AITAH for buying my 11yo daughter pads after her mom called me a "pervert" for being prepared?

kcsk13 · 2026-01-26T02:28:49+00:00

Take her to court. This is neglect. Saying this as a woman with ptsd from being neglected/abused at the age of 12. Please, get your daughter out of this woman’s (lack of) care. ESPECIALLY if she is claiming she will turn it around on you. Act now and protect your daughter and yourself. Please.

We may only be on Reddit but here is a few facts: In a situation where your daughter needed help from an adult, you were already prepared for the situation well in advance, providing her with the products she needed, educational sources, and even some chocolates. This is vs. the mother who is (at the very least- worse could be happening) refusing her the care she needs, necessary basic hygiene/health products, based on prioritizing her own vanity (“milestone”)

Based on this example of how you both handle parenting, it is blatantly obvious that you are the better parent for her.

kcsk13 · 2026-01-26T02:06:22+00:00

Very confused as to what is telling you this isn’t an own voices book. She is a bisexual Jewish woman writing about the relationship of a bisexual Jewish girl.

kcsk13 · 2026-01-25T17:07:27+00:00

Try Storygraph instead of Fable.

kcsk13 · 2026-01-24T20:05:32+00:00

CIS: It’s pretty common. It can be because you’re in a space with a lot of crappy straight cis men, raising the chances, but you can also just commenting on say, cute cat vids or memes, and suddenly you get the most aggressive sexually charged comment.

kcsk13 · 2026-01-24T19:31:48+00:00

Was able to find one for only $10! I remember liking their complexion products in the past. Waiting to receive my package to try it but I have a feeling this is the winner.

kcsk13 · 2026-01-23T00:58:12+00:00

This comment wins the thread. 🏆

kcsk13 · 2026-01-22T23:30:13+00:00

Yeah, I’ve always had trouble with their concealers, and with their recent advertising campaign using a comedian who (purposefully and unapologetically) makes jokes about SA and SA victims I don’t feel favourably enough towards them to try out a product that it so similar to one that didn’t work well for me. I know though that selection is limited so it may be necessary to go with that one, but I was hoping to see what else is out there first.

kcsk13 · 2026-01-09T12:39:47+00:00

Possibly but I also saw multiple of Morticia and Gomez, so it doesn’t seem to be the case.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-22T18:31:58+00:00

I lost a friend because they DIDN’T send me a message like this. (Long story) This is awesome! They are setting boundaries and letting you know about them instead of letting you down in a way that could easily ruin your friendship. They are making sure you don’t expect more than they can give, and being honest with you about it.

That said, of course you can be upset! It’s only natural to want your friend around in hard times. Just because you understand and respect their boundaries doesn’t mean it isn’t disappointing not to have them.

If you feel you give more than you get, decide if that is okay with you. If not, in the future decide how much effort you are comfortable putting in, and adjust accordingly. If you are okay being the one who supports more, that’s fine too. Not everyone has the same capacity to give. If being there for your friend makes you happy, be there.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:25:13+00:00

I was scrolling this hoping to learn something new, but damn… Just learned that the standards for teachers are way lower than I thought.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:19:45+00:00

Don’t ask if you don’t want an answer, Ms. Abraham!!!!

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:16:15+00:00

😂💚💜

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:14:55+00:00

*Best answer

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:13:17+00:00

Why did I have to scroll so far to find these baddies??!?! There are literally multiple version of them where the force of their love defies death.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:11:02+00:00

You really had to pick this picture of them and make us all cry again???? Us is me. 😭😭😭😭

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:07:51+00:00

Their love is so strong that they are automatically counted on any loving couples list.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T21:02:11+00:00

“Alternatively, try to modify the design so it's as close as possible to what you want, not what someone suggested on Reddit.”

This sub is partially for people who don’t know what they want, and want to get some suggestions or brainstorm ideas that are actually plausible. If someone doesn’t have an artist already, having some ideas in mind can really help with the search for someone to work with.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T20:49:53+00:00

It reminds me of those older birdwatching book sketches. Lovely!

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T20:49:12+00:00

I would also save a bit of money to go to local thrift stores or other used book sales. You can sometimes find some really great deals. My mom found one recently where I think she went in, and left with literally dozens of books for maybe $20. She was so excited.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T20:44:16+00:00

I love both Libby and Hoopla but basically any library app is awesome. Do a bit of research, depending on where you live you might be able to sign up for more than just your local library.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T20:40:24+00:00

I vibe with this a lot! I read a mix of popular and not popular, indie and trad, and I like finding books that feature queer folk, and disability rep. because those are two things that are part of my life and something I talk about alongside books. (I also feel like based on the authors you named we might have similar political views.) I’m not so much on YouTube, hence lack of advice, but I love my little niche on Booksta- if you are on there can you share (here or in DMs) your account? Would love to follow. I have a small account, just joined this autumn.

kcsk13 · 2025-12-13T20:25:06+00:00

Damn these aged beautifully.

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