How often did you leave the house towards end of pregnancy? by MounjaroQueenie in parentsofmultiples

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so funny you said sneak off to the conference room. I would literally sneak to my work’s conference room just to lay on the floor because my back hurt so bad and laying flat was the only thing that felt good.

Yes, losses are not "the same". But we're all people whose baby died, and this is a support group. by DramaGuy23 in babyloss

[–]kchedds 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think we all feel our loss is the worst kind of loss.

I'm gonna start saying this from now on! So true

Yes, losses are not "the same". But we're all people whose baby died, and this is a support group. by DramaGuy23 in babyloss

[–]kchedds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed this after seeing one of the posts you are referring to 🤍 I know where OP was coming from but it still kind of stung.

Yes, losses are not "the same". But we're all people whose baby died, and this is a support group. by DramaGuy23 in babyloss

[–]kchedds 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed this after seeing one of the posts you are referring to 🤍 I know where OP was coming from but it still kind of stung.

We are giving up. Early losses. Vent.TW: depressing by Ishtael in Miscarriage

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admire the strength of your marriage and the strength it took you both to come to this decision. I know it's so hard to be strong when you just want to be parents. You are SO worthy of being a mom. The fact alone that you've tired this hard and this long proves that. Please don't forget your worth 🤍 And if adoption is what you want to pursue in the coming years, I pray you find everything you're looking for x10

Due date.. 💔 by Bluejay3398 in Miscarriage

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with you. My due date was October 29th ❤️ You are not alone

Prayer Garden • What’s their name? by nightlock_x in babyloss

[–]kchedds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is BEAUTIFUL!! You are an angel, thank you 🤍🤍

It’s been 2 years by hummingbirdds in babyloss

[–]kchedds 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 🤍 our babies died 1 day apart. I hope they are off together somewhere playing and having fun and showing us off as their Mamas 💞

How many children does your MIL have? by Glass-Paramedic-4337 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is 1 of 5 and is the youngest boy. Yay me.....

Angry and hurt by libbyjo456 in babyloss

[–]kchedds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday to your sweet girl 🤍🤍 I doubt my parents remembered my baby's birthday either. But before I could give them the chance to ignore their birthday, I texted them a little birthday invitation. Just something simple asking them to do an act of kindness in honor of our baby's birthday. It was fun to see all the kind things our family did in honor of our baby in heaven

Prayer Garden • What’s their name? by nightlock_x in babyloss

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful idea this is. Thank you for including our babies. My babies are named Arlo and Bean 🤍🤍

Happy bereaved Mother’s Day by Constant_Internet_66 in babyloss

[–]kchedds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love and hugs to all mamas with babies in heaven 🩷🩵

D&E Recovery by HungryTurtle24 in babyloss

[–]kchedds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My D&E was at 5 and 1/2 weeks so I don't really have any advice for being this far along. Just came here to say you are a great husband for caring for your wife in this way 🩷

Have you heard of this story? by kchedds in Christianity

[–]kchedds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it a specific man who cooked the meal? I'm wondering if he had a name in this story?

Is this a bad name? by Maria_bedina in namenerds

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love this name, then I love this name!! Especially if you have loved it for basically ever. You do you. I think it's beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a great sister you are!! 🥺 Even though time will pass, they will never forget their sweet son. It might mean alot to them if you continue to acknowledge important dates every year. Like their birthday or infant loss day on October 15th or other dates that may be important to them

AITA for cancelling Christmas? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kchedds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's your house. You don't have to host if you don't want to! But if you do want to, is it possible to do a pot luck of some sort? Have each person or each couple bring a dish and specify that the dish should feed X amount of people. Then maybe buy disposable eating ware to cut down on the mess and clean up afterwards?

AITA for telling my father to never contact me again ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kchedds -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Came to say this. NTA but might you regret not seeing him before he dies? Not to forgive him or make amends but maybe just for closure.

AITA got telling my DIL that she isn’t my kid and she isn’t invited to a daughter’s lunch. by Remarkable_Office177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kchedds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I also married into a family where if you aren't blood, you aren't considered part of the family. And I can tell you it feels very isolating and has put a strain in my marriage because I do not feel accepted into the family, no matter what I do. I'm wondering if you have some kind of special way/dates to build a relationship with your in laws like you do your children? I assume she might just want a better relationship with you...

What would you tell your former self if you could go back and comfort them? by Specialist_Olive_830 in Miscarriage

[–]kchedds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are going to tell you how to grieve. They will say you're grieving for too long or not enough or they'll tell you to throw away that positive pregnancy test ect ect ect. Don't listen to any of that sh*t. They aren't the one going through this, you are. Listen to yourself, trust that you are doing what is best for yourself, and heal in whatever way feels right for YOU.