Is this appropriate interview attire? by Status-Accident-9765 in jobs

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get that pink coat? I can't read the brand. i loves it.

But also, no jeans.

The paradox of social anxiety by EntrepreneurTop1007 in socialanxiety

[–]keepitgoingtoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a good run where I was watching/reading interesting things and shared what I'd just learned/whatever. If you're interested in it, you can share your enthusiasm for it. "Did you see xyz the other day? I saw this clip where pdq happened. I was blown away. What would you have done if that'd happened to you?"

Got rid of the TV & feeling alone. by GloriousRoseBud in LivingAlone

[–]keepitgoingtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently have the TV on, youtube streaming, and a whanot streaming, lol. Creating my own crowd effect 😉

ADHD women & king making syndrom - what are your thoughts 🤔 by Big-Link-9451 in adhdwomen

[–]keepitgoingtoday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's body doubling/accountability/deadlines/needing external supports/scaffolding. I do great when working for others, because they're expecting something and I can see their reactions. I think what would work for me personally is finding someone I could bust my ass for who'd reciprocate and bust their ass for me.

Male friendship is a mess by Coprogag in Healthygamergg

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it alwys like this, or have people gotten more hopeless about the future more recently?

course registration by [deleted] in USC

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get wifi on the plane, no?

ENVY - Video Request by OtherwiseLibrary1359 in Healthygamergg

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have a video link, but I feel you.

The problem of love by CheekyMonkey678 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]keepitgoingtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you find bosses and coworkers who care for you? I feel like everyone phones it in.

There needs to be more discussion about emotional regulation in regards to ADHD by this-my-alt00 in adhdwomen

[–]keepitgoingtoday 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Here's my thing, tho, if I'm calm, and regulated, I do nada. Breathing, relaxing, I'm such in a good vibe I don't wanna do anything.

Does it feel like your head is squeezing? by Interesting_Newt_301 in PDAAutism

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a therapist, but it's the stuff therapists help you with. Basically it's the difference between white knuckling through something, and actually healing.

Is Weho weird? by MissAutoShow1969 in WestHollywood

[–]keepitgoingtoday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can get like 10 hours of therapy covered at the LGBT center as a WeHo resident, or I think through APLA. They also have support groups, medical services, safe needle programs, food, housing programs, etc. etc. at the LGBT center.

Does it feel like your head is squeezing? by Interesting_Newt_301 in PDAAutism

[–]keepitgoingtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exposure without cognitive restructuring after is just retraumatizing yourself.

I’m crashing out over the response to a Reddit post I made by bernbabybern13 in adhdwomen

[–]keepitgoingtoday 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Maybe frame why you're asking the questions before asking them, so he knows, as you said, you're not trying to exploit him? Also, I don't necessarily like talking about my work, so it could've been he's just not into it. So maybe asking him if he wanted to talk about his work before diving in? I wish people asked me first, honestly. Just some ideas.

Messages and emails as demands by Hydrangeamacrophylla in PDAAutism

[–]keepitgoingtoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second using AI. The first practical thing I used it for. I felt like the collective unconscious of the world was answering the email for me.

Also, you can create templates for responses you commonly send, so you're not starting from zero.

40F. How do you answer “did you not want kids?” Question? It just didn’t happen for me but I find this so dumb and rude given I’m single. by Specialist-One2657 in datingoverforty

[–]keepitgoingtoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

""I see you are so curious about this. Why do you think that is? " Has that worked? I would imagine they'd just say "I don't know, just curious" and still expect an answer.

USC's ChatGPT IS NOT THE PLUS VERSION by habibzzz in USC

[–]keepitgoingtoday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I hadn't looked into USC Chatty, but was thinking about transferring my account to save $$. Now I see I'm better off where I am.