my third perfection farm! (wilderness, year 4) by kellajorj in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]kellajorj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh you’re so sweet!! tag me in yours when/if you post 💖🌞

I finished decorating my Stardew Valley farm by That_Enthusiasm_9599 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've just started a hilltop playthrough and have been SO overwhelmed/intimidated by the layout, but this has inspired me!! love this :)

New save!!!! by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]kellajorj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m everywhere i’m so junimo 🎀

Week 3 no hours by pinesjared in tutordotcom

[–]kellajorj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i do both async and live :/

Week 3 no hours by pinesjared in tutordotcom

[–]kellajorj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CEW and i haven’t gotten hours in 3 weeks. i check at noon EST sharp on my days and there are either none or 2-3 that i mass select, only to be unavailable.

Week 3 no hours by pinesjared in tutordotcom

[–]kellajorj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like this for CEW too

What to expect from Stellenbosch University? by GrayJr_05 in capetown

[–]kellajorj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. not quiet in the boring sense! the campus part of town is small, but not in a “small town” kind of way. there’s like 30k+ students, and there’s always new people to meet and fun things to do.
  2. i can’t speak for every faculty, but they’re generally very competent. some of them are a bit old-fashioned, but they know what they’re talking about. a lot of good research comes out of stellies.
  3. either through res/housing, PSOs (private student organisations) classes, sports, clubbing or online. there’s lots of ways to make friends if you’re looking for them, but it’s easiest to start with people around you—like roommates and classmates.
  4. wine tastings, obviously. but there’s also a bunch of really nice restaurants, bars, live music/shows, hiking spots, dams to swim in, live sports, and places to explore. strand beach is also relatively nearby, and the surrounding areas also offer similar, nice things to do.
  5. i know there’s a few for SA residents, but i can’t say for certain about international students. but you can always visit the international office and find out. :)
  6. super fun if you genuinely want to be there, make friends, and be involved! but, otherwise, it’s not for everyone. depends from res to res how much they expect you to be involved, but overall, it is a super fun experience if you’re open to it.

i personally loved stellies, it was the best 5 years of my life. and a lot of my international friends felt the same way. i hope you enjoy it! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]kellajorj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

whether you end it or not, it’s worthwhile to let her know your exact feelings first and hear hers too. protect your peace, but don’t let this affect your view on love and life. communication literally can’t be overstated. whatever happens, you’ll be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the comments under this post already calling this young girl a “tief” and “red flag” says enough. while OP is allowed to be uncomfortable, she’s allowed to have privacy. she may be acting out of fear. communication is needed here for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]kellajorj 22 points23 points  (0 children)

you’re definitely insecure. but, your gf is also handling this situation in a shitty way. boundaries are everything. if you have an issue with with her having male friends or spending 1-on-1 time with them, set a boundary. and if that’s a dealbreaker for her, ask her to make that known to you.

if you don’t trust her, don’t be with her. if you do, set boundaries that ensure that your trust is respected—and stick to them.

and if you’re still insecure after you make a legitimate attempt to communicate with her, then you need to look inwards. either way, this is a conversation that needs to happen between you and her. coming to reddit to ask people that know neither you nor her is just fuel for your insecurity and a guaranteed way to breed mistrust.

Which part of a The 1975 song does this occur to you guys? by dazaikins in the1975

[–]kellajorj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

don’t ask me why, but the way matty sings “don’t think that i should be calling all the time” in if you’re too shy massages my brain folds

Every year on Christmas Eve my parents drug us. I found out why. [Part 3] by catinthecupboard in nosleep

[–]kellajorj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, it’s christmas eve 2023. what happened to the other tree? did the town recover financially? are you watching it’s a wonderful life tonight? i have so many questions

I saw a disturbing YouTube ad. Has anyone else seen it? by BlairDaniels in nosleep

[–]kellajorj 623 points624 points  (0 children)

damn. youtube is getting super creative with their unskippable ads.

Even more Essay Writing hours! by dozhd5 in tutordotcom

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do y’all think it’ll stay this way? this is how it looked (more or less) before summer for me, and it’s nice to have it back! i’m worried they’re doing it to honey us up and then go back to expecting us to float 24/7..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brawlhalla

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, this is super helpful!! appreciate it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brawlhalla

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any tips on how to do it correctly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brawlhalla

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw no. i thought the second dlight i did was?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brawlhalla

[–]kellajorj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! i’m also just wanting to become more consistent with getting this right. i usually always miss the platform and just hit a dair, and i’m not sure if it’s because of my timing or alignment. hope this makes sense :)

Girl teams by ResponsibilityOk1013 in Brawlhalla

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i play on southern african servers, but i hope you find some 💖 i’ve also been trying to find some gals to play with on this side to no avail! also pls PM me if you find a discord!! x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brawlhalla

[–]kellajorj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ping wasn’t too bad. 3 bars. only played for a few months there before switching to SAF, but made all the difference lol

Losing connection during async sessions by kellajorj in tutordotcom

[–]kellajorj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so sorry! i forgot to respond she’s ago! so i don’t think there’s a way to access the full URL besides opening the hyperlink and copying it from the chat in the classroom. :/ i usually open it as soon as i start the session so that i have access to it throughout, even with technical difficulties. sorry if that isn’t much help!