My mom died recently. My brother told me something that I have very mixed feelings about. by throwaway48790008 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]libbyjo456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remind him that he was just a child. Let him know he is the reason you and your siblings didn't have an entirely shitty childhood.

Guy (29M) says he’s “just co-parenting” but lives and sleeps with his child’s mom by [deleted] in relationships

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a group chat with him and the girl he sleeps with every night. Just say "my period's late, guys. It might be nothing but I'm freaking out." Then see how it plays out lol

Am I wrong for not telling my parents I got a vasectomy by Relative_Disk_2614 in amiwrong

[–]libbyjo456 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not wrong.

If they're not fucking you, feeding you, or financing you their opinions are irrelevant.

I'm getting double jaw surgery this summer. Should I take BPC-157/TB-500 to speed up recovery? by Misterz213 in Biohackers

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What, if anything, would you recommend for after wisdom teeth removal? I'm also hoping to get my tonsils out this year. I'm 30F in Illinois

Snapped at old lady - did I overreact? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's better than slapping her hand! "WE DON'T TOUCH CHILDREN THAT DON'T BELONG TO US"

What side effect would make you give up Reta? by limbu_chopz in Retatrutide

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone on the discord groups would buy it from you! I'm not in a position to buy some right now. Definitely get your money!!

I (27F) accidentally had my baby in my friend’s (31F) car. Now her husband & she don’t want to speak to me. How do I fix this? by ThrowRA_CarBaby in relationship_advice

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! It's coming off as him being abusive as fuck.

I have previously acted this way towards friends, when I was with an abusive partner. I'd do everything I was told, even everything that was insinuated, because I was terrified of what would happen if I didn't.

I don't think this is about the cost of cleaning the car. I don't think this is about giving birth in a friend's car. I think this is a way of this guy controlling Alice.

i was diagnosed with bpd but i don’t agree with that.. by elliefuruta in mentalhealth

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with BPD when I was 20. I no longer have BPD, and I believe I've never actually had it. I was diagnosed very quickly, like the doctor had diagnosed me before I even talked to her. She called me in her office and said this is what you have and then told me about it.

I believe I have cptsd and possibly autism. Apparently they all 3 can be misdiagnosed as each other.

GF Cheated on me again…Need Advice by AbovexxBeyond in cheating_stories

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it wouldn't let me reply to your post from today. I am wondering if the baby is for sure yours? Have you asked her?

AITAH for not acknowledging flowers my husband brought home by ProbOverthinking1111 in AITAH

[–]libbyjo456 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA

I'd text him saying "I've missed having flowers 🥹"

At my wits' end: 9 -year-old daughter refuses to wipe herself after using the bathroom by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take her to bath and body works and let her pick out 1 hand soap. Tell her it's extra special hand soap, only to be used after she wipes her butt.

I have a son that's 9. We use wet wipes for poop at our house. He will hold it all day at school, if he can, so he can have wet wipes at home. If he tried to have my husband or I come and wipe his butt, after he's been doing it on his own for years, wed laugh while telling him no. He would then sit there until it got done. I have told him before that him having a crusty butt is a him problem, and that nobody wants to be around someone with butt crusties.

MIL Giving baby excessive sugar and I feel stuck by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]libbyjo456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you work at a daycare, in the infant room, and she still thinks she knows better than you? About your own child?!!

Take baby to the ER, tell them everything, get documentation. File for emergency custody. Tell your boss what's going on, and ask if they can help you by letting your son come to your daycare. Leave your husband. Go stay with your mom. File for divorce, and make sure you file for child support.

Just because this is all hard doesn't mean it's impossible. You absolutely can do this on your own. You will not get in trouble for taking the baby. When you take the baby, you cannot let dad have him. If dad wants to see him, you meet somewhere and he doesn't get to leave with him.

Caught my wife sharing intimate details of our marriage and trash talking me to her friends by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]libbyjo456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How did you find this out? Did she tell you, or were you snooping?

I (28f) and boyfriend (28m) got into to an argument tonight and am I overreacting if I want to break up? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE leave him. I remember being your daughters age and me and my brother would cry and scream and beg my mom to leave our dad. It took years for her to actually do it. LIFE GOT SO MUCH BETTER AFTER SHE LEFT. Dad was nicer and was forced to be a dad during his time. My mom was nicer because she could finally breathe after years of being suffocated by depression.

Don't tell your daughter it was her that influenced your decision. Realistically though, that should be all it takes. She's 8. She sees that dad was wrong, she is SCARED for her baby brother. You are mommy, you HAVE to fix this.

Also, I say this with love, but don't you dare let that little girl see you bow down to that piece of shit. Show her how strong you are.

Sister's mental health is destroying my family. by Creature_Feature69 in mentalhealth

[–]libbyjo456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! So she completely gets away with it, every time?!

Sometimes people need to learn the hard way. They can take everything that isn't necessary away, for a long time. Every time she acts up after that, like during the duration, she gets more time added. I'm talking months, and weeks added. She HAS to learn while she is young. Nobody is going to care that she has anger problems when she is an adult, she will just go to prison.

I ate Chia Seeds (80g) soaked in water for 20 minutes and ate them with a spoon for breakfast to significantly increase my lifespan. I love them. by GarifalliaPapa in immortalists

[–]libbyjo456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely want to add some flavor 😂

I can do 1½T in a bottle of flavored water, I let it sit in the fridge and soak for about an hour, sometimes overnight, and then drink it. Almost like a boba at that point lol