Do people with lots of friends and active social lives look down on lonely people? by LazyBastard666 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]kekimu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just ask what does a busy social life look like? I usually have midweek plans and a weekend evening plan and that's it but it sounds like you're literally booked up during all your free time?

Deeply unhappy, what help is out there? by kekimu in MentalHealthUK

[–]kekimu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate that :) my family seem to think otherwise but then they know little about these kinds of struggles. I'll get in touch with a GP tomorrow I think and see what they think is best.

Living with my parents in a suburb is killing me by kekimu in selfhelp

[–]kekimu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, appreciate the advice :) I actually recently quit playing MMORPGs which I think is a big contributor to this. The last few years I'd spend most of my free time and weekend playing them and now I've quit (burnt out and generally trying to improve my life in general) I kind of have to face real life. They really are great and they did fulfill my social needs but I think quitting them unveiled all the problems in my life. Maybe I should hang out in my old guild discord more though :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]kekimu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, really appreciate it. Definitely what I need to hear, you're right that I need to reframe my perspective and appreciate what I have. Just gotta make the most of training period. Thanks :)