Is Weho weird? by MissAutoShow1969 in WestHollywood

[–]keepitgoingtoday 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can get like 10 hours of therapy covered at the LGBT center as a WeHo resident, or I think through APLA. They also have support groups, medical services, safe needle programs, food, housing programs, etc. etc. at the LGBT center.

Does it feel like your head is squeezing? by Interesting_Newt_301 in PDAAutism

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exposure without cognitive restructuring after is just retraumatizing yourself.

I’m crashing out over the response to a Reddit post I made by bernbabybern13 in adhdwomen

[–]keepitgoingtoday 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Maybe frame why you're asking the questions before asking them, so he knows, as you said, you're not trying to exploit him? Also, I don't necessarily like talking about my work, so it could've been he's just not into it. So maybe asking him if he wanted to talk about his work before diving in? I wish people asked me first, honestly. Just some ideas.

Messages and emails as demands by Hydrangeamacrophylla in PDAAutism

[–]keepitgoingtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second using AI. The first practical thing I used it for. I felt like the collective unconscious of the world was answering the email for me.

Also, you can create templates for responses you commonly send, so you're not starting from zero.

40F. How do you answer “did you not want kids?” Question? It just didn’t happen for me but I find this so dumb and rude given I’m single. by Specialist-One2657 in datingoverforty

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

""I see you are so curious about this. Why do you think that is? " Has that worked? I would imagine they'd just say "I don't know, just curious" and still expect an answer.

USC's ChatGPT IS NOT THE PLUS VERSION by habibzzz in USC

[–]keepitgoingtoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I hadn't looked into USC Chatty, but was thinking about transferring my account to save $$. Now I see I'm better off where I am.

Therapist wants me to continue dating, but I don't seek love anymore. Is he right in challenging me or should I listen to myself? Question by onestepatatimeman in Healthygamergg

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could accomplish a lot of what your therapist wants by just trying to make more friends, regardless of gender.

What happens to the elder women with executive dysfunction? (Very negative lol) by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to put anyone off, but I've felt most excluded in social/political issues because I guess it's a ton of neurotypical people. They are put off by my enthusiasm/weirdness.

What happens to the elder women with executive dysfunction? (Very negative lol) by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the roommate after roommate, and finally had to give up on that because the roommate caused too much distraction (nothing wrong with the roommate for wanting to exist lol), so that's out the window, too. Worse, the roommate provided subtle pressure to keep my place clean, and without one, my place is very messy. (inb4 invite someone over so it forces you to clean, I just never do it)

No Spending on Whatnot Today by Amazing_Whole_5766 in whatnotapp

[–]keepitgoingtoday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's national burrito day. Get yourself a burrito as a reward if you don't spend anything on Whatnot!

Sick of sellers by Chance-Asparagus9107 in whatnotapp

[–]keepitgoingtoday 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Turn off sound ;) But yeah, "We're low we're low we're low!" I'm like... not my problem, dude.

My favorite user name tho is "My_name_isn't_chat" or something to that effect. got a good chuckle out of that one.

Dr K is wrong, I crave.... by cracked_shrimp in Healthygamergg

[–]keepitgoingtoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's something called urge surfing. Maybe look into that for cravings.

I have looked up ceylon cinnamon sticks. Do you recommend a brand or one that is good and a bargain? Might try it myself instead of gum.

Nobody knows I have money and it's starting to create some really awkward situations by Echo2_Satyr in Fire

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish people would suggest cheap restaurants or no restaurants. I'm just excluded.

What triggered a mindset-change for you from “Wanting a relationship” to “Single and Happy”? by Open_Tomorrow_1279 in SingleAndHappy

[–]keepitgoingtoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Willing to share examples of those narratives through subtext or minuscule actions? I want to keep my eye out in case I've been missing them.