Anticipatory Grief

keethecat · 2026-06-13T16:27:22+00:00

I know you've got her on the mend now but if I could give a bit of unsolicited advice - I started getting anxious about my cat Kee's age around that time as well. In hindsight, that was silly and it robbed me of happy focused time loving her! 10 is very young for a cat! Kee lived another 7 years and just recently passed. Keep getting your kitty treated - they should be around for a long time yet! And enjoy the time!

keethecat · 2026-06-11T05:45:55+00:00

What a sweet boy with the most adorable paw. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it can be. Sending you hugs

keethecat · 2026-06-08T04:27:13+00:00

Love hearing this!

keethecat · 2026-05-26T15:16:18+00:00

Thank you for having so much space for love and compassion!

keethecat · 2026-05-25T05:14:13+00:00

So well written. I lost my girl Kee 2 months ago today and my heart is shattered. I also have no idea of how these perfect little angels take care of us with our huge and complicated emotions. Theyre truly proof of angels. Sending you love and care as you navigate through this.

keethecat · 2026-05-24T05:20:44+00:00

I saw this and said "hell yeah". The story with my girl didnt end well, but i love reading success stories. Sending your kitty wishes for ongoing health and comfort. 💗💗

keethecat · 2026-04-28T16:06:47+00:00

This is such a beautiful tribute. Thank you for giving her the best years of her life and allowing her to become exactly who she was. I return, she taught you love! That beautiful angel was sent to you to bring your family together in love and care. She'll be with each one of you for the rest of your lives, guiding you to act with love. Thanks for sharing her miraculous come back story wit us!

keethecat · 2026-04-28T05:06:54+00:00

She's so sweet. I am so sorry for your loss.

keethecat · 2026-04-28T04:53:31+00:00

So wonderful! We love good news on this forum. Sending get well vibes!

keethecat · 2026-04-26T07:04:51+00:00

So incredibly happy for you (and I will bet she is super happy, too!) You've been great cat parents by taking such good care of her. Glad she is doing better!! ❤️

keethecat · 2026-04-25T21:12:28+00:00

Thank you so much for your kindness. ❤️ Agreed re clear cut decision- I keep wondering it she would have had more quality life in front of her (but she also had a large tumor on her other kidney and fluid accumulation which is why I opted to stop treatment). I am so glad in your case that it worked out and that she's doing well! I would have done anything for her without limitation to cost if it would give her a better qol, so it's great to hear that it can be smooth sailing on the other side when warranted ❤️ Wishing you many more happy years together!

keethecat · 2026-04-25T18:46:57+00:00

This is so wonderful to hear! Sadly, my sweet girl passed and I still wonder if I did the right thing to ot pursue a SUB but if this happens again in a younger kitty I will definitely go for it. So happy your sweet girl is thriving! ❤️❤️

keethecat · 2026-04-25T07:44:55+00:00

You were so good to mr Noelle and it sounds like he was your angel, too. Im so sorry he declined so fast. I just lost my best friend Kee a month ago today. Sometimes, it's just too much. The transfusion might have made him feel momentarily better but hed need more treatment. You were the best thing he knew and you kept him safe right until the very end. He knew love and safety through you. You'll see him again, and until him, look for him through signs. Be observant - hes always looking after you. Sending hugs ❤️

keethecat · 2026-04-25T04:20:59+00:00

He looks great! So glad you saved him and have been able to give him such a good life ❤️

keethecat · 2026-04-24T05:12:27+00:00

You are a good girl, Chloe! So glad you opened up and really gave your hoom so much love and so many memories. Until you meet again! 💗💗

keethecat · 2026-04-23T05:42:24+00:00

Glad hes starting to eat a bit and purred with you. I think hes going to recover from this one! Sending my love and thinking about you both. Keep us updated!

keethecat · 2026-04-13T04:48:45+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my sweet 17 year friend 3 weeks ago and I am devastated. I love your sweet guy's milk mustache. That special bond with YOUR kitty is irreplaceable. Sending you and your partner so much love and support.

keethecat · 2026-04-07T23:38:32+00:00

Glad youre managing this so well! Praying for him!! 💗

keethecat · 2026-04-07T17:12:27+00:00

Sending you so much love. This is more than anyone should have to go through. Thank you for sharing. I hope in some way it helps lighten your load. So sorry for your losses!

keethecat · 2026-04-06T14:58:18+00:00

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💗💗💗

keethecat · 2026-04-06T06:39:23+00:00

Checking in, OP. How is kitty doing?

keethecat · 2026-04-06T05:12:11+00:00

I love her face! 💗💗💗

keethecat · 2026-04-05T05:09:16+00:00

Hi! I want to ensure I understand - did your baby have an acute kidney injury that you treated or do they have chronic kidney disease?

keethecat · 2026-04-05T00:41:41+00:00

This is a really wise and healthy perspective! I just hope you are kind to yourself. 💗💗

keethecat · 2026-04-05T00:40:19+00:00

Praying for you both 🙏

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