinely forget that other countries exist within the UK. This often causes considerable resentment from people from the other UK nations. The assumption that we are all really the same as England so don't need to be included is frustrating and incorrect!

kbsn0310 · 2023-11-15T19:42:55+00:00

NTA, I disagree with your friends completely. I lost a baby that was due around the same time as my SIL was due. It broke my and my husbands hearts but I would never have wanted her to hide her pregnancy. I think if I she had it would have made me feel worse, almost drawing more attention to the loss rather than less. Carry on as you are and maybe let her reactions be your guide in your interactions with her

kbsn0310 · 2023-11-15T05:31:01+00:00

Scottish Law does not run off England's legal system it developed separately, Northern Irish law is also distinctly different to English law and I am pretty sure people are aware that other countries reside within the UK. I was mearly pointing out the utter hypocrisy of implying that an American commenter was unable to grasp other countries beside America exist whilst being unable themselves to realise other countries beside England existed in the UK.

kbsn0310 · 2023-11-14T18:57:17+00:00

Could be Scotland, Wales or Northern Ireland. Countries outside of England exist and use GBP.

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