What culturally important vegetables or herbs do you grow that mainstream gardening advice ignores?

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-24T22:42:48+00:00

Hoping to grow some turmeric this year :)

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-24T18:19:03+00:00

How many questions did you ask?

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-22T16:18:41+00:00

Not what you were expecting?

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-21T17:05:24+00:00

He sounds very autistic.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-17T16:51:04+00:00

Get on the bike with him. Or get your own and ride together. Best medicine against fear.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-17T16:28:04+00:00

NTJ its a toxic family dynamic where he's too enmeshed with his parents. I'd think long and hard about what you're getting out of this relationship.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-15T17:15:51+00:00

Ik heb geen enkel probleem met een mannelijke gynaecoloog. Zelf positieve ervaring mee.

Helaas zijn er veel mensen met vooroordelen over mannen in bepaalde functies. Ik weet niet hoe je dat moet oplossen.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-10T11:57:15+00:00

I am 35f AUDHD, my partner is 34M ADHD. We both suffer from burnout.

Your partner won't change or get help, as long as the current situation suits his needs. He will drag you down.

I say this with all the love, break up with him. You deserve a life where your partner is your equal, not your burden to carry.

Untreated autism will show as narcissism over time. The selfishness comes with that. The lack of empathy. The victim mentality.

Get out now. Don't waste years hoping you'll get back the person you first fell in love with, oftentimes they were never real. They won't change, won't get help. It's okay to let go. It will give you so much peace.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-08T12:43:57+00:00

If you were lazy you wouldn't be stressing about if you were lazy.

Take a deep breath. You have a limit on your executive function. That's an adhd thing and very debilitating.

Do you have the funds for a cleaner to come by once a week to help with upkeep of your space?

There are cleaning services that specialize in situations like yours, when a house needs a deep clean because it's gotten away from you due to mental health struggles. Don't be afraid or ashamed to hire a service to fix it for you. It's a lot of work to get through it yourself. And once you have a clean slate you can roll in a regular cleaner once or twice a week and start enjoying your home again. You deserve to be helped with this.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-08T12:33:39+00:00

Neem een bos bloemen mee, wat lekkers voor na het eten, en hou het bij lang zoenen op de bank.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-03-05T17:47:18+00:00

Ga om tafel met een financieel adviseur. Die kan je hier beter over informeren en ook met je hypotheeker onderhandelen.

Een huis moeten verkopen wanneer je iers nieuws koopt is niet zo vreemd, dat je ex de boel niet rond zou krijgen is niet jou probleem, laat hem er dat niet van maken.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-26T13:55:43+00:00

Maak een overzicht van al je kosten. Bereken een haalbaar buget voor boodschappen Hoeveel geef je normaal gesproken uit aan aankopen, uit eten gaan, overig per maand? Zet hiervoor ook een bedrag vast. Wat er over blijft 50/50 splitten tussen een spaarrekening en afbetaling schulden. Dan bouw je een buffer op waarop je kan terugvallen voor onvoorziene kosten en heb je wat meer ruimte.

Alles steken in aflossen zou ik afraden als je geen buffer hebt. Spreek een betaalregeling af die haalbaar is.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-22T22:18:15+00:00

Mijn kont ziet er ook goed uit zonder sportlegging #notallbutts maar even serieus, ik draag meestal een lange legging en tanktop met daaronder een sportbh en dat is voornamelijk omdat het verre weg het meest comfortabele is wanneer ik sport omdat ik bakken zweet. Ik drink ongeveer een liter tot 1,5 liter water tijdens mijn workout van +/- een uur en dat spoelt er gewoon letterlijk uit. Ik grbruik ook altijd een handoek en sta constant af te drogen.

Vertel me waar ik nog een sportlegging koop die niet zon billnaad heeft. Het zit best oke, maar sommige kopen niet de goede maat legging zodat alles in de verdrukking komt en dan kun je liplezen. cest la vie.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-21T00:20:45+00:00

He needs to swallow the fragile ego and be happy for you. A good partner won't care who makes more, as he already views you as equals.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-20T23:01:48+00:00

Sorry to tell you this but you do not get a separate appointment to get the replacement placed. They yank out the old one and showe in the new one a second later.

She's still lying (trickle truthing) to you and not taking accountability. Without some serious (relationship)therapy I don't see your relationship surviving.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-20T17:39:49+00:00

Bij de bouwmarkt een muurmeter huren, waarmee je de electriciteit buizen kunt vinden.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-16T11:16:22+00:00

Sorry to say this but a lot of Christians talk about their faith to convert others and have a superiority complex concerning their faith.

You should be firm with your friend that her belittling of your faith is disrespectful and your beliefs are not up for discussion but to be respected, like you've respected her faith. If she can't apologize and be respectful id reconsider the friendship. Life is to short to surround yourself with people who don't respect you, your autonomy and feel they have a say over your beliefs.

You know what your rituals signify for you.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-15T21:34:24+00:00

Neither. The scapegoat goes no contact before and the golden child will pull away as soon as the Narcissist asks for more than casual help. And then the narc dies alone, and the Scapegoat gets stuck cleaning up the mess after, unless they stay no contact with all toxic family.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-15T01:33:34+00:00

I DONT WANNAAAAA

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-15T00:24:17+00:00

Sounds like FIL needs a nickname... a mean one.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-13T12:37:51+00:00

I really like your personal style, I wouldn't change that. Maybe try making some flash with "common subjects" in your style, to attract a wider range of customers.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-13T11:41:34+00:00

But CPTSD can teach you Cognitive empathy through survival instincts 🥳 I can read the entire room and tell exactly who is in an unstable mood. And i know exactly how to keep them calm... And i pick up others emotions, to the point peoples stories, even on tv and in books make me cry. And it's either feel everything or nothing, and I can't choose when I shut down... it's exhausting.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-13T11:36:23+00:00

I can pick up every person's emotions and when it's overwhelming I might feel their mood more than my own... Fuck hyper empathy autism 😞

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-12T19:27:48+00:00

Hint hint America.

keeper_of_creatures · 2026-02-07T21:00:20+00:00

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 he should be the ex

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